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John scileppi Scileppi
September 13, 2025
One of the finer men and dearest friends I’d ever know. He was kind beyond words and I will always remember him as a sound and decent man. Someone I will look up to all of my life. I’ll never forget him.
With love
John scileppi
Tom Brannigan
September 10, 2025
Talk about one of a kind, Bob Saxe was just that-always a kind word-never negative. We were roommates as we worked hard through the ND Law School in far away (for him) South Bend, Ind. He taught me to be a man of the Right-even though the law school profs, with few exceptions, preferred the Left. Thank you, Bob. You were right from the beginning. My dear friend, may flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.
Al Saxe
September 10, 2025
My brother Bob and I spent 83 years together before his passing. Bob happily spent the first 11 years of his life in the little town of Santa Margarita Ca.Where our father was employed as the elementary school Principal. The town was situated on 332 acres and surrounded by a 17,000 acre ranch which was an old Spanish land grant given in 1841. In 1938 Cell phones weren’t invented yet, nor was television or computers. can you believe that back then families actually had meals together sitting around the dinner table enjoying each other’s company? You knew everybody’s name in town and they knew yours. Homes weren’t locked and you didn’t have to worry where your kids were they were with family. Due to World War Two the nation was on a war footing and many items needed for the troops were rationed. This necessitated that every one had to grow or raise their own food. Almost every house in town had a big garden with fruit trees and chicken pens. Any excess food would willingly be shared with others or canned for winter. These gardens called victory gardens was where Bob developed his love of gardening and he would continue the practice for the rest of his life . He would also carry with him the tranquillity , caring , and patriotism the little town instilled in him. I watched my brother’s journey through life with great pride. He was always inquisitive, had part time jobs from an early age, made many friends and quietly helped so many people during his journey. Bob would listen to everyone before speaking. Many times he would be the last to speak searching for a solution to the problem. This practice served him well throughout life. Bob’s tribute from four star Marine General Charles E Wilhelm and the tribute from His friend ,law partner and noted author Norm Matteoni all mentioned Bob’s integrity , intelligence and leadership skills. Bob’s accomplishments were many as a Marine, lawyer ,City Attorney, husband, father,brother, grandfather and neighbor.However what impressed me the most about my brother Bob was the love shown to his wife Of 42 years Marilyn. Bob quit his job as City Attorney of San Ramon to spend 0ver 10 years taking care of Marilyn who had Alzheimer’s and eventually breast cancer. Throughout these most difficult times He always treated her with the utmost love and respect never once complaining to anyone. His love was returned when Marilyn at the moment of her death reached up towards Bob her loving husband and partner. After her death The City of San Ramon asked Bob if he wanted his job back. An offer that illustrated in their eyes his unmatched ability as not only a gifted lawyer but as a human being .Bob did return to San Ramon as their City Attorney.For over 83 years I have witnessed my brother’s joys and sorrows and see him surmount many difficult moments with reasoning and patience. Bob In his life dotted all the i’s and crossed all the t’s. He lived long enough to see the manifestation of his traits of integrity and kindness showing up in all of his children and grandchildren. What more could a man ask for? Well done my brother. I love you ! Thanks for all the memories and the journey shared. Al
Norman Matteoni
September 7, 2025
Long years of friendship since meeting in law school at Notre Dame in 1960. Road trips to and from law school. Taking the bus from Bob’s dad’s house in San Jose to study for the California bar exam in San Francisco. Coming together after Bob’s service in Vietnam to work at Santa Clara County Counsel’s office and then partners in private practice. The time and sharing went beyond the law. Bob was as warm and humble a human being as God could send to earth. His understated humor was an added bonus to lighten the journey. He was a devoted caregiver to his wife and always was proud of his family. Thank you Bob and Bonnie, Monica and Ben, together with brother Al, for taking care of him in his illness.
He served us all well. Godspeed.
Norm
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