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2018
Jay Fickes Obituary
York - Jay Michael Fickes, 58, entered into Heaven on December 3, 2018 surrounded by his family after a courageous journey with pancreatic cancer. He was born on April 16, 1960 to Winifred (Mundis) Fickes and the late James Fickes. He was a 1978 graduate of York Vocational Technical School. Jay was employed at PP&L Bruner Island as a journeyman mechanic for 39 years. He was a car and motorcycle enthusiast, a loyal Philadelphia Eagles fan, and an avid member of Hawks Gunning Club and Victory Athletic Association. He was dedicated to serving The United Way as a recruiter for several decades as well a volunteer at the Catholic Harvest Food Pantry. Some of his pastimes included coaching basketball for his children's teams at St. Joseph's School, auto auctions, playing the lottery, and casino trips.
Jay will be lovingly remembered by his wife of 33 years, Connie, his son Michael Jay Fickes and wife Em Martin Fickes, daughter Jacqueline (Fickes) Merrifield, husband Jordan and his precious granddaughter, Maren Jaye. Along with his family he is survived by his mother, siblings and their spouses: Scott and Vicky Fickes, Beth and Bob Drawbaugh, Marty and Susan Fickes, sister-in-law Suzanne Fickes, sister and brother-in-law Judy and Scott Arnold, and many special nieces and nephews.
He is predeceased by his father, James Fickes, brother James P. Fickes, and in-laws, Joe and Mickey Cuffaro.
A celebration of life will be held on Sunday, December 9 at 3:00 p.m. at Living Word Community Church officiated by Pastor Brian Rice. Visitation with the family will be held immediately following from 4:00-6:00 p.m.
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to The United Way, The Catholic Harvest Food Pantry, or to cancer patient support via WellSpan York Cancer Center, Suite 194 Apple Hill, 17403.
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December 11, 2018
Although No word is enough to help you take away your pain, but our Heavenly Father can give the strength and the comfort to those with all broken heart. Psalms 9:9. May you be granted the inner peace to help you cope with your loss.
Joel Geiger
December 9, 2018
Jay was a true friend to all who knew him..
We were in Machine Shop together at Vo-Tech-& both started at PP&L on the same day. Had many good times.
Bob Bishop
December 9, 2018
Connie and family, our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Worked with Jay many years. Shared lots of laughs and good times with him, even after work. you would often hear him say it sounds a little hokey. He even picked up a nickname as nervous Ned. was glad to be one of Jays friends, and we will miss him!
Carl E. (Ed) Noel
December 8, 2018
Jay was a huge part of my youth,and will forever be a part of that chapter in my life. Many memories. I have a great respect for him and he will be missed.My deepest sympathies to all of his family,have peace in knowing that he is in a better place.
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The Flanagans
December 7, 2018
We are thinking and praying for the family. In our limited time around time, we always enjoyed Jay's company.
Michele Liddick
December 7, 2018
To the Fickes family,I am so very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Growing up in the Yorkshire neighborhood always gives me great memories. I will keep you all in my prayers.With my deepest sympathy.Michele (Gottsch) Liddick
Pam Bowser
December 7, 2018
Connie,
Offering my sincere sympathy in the loss of your husband. May you and your family find comfort in knowing that he is at peace.
December 6, 2018
Connie and Family, We want to thank you for sharing Jay with us. We loved him so much. We are so glad he was in our lives. Love you, Marion and Patty
Joe Heidler
December 6, 2018
I pray for the peace and comfort of Jesus Christ to be with Connie and the family. Remember Jay and his humor and all of the wonderful times as I do.
Vickie and Joe Renda
December 6, 2018
Connie and family. We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers.
Rob
December 6, 2018
Connie - Nan and I are so sorry and offer our condolences to you and your family for the loss of your beloved Jay. May he now rest in peace.
Paula Cuffaro Hintzel
December 6, 2018
Connie and Family, With heavy hearts, we extend our condolences! We hope you find some comfort in knowing you are surrounded by much love as you face this difficult loss of your husband/father/dear loved one.
Aunt Edie and your Cuffaro/Hintzel cousins
Drew Sahd
December 5, 2018
Condolences to the Fickes family. Jay will be missed. It was a privilege to know him and work with him at Brunner Island. He always made everyone smile and laugh. May he rest in peace with no more suffering
Steve Whiteley
December 5, 2018
Connie - on behalf of all of your YS colleagues, my deepest sympathy.
Wayne Steinmeier
December 4, 2018
Jay was a very good friend,we started working together 7/24/1978 and then we found out we were born the same day 04/16/1960.we had many good dinners together along with other coworkers,I wil never forget our friendship,my condolences go out to Connie and their family
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