Charles David "Chuck" Stokes

Charles David "Chuck" Stokes obituary, Huntsville, AL

Charles David "Chuck" Stokes

Charles Stokes Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Laughlin Service Funeral Home & Crematory - Huntsville on Jul. 27, 2024.

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Charles "Chuck" David Stokes, beloved husband and father, died suddenly July 23, 2024, after a brief illness. Through his family and illustrious career as a healthcare executive, his humility, mentorship, integrity, leadership, generosity and compassion will leave an immortal legacy.
Chuck was born on December 30, 1953, in Yazoo City, Mississippi. He received his Bachelor of Nursing from the University of Mississippi and his Master of Science in Hospital and Health Administration from the University of Alabama-Birmingham. Chuck began his 50-year career as a Critical Care Nurse at the University of Mississippi Medical Center in Jackson, Mississippi. He would later go on to become Assistant Director of Nursing there, before entering graduate school. After he earned his Masters' Degree, he returned to UMMC, beginning 44 years of health care administration in executive roles, he would serve at St. Luke's Episcopal Hospital-Texas Heart, Houston; Schumpert Medical Center, Shreveport; St. Vincent Medical Center, Little Rock; Huntsville Hospital, Huntsville; North Mississippi Medical Center, Tupelo; and Memorial Hermann Health System, Houston. Chuck retired from there as President and CEO in 2019. Post-retirement Chuck would return to his alma mater as Interim Chair of the Department of Health Services Administration at UAB. While at UAB, he would serve for three years as Executive-In-Residence, mentoring many students with his lifetime of experience in the healthcare field.
Chuck was very active in the American College of Health Executives, serving as Chair from 2017-2018 and receiving the Gold Medal in 2019, recognizing his achievements and service to educating the next generation of healthcare leaders. He was also a two-time recipient of the Malcolm Baldrige National Quality Award for Health Care, the highest award presented by the United States Department of Commerce-first in 2006 at the North Mississippi Medical Center and then in 2018 at Memorial Hermann.
Throughout his career, Chuck would mentor many of the future leaders in health care. He was committed to encouraging their growth. He was committed to increasing the diversity of voices in health care, as he genuinely believed in bringing as many people to the table to get the best possible ideas of how to save lives and increase beneficial healthcare outcomes. He embodied and practiced the principles of servant leadership
Chuck was devoted to his family. He took time out for life events and vacations. He was not uncomfortable showing emotion and expressing the pride he felt in the accomplishments of his children. They have striven to emulate his spirit of integrity and giving back. He was also a man of great humor and loved to laugh.
Both professionally and personally, the common theme of Chuck's life was making a difference. He approached all of his activities with a fair-mindedness and humility that touched the lives of everyone he met. He truly believed in servant leadership and no job was too small for him, driven by both his upbringing and strong spiritual faith. His family would often marvel at how he would run into someone he knew in the most random and remote places.
Chuck is survived by his beloved wife, Judy. August 5 would have been 41 years of blissful marriage. He is also survived by his sons, Neil Melancon (Sherry) of Baton Rouge, Joshua Stokes (Nour) of Washington, DC and Sidney Joel Stokes of Los Angeles; his sister, Arlene Patterson and brother, Billy Ray (Beverly). He was preceded in death by his parents, Ray and Bessie Stokes.
To those wishing to make a contribution in Chuck's memory, your gift will make a difference. Memorial Hermann Heart Institute in Houston, Texas, or Huntsville Hospital Foundation directing gifts to the Women's Breast Center sub-acute waiting area were the charities Chuck favored.
https://memorialhermann.org/services/specialties/heart-and-vascular/about/donate https://www.huntsvillehospitalfoundation.org/get-involved/give-now
A memorial service for Chuck will be held at a later date. The family wishes to thank everyone for their kind words of condolence and encouragement during this difficult time.

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SDuplechin

November 15, 2024

Judy, I met you in NOLA at a nurse recruiting event. Your booth was set up adjacent to UMMC´s. He loved you from the moment he saw you.

Drew Daugherty

September 27, 2024

Chuck and his wife Judy practically raised my son after his mother's injury. They mean the world to me
Drew Daugherty

Karen Hirsch

August 24, 2024

I had the honor of sitting on a rabbinic search committee or two with Chuck. I remember him being empathetic and occasionally emphatic...and enjoyed serving alongside him. May his memory always be for a blessing.

Debra Lamb

August 3, 2024

Dear Judy,
I will always remember Chuck for his humility and kindness. He radiated warmth and goodness. One of my favorite memories with you two was at the Congress when Ed was chairman. The four of us were walking back to our hotel rooms late one night- I think you and I had taken our shoes off. Chuck expressed his desire for a bowl of cereal- for some everyday food after a week of hotel dinners. Our children and grandchildren were with us in the suite and we had plenty of cereal for him to choose from. I remember him sitting at the bar eating a bowl of Cheerios and the good conversation that followed. Your deep love for each other always so apparent- all my memories are of you two together enjoying life!

Michael Goodman

August 2, 2024

I was always impressed with Chuck´s wise counsel, clear thinking, and calm demeanor. Chuck´s legacy will live on. You will always have fond memories that will warm your heart, bring a smile to your face, and fill you with joy.

Zichrono livracha - may his memory be a blessing.

Edward Lamb

August 2, 2024

Edward Lamb

August 2, 2024

Edward Lamb

August 2, 2024

Edward Lamb

August 2, 2024

Chuck was one of the kindest and most professional men I have had the privilege of knowing. It was an honor calling him my friend. He was someone that you could always rely upon in both good and difficult times. He was always the champion for equity, quality of care, and sharing his wisdom when most needed.

Chuck will be remembered by more than can be counted but mostly because of the beauty in his relationship with his sweetheart Judy and their children. God bless you Chuck and continue pushing for the best in Heaven.

Ed & Debbie Lamb

Andrea B.

July 31, 2024

I only knew Chuck for a few years working alongside him in the HSA Department, but one for thing for certain is that he was a wise and knowledgeable person. My condolences to the family in their time of bereavement.

Mark J. Howard

July 31, 2024

Chuck Stokes was a great man who I admired very much and had the opportunity of working with him in the American College of Healthcare Executives. He will be missed!! Mark J. Howard LFACHE

Chris & Vinnie Candio

July 31, 2024

Dear Judy & Family, we are so sorry for such a profound loss. Chuck was an inspiration to so many. He led his life with love, compassion and humility that shined through every time we interacted with him. He was an icon throughout our healthcare industry and an exceptional human being. May our memories of Chuck be an everlasting blessing.

Carrie Owen Plietz

July 31, 2024

Carrie Owen Plietz

July 31, 2024

Carrie Owen Plietz

July 31, 2024

Jasen and I absolutely love and loved Chuck. I had to share a fun picture from March of this year and also how I will always remember Chuck- having a blast on the dance floor with the love of his life. Love you Judy! He was the best of us.

David Hall, MD

July 31, 2024

Judy, Victoria and I are so sorry to hear of Chuck's recent untimely passing. I so enjoyed working with Chuck during his time at St. Vincent. We still remember fondly your Halloween parties you hosted in Little Rock. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. David Hall

Kate Shipley Murr

July 31, 2024

Charles (as we knew him in Yazoo City) was such a kind soul with an infectious laugh and had such a love of life! So grateful that I knew him in his early childhood and pray prayers of Gods peace be with Stokes family during this difficult time!

Austin Jones

July 29, 2024

Stokes and I played baseball together at Holmes. We weren´t on scholarship so we we might have been a little loose on some of the rules. Drove Coach Morgan crazy. Prayers to all his family

Beth Couch

July 29, 2024

Chuck was one of the most respected healthcare leaders that Ive had the privilege to work with. He had a servant´s heart and always a smile or kind word. Deepest sympathies to his beloved Judy and family.

Birdie Montgomery

July 29, 2024

Though we didn't stay connected as adults, Chuck and I were close in high school and early college years. Our trip to Canada and road trip to New Orleans were still talked about years after we suffered the consequences of that craziness. He will be missed.

Leonard Friedman

July 29, 2024

Chuck was one of the finest healthcare leaders that I have ever met. In addition, he was a warm and engaging person. I will truly miss him.

Di Smalley

July 29, 2024

Chuck was a great man, a great leader, and a great friend. We were so honored to know both Chuck and Judy. Our thoughts and prayers are with Judy and family.
Ted and Di Smalley

Leslie Lancaster

July 29, 2024

Chuck always had a smile on his face and almost without exception it was because he was in the company of Judy. Our hearts are broken by the loss of Chuck and are more open than ever for Judy. Those who know Chuck and Judy can´t really mention one without the other nor do we think we ever will. All our love to a truly extraordinary family of brilliant and wonderful people.

Leslie and Donna Lancaster

Allison Greene

July 29, 2024

A great and wonderfully giving man. Chuck will be missed by many. So enjoyed his visits and laughter. Our sympathies to Judy and his family. Love, Allison Edwards Greene & Jim Henry Greene

Mistie Stokes Dixon

July 29, 2024

Sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers

Marnix Heersink

July 28, 2024

Dear Stokes family;

Although we only got to know each other in the last couple of years, in my brief time that I knew Chuck, it was very clear to me that he was an extraordinary humble, helpful and inspirational person . We were tied by a project in Dothan through UAB and we had a number of meaningful meetings ,exchanged emails and telephone calls .

That all to say that I learned so much about Chuck and increasingly developed a greater awareness and appreciation for his wonderful generous, kind spirit, easy-going manner, sage advice, and brilliant suggestions, not to mention his sonorous, calming voice.

Judy, although we have not met, Chuck often referred to you and your plans to consider spending more time in the Netherlands and we had hoped to help host you and find you a spot that the two of you would appreciate.

Now I have memories and wisdom he left behind for me that I will always treasure.

I wish you and the entire family peace and the realization that Chuck was a special person to many, including me.

Wishing you all the very best.

Marnix Heersink

Steven Smith

July 27, 2024

His love for people, commitment to servant leadership and his love of fly fishing. And his friendship.

Larry and Debbie Noriega

July 27, 2024

Helpful talks at St Luke´s, the beautiful cancer center garden at Schumpert, cigars and wine on the river, enduring mark on Memorial Hermann. You you touched so many lives. Love and peace for Judy and the boys. Larry and Debbie

Pat David Rubenstein

July 27, 2024

Chuck's unending love of family and significant contributions to community, health, and healthcare were so important to those who knew him and those of never met him. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. Pat and David

Bruce Toppin

July 27, 2024

His calmness in listening to others who brought problems to him.

John Memmer

July 27, 2024

Sending love and condolences during this difficult time. Chuck was a wonderful guy and always made everyone feel welcome. Love you, Josh, and I hope the family finds peace.

Ricky and Teresa Watkins

July 27, 2024

Your heart soon will be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Thea D Robinson

July 27, 2024

Our deepest condolences to Judy and the family for your loss. Paul and I send our love and grieve with you all at this sad time.

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