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Mark Adam McIlwee
Mark Adam McIlwee, 62 of Occoquan, Virginia passed away at his home on January 31, 2024. He was born in Maryland on May 15, 1961, to Ronald and Julia McIlwee. Mark loved surfing and spending time at the beach. He enjoyed traveling and fishing, along with his love for music and his love for dogs, especially his own, Butch. Including his parents, he is survived by his caring sister, Sandra Hunt (Paul); his niece Meaghan Moreland; his nephew, Timothy Hunt; two great nieces, Layna Moreland and Khloe Hunt. He is also survived by many other family members and friends. Family and friends will be received at Mountcastle Turch Funeral Home, 13318 Occoquan Road, Woodbridge VA 22191 on Friday, February 9, 2024, from 11 to 11:30 a.m. with a funeral service beginning at 11:30 a.m. A life celebration at the American Legion in Lorton, VA immediately following the visitation. Internment will take place at Riverside Baptist Church Cemetery, 20061 Teman Road, Beaverdam, Virginia 23015 on Monday, February 12, 2024, at 11 a.m.

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 7, 2024.

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Kyle English

February 12, 2024

You where my Dad's best man at his wedding and his best friend. I called you Uncle Mac. You where such a good person and so fun. I will miss you.

Susan Blank

February 8, 2024

Dear Mark´s family, friends and loved ones,

I was so deeply saddened to learn of Mark´s untimely passing.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time.

Although we may have gone our separate ways many moons ago, the memories and moments we shared at FHHS will forever hold a special place in my heart.
While Mark was not only a great athlete, and captain of the football team senior year, he was also always up for a good time with a playful and infectious spirit.
Mark could also be very caring, tender and kind.
He was bravely there for me during some rough moments in our young lives.
Fortunately, we got to reconnect a little bit at our 30th class reunion and it felt good to be able to express our good and loving times together.

Lastly, we enjoyed a lot of good times and particularly music together,
from Neil Young to NRBQ to Jackson Brown.
I´ve been listening to "Comes A Time" all day today.
Here were some of our favorites from that album:
Goin´ Back
Comes a Time
Peace of Mind
Four Strong Winds
These songs could not feel more bittersweet and poignant right now.

May we all find comfort in the memories and the love and the many deep friendships shared.
Thank you Mark McILwee for all of the above, from the bottom of my heart.
You are so loved and will be dearly missed.
Susan

Beverly Malone Burke

February 7, 2024

My condolences to Mark´s family and friends. Mark was one of those guys that was like a magnet. You wanted to be near him. He had a great smile and laugh and was so handsome. A great athlete at FHHS and was a fixture on "the wall". We would walk by and yell his name. He´s a mainstay in my memory. He will be missed. I wish him peace and I wish all of us comfort in these days ahead. Rest in peace friend.

George Kyriacou

February 7, 2024

Mackey McKay, my brother, may you R.I.P. We sure had some memorable times together and I´ll never forget you. .

Judy Carriker Jurkowski

February 7, 2024

I saw Mark weekly at the gym out in Landmark for many years. We went to elementary through high school together. He worked out regularly and we always visited when we were both there. Mark was a great guy and I will miss him forevermore.

Jim Robertson

February 7, 2024

Mark: You were a great friend for so many years. It all started back at Waynewood playing little league basketball on the Pat's Market team with coach Simpson, then fast forward to our time at ODU, Virginia Beach, my wedding, then back to Fort Hunt High School reunions over the years. Rest in peace brother, you were a great friend and someone we all could count on.
I wish I could be at your memorial service, and you know I would be, but Mindy and I are on a trip down in South Florida and just found out this morning from Greg Cox.

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Memorial Events
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Feb

9

Visitation

11:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m.

Mountcastle Turch Funeral Home - Woodbridge

13318 Occoquan Rd., VA

Feb

9

Service

11:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.

Mountcastle Turch Funeral Home - Woodbridge

13318 Occoquan Rd., VA

Feb

9

Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m.

American Legion 162

8210 Legion Drive, VA

Feb

12

Service

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Riverside Baptist Church Cemetery

20061 Teman Road, VA

Funeral services provided by:

Mountcastle Turch Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. - Woodbridge

13318 Occoquan Rd, Woodbridge, VA 22191

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