Brenda Avella Obituary
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Brenda was a lifelong resident of Rutherford and a 1976 graduate of Rutherford High School. She was married to Robert Avella in 1979 and together they remained in Rutherford where they raised their girls.
Brenda enjoyed her family time and being a homemaker. Staying close was most important to her. She was a wonderful and caring wife and mother who will be deeply missed.
Brenda is survived by her devoted husband Robert of 45 years, her daughter Brenda Avella-Oschmann and her husband Chad and her daughter Lisa.
Family will receive friends for Memorial Visiting Tuesday 1:00 to 4:00 at the Calhoun-Mania Funeral Home,19 Lincoln Ave., Rutherford.
A Prayer Service will be offered by Fr. Bryan at 2:30.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made to a local non profit organization
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