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John Lackey obituary, 1944-2015, Lexington, KY

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John Lackey Obituary

LACKEY John Poitevent III passed away on Sunday, June 21st. John was born on September 24th, 1944 in Lexington, Kentucky, and was the only child of John Poitevent Lackey Jr and Mary Agnes Byron Lackey. He graduated from Henry Clay High School in 1962. John married his high school sweetheart, Sherian Kay Dennis, and they were married for 53 years. At a few months of age, John lost his father in World War II, yet experienced strong family bonds through extended family. John met Sherry when they were both 15 and instantly knew there was something special about her. They married a few years later. John and Sherry were a team, and a family in which they delighted the next five plus decades. They had three children, John IV, Jeff, and Jennifer. John built a treehouse and basketball court and life was a joy. Finishing his masters degree in education, he taught and coached. Sherry was a nurse. They had Friday dinner dates at the Saratoga Restaurant. The inevitable empty nest led to five grandchildren. John adored and admired his wife, children, and grandchildren, and the feeling was mutual. In high school, John instantly knew what profession he would enter when he saw an assistant principal's kind hearted and joking leadership style. John graduated from the University of Kentucky. John taught at Sayre School for the next 23 years and then at James Lane Allen for 17 years, retiring in 2007. John felt a deep connection to both school communities. He had a winning smile and a hearty laugh. Known for his sense of humor, engaging teaching style, and knack for teaching math, John was well liked and respected as a teacher. He coached basketball, football, and chess team, serving as 4th-6th grade form head, middle school director, and business manger. 40 years of students benefitted from having John Lackey as a teacher, coach, mentor, and role model. Special thanks to staff of The Breckenridge for their loving care for John. John is survived by his wife Sherry, sons John IV (Jenny) and Jeff (Lisa), daughter Jennifer Moore (Brian), and grandchildren John V "Quinn", Dylan, Elizabeth, James, and Annie Lackey. John is also survived by brother-in-law John T. Dennis (Marlene), and Anne Dennis, several nieces and nephews, and multiple beloved cousins. Funeral services will be held at 2:30pm on Thursday, June 25, 2015 at Kerr Brothers Funeral Home, Harrodsburg Road. Burial will follow in the Lexington Cemetery. Visitation will be from 5-8pm Wednesday, June 24 at the funeral home. Donations suggested to the Alzheimers' Association, 6100 Dutchman's Lane: Suite 401, Louisville, KY 40205-3284.
Published by Lexington Herald-Leader from Jun. 23 to Jun. 25, 2015.

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Paul Koeberle

March 30, 2017

Mr. Lackey was my fifth grade teacher at James Lane Allen. I looked up to him as a role model and always thought about him from time to time as I grew older; he taught me so much and was a big influence on me. I remember his ambition and dedication to his job.... he truly loved his students. I wish I reached out to him to let him know how much I still appreciate all he did for me. My deepest condolences to his family and loved ones.

I want to share this little memory of him: One night, I was struggling very hard with my homework and was throwing a massive fit. Like a creep, I found his number in the phone book and called him. His sweet wife answered and I just started going nuts, trying to piece my words together while crying like a maniac. She got him on the phone and he literally, for about an hour, helped me with my homework and had me giggling again. I wasn't the best behaved then and I can't think of anyone who would've done that. He was such an amazing person

Libby Glenn Fisher

July 2, 2015

In reading the other messages, I got a big smile remembering the chapel where Mr. Lackey played "Johnnie B Goode" - how cool is that to see your 6th grade teacher rock out on the guitar? That was one of many fond memories I have from Mr. Lackey's 6th grade - he was kind, fair, even keeled and made school fun. What a combination-truly made a gifted teacher. My thoughts and prayers are will the entire Lackey family.

Ed Monaghan

July 2, 2015

Mr. Lackey was my 6th grade teacher in the early'70s and basketball coach in high school. As mentioned in many of the comments, he was a kind man. Especially in light of the behavior I exhibited in high school. The characteristic that stands out the most to me is his ability to lead by example. This is what stuck with me the most. Plus his awesome guitar riffs. Rest in peace and condolences to the family.

Heidii Newman

July 1, 2015

In 1988, I arrived at Sayre School as a new teacher, and John immediately welcomed me to the Middle School. He was a kind and inclusive man who had the best for children at the heart of every decision he made. My thoughts are with you and your family, John.

Jolane Colonese

June 29, 2015

It was my privilege to work with John at Sayre School. He was a dedicated administrator, an enthusiastic and well-loved teacher, a good friend and a fine man. I will never forget his performance at a school assembly, playing his guitar and singing "Money for Nothing." He rocked the gym! My condolences to his family. He will be greatly missed.

Douglas Manor

June 26, 2015

Mr. lackey tried his best to teach me guitar at Sayre, to no avail. My deepest sympathy to the family, he will be missed.

Tom Bunch II

June 26, 2015

I best remember Mr. Lackey for the chess matches in 6th grade at Sayre. We had a great year improving our skills. Prayers to the Lackey family.

Samuel Howell

June 26, 2015

John was a steady hand for the novice teacher I was during my short stint at Sayre from 1983-1985. I still have fond memories of our chess matches.

June 25, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the Lackey family. John's kindness, intellect, passion for teaching and sense of fun touched many lives. Rest in peace, John.
Libbie Sherman, Sarasota, FL

Jenny Treadway (Sacca)

June 25, 2015

I worked with John at Sayre School- I was a first-year teacher and he helped me to become the teacher I am today. He was such an inspiration to me, the students, and everyone he met. His legacy is in all the people that he touched in his many years in education. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

William McGuire

June 25, 2015

My condolences to you and your family. I am Fred's brother. Fred had John as a teacher at Sayre and founded the purple flurps band. I knew John through the Fayette County Schools when he was at James Lane Allen. He will be missed by all the knew him. May God bless you and keep you in his loving care.

John Ginocchio

June 25, 2015

Mr. Lackey was an excellent teacher and friend to all who knew him. He taught me a lot about being a fair and decent individual. His rendition of Chuck Berry's Johnny B. Goode influenced all of us...as we sat there and thought what what a cool teacher we have...most of all his lessons continue for me into parenthood as I can picture his cool demeanor only tried by foolishness when the same limit is felt by me. Only wish I could say thank you and shake his hand now but sending well wishes to his family. God Bless

Sierra Hicks

June 25, 2015

Mr. Lackey was my 5th grade teacher many years ago. He taught me how to play chess, and would let me sing in front of the entire class while he played his guitar. He read us "Sideways stories from Wayside school" and helped instill a love of reading for me. He was a great man. It is amazing how much impact one person can have on so many people. He certainly had a positive impact on me that I will never forget.

Ed McDonald

June 25, 2015

Jennifer and Sherry,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

velvet Stacy

June 24, 2015

My ❤ and Prayers are hoping Mr.Lackeys Family know he and all of you will always be in my thoughts and prayers...what a Beautiful Human Being to have been Blessed to know

velvet stacy

June 24, 2015

I Love u❤ Mr.Lackey! You made My Algebra class tolerable and never gave up on me...that's why u will always be m in my heart ❤. I always got a D and that's what I deserved...and u are among 3.. That I will always remember!

Jennifer Janney

June 24, 2015

I only knew Mr. Lackey as John's dad. I remember a sweet, kind father who always made me feel welcome in a very loving home.
Love and prayers to the family.

Amir Sadr

June 24, 2015

I am very sorry to hear this. My love & gratitude to the family. God bless with peace and patience.

Dori Rosenthal

June 24, 2015

Although I only attended Sayre School for one year, I have fond memories of Mr Lackey. He was always so patient with me during math, my absolute worst subject! He made an awkward outside girl feel welcome in an elite group of excellent students. His kindness radiated through his great smile. Sending love to his family at this sad time.

Mary Bernhardt

June 24, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with John's family. Working with him at James Lane Allen was a pleasure, and I will never forget his love of math.

carolyn johns

June 24, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you sherry and family. Love carolyn j

Michael Zarocostas

June 24, 2015

Mr. Lackey was a good teacher and a kind and gentle soul. I remember trying to give Mr. Arnold some tactical advice during his chess match against Mr. Lackey, and Mr. Lackey said to me, "Hey, no kibbitzing!" He taught me Yiddish and manners at the same time. May he rest in peace. Z

Stephen Banahan

June 24, 2015

Mr. Lackey was my sixth grade teacher and basketball coach. Scoring a basket was a great feeling, but an even better one was looking over at the bench and seeing the excitement and the encouragement he gave us for every achievement. I'll never forget the day in chapel when he played (and sang) Johnnie B. Good on his electric guitar. He was good man, and I'm glad that I knew him. To my old friend John IV and all the rest of the family, I'm sorry for your loss.

Bob Young

June 23, 2015

John was a close and dear friend growing up during those early teen years. I only regret that we had not kept in touch. My thoughts are with you, Sherry.

Philip Geoghegan

June 23, 2015

John was my 6th grade teacher at Sayre School in 1971. He was also my football and basketball coach that year. He was the best teacher I ever had. We also had a rocknroll band that sang during recital. He had a tremendously positive impact on my life!I will never forget him. My condolences to his family.

Robert Cornell

June 23, 2015

Mr. Lackey touched so many lives. We were blessed to know him when he taught our son's 5th grade class. He was one in a million.

Katy Banahan

June 23, 2015

When I was 11, I was convinced that I could not understand math. Mr. Lackey convinced me otherwise, pretty much single-handedly. He also taught me the words to Yellow Submarine. What these two things have in common is an ability to make children's lives better, whether in large ways or small. He will be remembered by many students, me included, for a long time (or put another way, I am a member of the universal subset "grateful students").

Jeanne Guess

June 23, 2015

Sherry, Jennifer and family, my heart is with you

June 23, 2015

Mr. Lackey was my children's favorite elementary teacher at James Lane Allen. He made his students feel important and special. Family was important to him. My prayers and thoughts are with his family.

Debbie Kyle

Pat Harley

June 23, 2015

Mr. Lackley was very special to me. What a blessing to have been part of his life even if it was for a short time. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife, children and the rest of his family.

Mary Gillum

June 23, 2015

Mr. Lackey will live on in the hearts of his many students. He was one of my favorites, and was a wonderful teacher. He educated us, taught us about life, and made us each feel like we were important. He also taught us the importance of family with the love he showed for his. My condolences to his much loved family.
Mary Johnson Gillum. Class of 75.

June 23, 2015

So sorry for your loss.
Linda Allison(BETA SIGMA PHI sister)

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