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Paul Abe

1941 - 2019

Paul Abe obituary, 1941-2019, Tempe, AZ

Paul Abe Obituary

Paul Byrne Abe

Tempe - Paul Byrne Abe, passed away on February 6th, 2019 at the age of 77. He was born in Sacramento, CA on July 20th, 1941 and lived in Tempe, AZ. Paul was preceded in death by his brother Alan, father Hershel, mother Gladys, beloved dog Cassie and cats Jetta and Prini. He leaves behind his wife of 17 years, Diane; daughter Stacie Robles and husband Juan; daughter Tania Cuellar and husband Mark; granddaughters Kaila and Isabella Cuellar; beloved sister-in-law Kathy Abe; nephew Brian Abe and wife Cheryl and great nephews Chase and Austin; nephew Kevin Abe and wife Yuko and great nieces Maia and Emika; sister-in-law Linda Heppe; mother-in-laws Deja Heppe and Pat Wolf; and his fur children Kiki, and the "kittens" Zoe and Cali.

Paul, a Japanese American, spent the first few years of his life in the Jerome Relocation Center during World War II. The family was sponsored out and relocated to Pueblo and then moved to Sterling, CO where he spent his adolescent years. He earned his Bachelor's in Theatre from the University of Northern Colorado, Greeley and a Masters in Technical Theatre from Purdue University, Lafayette. Upon earning his Masters, Paul was a faculty member at various colleges teaching lighting design and technical theatre but found his true calling and passion directing the opening and renovations of convention centers, performing arts theatres, and arenas. Some of the many buildings he managed included the Farmington Civic Center in New Mexico, Lima Civic and Convention Center in Ohio, and the OnCenter in Syracuse, New York.

He desired to relocate to the warm southwest sun and moved to Albuquerque, NM in 1995 where he met the love of his life and soulmate, Diane while working together at Popejoy Hall. They later settled in Tempe and were married on the beautiful island of Maui, HI in 2001 and shared a wonderful life together with their fur children. After retiring from ASU Gammage, he was able to fully enjoy his hobbies which included becoming a certified HAM radio operator, off-roading in his Jeep Wrangler (JJ), golfing, cooking and hosting many gatherings. He and Diane enjoyed spending time at their cabin in Payson, AZ also known as their little piece of paradise. They enjoyed traveling the world and filled up their passports by visiting Costa Rica, Cuba, United Kingdom, Ireland, Japan, Canada, and also traveled throughout the USA including Hawaii and Alaska. Their greatest highlight every year was "Camp Grandma and Grandpa" where their granddaughters would visit from Texas for a fun filled week of adventure.

Paul was a quick witted, honorable man with a lovely spirit who cherished his wife and family. He will be dearly missed by all who were blessed to know him.

A celebration of his life will be held Saturday, February 23rd at 2 pm at ASU's Karsten Golf Course, 1125 East Rio Salado Parkway, Tempe, AZ 85281 with a reception following the service. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Arizona Humane Society at www.azhumane.org.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Feb. 17 to Feb. 20, 2019.

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March 14, 2019

My condolences to the family and friends.

March 2, 2019

My heartfelt sympathies to the family during this difficult time...May your fondest memories bring you joy and may prayers to the God of all comfort strengthen you.
He promises, "I have heard your prayer. I have seen your tears. I am healing you."
(2 Kings 20:5)

February 27, 2019

Dear family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. May you find comfort during this most difficult time. Luke 1:78

February 26, 2019

My deepest sympathy to the family. May you keep in mind the hope of life everlasting which can help sustain you through this difficult time John 17:3
RC California

D. Romans 15:33 Andrews

February 25, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Melissa Werner

February 21, 2019

So terribly sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was a tremendously kind and generous man and he helped me a great deal when I was a new event planner at ASU. My condolences to Paul's family and friends. He will be missed.

February 21, 2019

The loss of a love one is difficult. May the precious memories you have help you cope and bring you peace. 1 Thes. 4:14 can bring you some comfort knowing that there is a future for the ones we have lost in death can be reassuring. May the God of peace be with you and your family.

February 20, 2019

My condolences to the family. May the wonderful memories of your loved one comfort you until the God of love promises are fulfilled. 1 Thessalonians 4:13,14

February 20, 2019

My sincerest condolences. Paul will definitely be missed by so many. May you all keep fixed at the forefront of your mind, all of the wonderful moments that you've shared with Paul, as we await the day that we see him again.
-John 6:40

Lisa Byrd

February 20, 2019

Stacie, meeting your father was a pleasure. So sorry for your loss. May his soul continue to soar as he watches over his loved ones. Peace my friend.

February 20, 2019

Please accept our sincere condolences to the family
and friends. Losing a loved one in death is never easy. May your hearts find comfort in the words found at 1 Thessalonians 4:14. A wonderful hope of seeing your loved ones again.

Maria Critser

February 19, 2019

Stacie, condolences to you and family, grief is very difficult but memories of your dad and support and love of your family and friends will give you comfort.

Debbie Brown

February 19, 2019

Stacie,
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing your father is such a difficult thing. Cherish all those wonderful memories, all you have to do is think of him and he will be with you.
Love you...Debbie Brown

February 19, 2019

My condolences to the family on the loss of your loved one. May the God of comfort strengthen the family at this difficult time. (1 Thessalonians 4:14)

Cindy Dick

February 18, 2019

I was so fortunate to have Paul as a mentor. He was patient and good humored when teaching me about the facilities rental business. I was fortunate to have him a mentor and friend. He was a kind man who was always generous with his time.

Jay Thorne

February 18, 2019

He was a very sweet man who brought grace, charm, wit and compassion to our crazy mixed family. You are in my heart, Diane. So sorry.

February 18, 2019

I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" (Isaiah 61:1, 2) sustain your family during this challenging time. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.

February 17, 2019

I am so sorry for the immeasurable loss of your loved one. May God strengthen and sustain you with everlasting comfort and good hope, and comfort your hearts during this deeply sad and emotional time. 2nd Thessalonians 2:16, 17

Patricia Wolf

February 17, 2019

Paul had much too short a time with you, Diane; with all of us, to be sure. . He was so very special! Looking back on all the circumstances that brought the two of you together we must be assured that God does know what She is doing. He was a decent, kind and honorable man. It was a gift to me to have known him. I can't tell you the pain will go away, Di, but it does lessen after time. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you, my daughter.

February 17, 2019

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the death of your dear love one may God give you strength to endure this most difficult time of your life please read John 6:40

Lex Poppens

February 16, 2019

Sending love and hugs from Madison, WI.

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