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James Le'Roy Tonkinson Ruef

1939 - 2015

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James Ruef Obituary

Ruef Monsignor James Le'Roy Tonkinson Ruef, passed from this life on January 12, 2015. Born the second son of William Henry Ruef and Anna Marie Tonkinson on April 28, 1939, in Springfield, Ohio, Monsignor is preceded in death by his loving parents, and many dear family members and friends. He attended Kenwood Primary School, Hayward, and Shafer Junior High Schools and graduated from Springfield High School in 1957. Monsignor graduated from Ohio Northern University in 1961 with a B.A. in Theatre. He received an M.A. in Theatre from Indiana University in 1963. While teaching as a faculty member in the Department of Theatre at Ohio Northern, Monsignor attended law school and graduated from Ohio Northern University Petit College of Law in 1967 with a J.D. He practiced law in Mansfield, Ohio and in 1971 joined the staff of Ohio Attorney General William J. Brown as his Personal Assistant. Monsignor departed the Attorney General's Office in August, 1975 to study theology at the Franciscan Centre, Canterbury, England and the Pontifical College Josephinum. Monsignor was ordained to the priesthood at Saint Joseph Cathedral on June 3, 1978, by Bishop Edward J. Hermann. Ordained a Transitional Deacon in December of 1977, Monsignor was assigned to the Diocesan Tribunal and served for 37 years as Defender of the Bond, Diocesan Judge, and 20 years as Judicial Vicar. Monsignor's pastoral assignments were a Diaconate year at St. Matthew the Apostle Parish (Gahanna) from 1977-1978; Associate Pastor of Saint Catharine of Siena Parish (Columbus) from 1978-1982; resident priest at St. Matthias Parish (Columbus) in 1985, and St. Joseph Cathedral (Columbus) from 1985-1991; and Pastor of Holy Name Parish (Columbus) from 1992-2009. In 1982, Bishop Edward J. Herrmann asked Monsignor to study Canon Law in Rome. He graduated from the Pontifical University of Saint Thomas Aquinas (the Angelicum) Summa Cum Laude in 1985. Monsignor was admitted to the Supreme Court of the United States, Federal District Court for the Northern District of Ohio, the Supreme Court of Ohio and all inferior Ohio courts. He was past member of the Ohio Bar Association, a member of the Canon Law Society of Great Britain and Ireland, the Canon Law Society of America, Midwest Canon Law Society, and Saint Thomas More Society; Msgr Ruef was a Knight of the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem. Pope John Paul II named Monsignor a Chaplain of His Holiness (Monsignor) in 1992. He was awarded an Honorary Doctor of Law Degree by the Ohio Northern University in 2009. In retirement, Monsignor has remained active as a priest at Saint Catharine of Siena and Our Lady of Peace parishes. At the request of Bishop Frederick F. Campbell, he continued for many years as Judicial Vicar. Monsignor is most thankful to God, his parents and family, schools, teachers, mentors, friends and staff for the many graces he received in life. He is deeply appreciative of all his diverse careers, but most especially, for the gift of priesthood and the opportunity to serve God and His Holy People. His brother Leland Carroll Ruef of Columbia, South Carolina, and many cousins and dear friends, especially his adoptive family, the Donald and Violet Allwein family of Columbus, survive Monsignor. Msgr. Ruef will lie in state Sunday, January 18, 1-4 p.m., at Saint Catharine of Siena Church, 500 South Gould Road, Columbus, and Monday, January 19, 9:30 a.m., until just prior to the Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m. Bishop Frederick F. Campbell will celebrate the Mass, retired Bishop James A. Griffin will concelebrate as will priests of the Diocese of Columbus; Fr. Daniel Millisor will deliver the homily; burial will be at Saint Joseph Cemetery. It was Msgr. Ruef's expressed desire that, in lieu of any flowers, donations be made to the Long-Term Care Needs for Priests Fund at the Catholic Foundation, 257 East Broad Street, Columbus, 43215. Arrangements by EGAN-RYAN FUNERAL HOME, 403 E. BROAD ST. Visit www.egan-ryan.com condolences.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Jan. 14 to Jan. 17, 2015.

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May 22, 2015

One of my favorite people!

Robert Ray

January 22, 2015

MY CONDOLENCES TO MR. RUEFS FAMILY AND FRIENDS,HIS PARENTS WERE MY NEIGHBORS AT DEVON GLEN APTS IN SPRINGFIELD FOR 6 YEARS OR MORE BEFORE THEY PASSED AWAY,YOU COULDNT ASK FOR NICER PEOPLE,AND THIER SON I MET SEVERAL TIMES, HE WAS THE SAME WAY,,MAY GOD TAKE HIM ON A LOVING JOURNEY AND MAY GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS AT THIS SAD TIME..

January 19, 2015

We will miss you so much, what a wonderful man and an incredible priest. Always in our hearts god bless you. Scott & Gina Bast
Scottys Cafe

January 17, 2015

It was a privilege to have worked with Monsignor Ruef! Well done, good and faithful servant!
~ Angela Trovato Nesmith, Plain City, Ohio

Rich Schooley

January 16, 2015

Monsignor was my best friend. I know I'll never find another like him. He was a good man and holy priest. Good job Monsignor Ruef. I want to thank you for being my friend and only wish I had the chance to say goodbye and to thank you. You made my and my family's world a better place. Look in on all of us from heaven. I know that by knowing you I have become a better man. you will be dearly missed.

January 16, 2015

I am looking at his photo in our '57 Yearbook. A magnetic personality in high school and friendly to everyone.
An impressive legacy, Jim.
Look forward to meeting you again.
Patty Melton

Donna Connelly Turner

January 16, 2015

Monsignor Ruef was the most charismatic and captivating person I have known. A huge spiritual and intellectual loss.

Patricia (Patterson) Spalla

January 16, 2015

I remember Jim as a Springfield High School Class of 1957 classmate, so very gifted and talented. My sympathy to his family.

The Families and Staff of Egan-Ryan Funeral Home

January 16, 2015

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Bobbie Meyers

January 15, 2015

A beloved man & servant of God. He will certainly be missed.

January 15, 2015

Blessed to have known Monsignor albeit briefly. Saying goodbye to a man & servant of God such as he will definetly leave a tremendous void. May he rest in the peace of Christ!

Sue Ulmer

January 15, 2015

It has been a pleasure working with him and may he rest in peace with God.

Sister Wilma Ross

January 15, 2015

Prayers and sympathy from Corpus Christi and St. Ladislas parishioners.

Ginger West

January 15, 2015

"Well done, good and faithful servant!" Heaven is richer. Memories of times together - especially the Catholic Schools Gala 11/6/14 - will be deeply cherished. He did the job the Lord appointed him to do and now enjoys the rewards of his labors. Requiescat in pace!

Steven Allwein

January 14, 2015

Monsignor Ruef.A great friend and mentor to the Allwein family.You will be forever missed.I remember watching the 2002 college championship game between The Ohio State Buckeyes & Miami Hurricanes,Monsignor brought the bbq wings.God blessed us with his presence .

Appreciative of Our Priests

January 14, 2015

Monsignor was a fabulous Homilist and a holy priest. I will cherish forever the joy he exuded when he led us into the Preface Dialogue at daily Mass. Gone from our midst but never to be forgotten.

Jill Eliot

January 14, 2015

January 14, 2015

For the family of Monsignor James Ruef,
Please accept the sympathy of our family upon the Monsignor's release from life. He is known to all of you as Monsignor Ruef, but I know him only as Jim.
Our lives were intertwined the summer of 1970, when I was cast as Catherine Rives (Emmett) and my husband, Don, played General Robert E. Lee in the historical drama, THE BIRTH OF DIXIE. Our 8 year-old daughter, Ann, played a young school child. We acted together, we played together, we had a most wonderful summer together. In my role as Catherine, I married Daniel Decatur Emmett (Jim Ruef). Emmett wrote the song, “Dixie.” Our performances took place in Mt. Vernon, Ohio where we all made friends for life.
The Monsignor was an incredible gift to the Catholic Church. He was an immensely talented, brilliant, loving, good man. How lucky his parisioners were. I will forever miss this person.
I would like to think that when we look up into the sky and see the stars, that one of them zipping across the horizon is Jim. Shakespeare said it best in ROMEO AND JULIET:
"When he shall die,
Take him and cut him out in little stars,
And he will make the face of heav'n so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun."

God Bless the family
Affectionately,
Jill Eliot

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Lying in State

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Lying in State

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Mass of Christian Burial

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