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Susan Hampton
July 25, 2021
Carol sorry to hear about David. Hope you
and your family are well.
Dan Daddieco
May 20, 2021
David was my eye doctor for many years. 15 years ago we moved out of state and recently moved back home to Westford. I was so looking forward to renewing my friendship with David. Sadly I learned of his passing when it came time for my eye exam. I just could not believe he was taken so soon. I will miss him. We shared so many great conversations and laughs over the years. I wish the very best to all of David's friends and family. Stay strong.
Jill Hunter Burrill
September 28, 2020
Thank you, David, for your steady friendship in these years. A real gentleman, with a beautiful smile. Miss you.
Hal Holway
June 7, 2020
I was a patient of David's for a decade and a half and used to chat with him at the Westford Regency gym. I recall running into him there at the time of the birth of one of his granddaughters and how happy he was to share the news. He was a wonderful doctor and I was very fond of him. I'm so sorry to learn of his passing. My condolences to his family, friends, and patients. It's a terrible loss.
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Deborah Corrado
May 11, 2020
Just learning of your loss. So very sorry.
Ronnie Carness
May 11, 2020
Carol ... Alan and I are so sorry to hear about David. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Pam Miller
May 7, 2020
Dr. Friedman was my eye doctor since the 1980s. He was amazing, he was the first doctor who was able to diagnose my rare eye condition. I was in his office the day Benny Friedman was inducted into the Hall of Fame and he was over the moon. I am heartbroken that he was taken so soon from his family. We patients will find him irreplaceable. My heartfelt condolences to all.
Mitchell Sweet, MD
May 5, 2020
I met David 20 years ago when my arms proved too short to allow me to read small print. His professionalism and kindness were exemplary. Besides being my optometrist, I considered David a colleague and friend. Baruch Dayan Ha Emet.
Cristina Davy
May 2, 2020
So sorry to hear of his passing! He cared for me and my family's vision for many years, and we really appreciated all he did for us! Will miss him. Cristina Davy, Groton, MA
Kathy Dollard
May 1, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of Dr. Friedman passing. He was my eye doctor for several years before he retired. He was kind, compassionate and professional. He solved my extreme nearsightedness with two prescriptions, one for everyday and one for working at my computer. That solution still works for me many years later, and I'm very grateful to him.
David Finkelstein
April 30, 2020
Carol, Thank you for the video. It was so nice to see David and you with your family.
So sorry for his loss. I will miss him.
Love , David Finkelstein
Judy Palmer
April 29, 2020
Carol, Zach, and Andrew....I am so saddened and sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Friedman. Of his 40 years in the Optometry business, I worked for him for 32 of those years as his Bookkeeper - accounts payable and payroll person along with other duties. He was by far the BEST optometrist I have ever had; his precision with eye care was impeccable. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Friedman family at this time of sadness. Stay safe and healthy.
Jill Brown
April 29, 2020
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of David's passing. I met him as my optometrist but over the years we became friends. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and love.
Diane Kennedy
April 29, 2020
I am deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Dr. Friedman. He was one of my very first clients and we worked with him from 2003 until he retired. My deepest condolences to his family."
Nadine Rueter
April 29, 2020
Jim and I are truly shocked and saddened to hear of David's passing. So many, many memories of cheering our boys on in soccer and the wonderful conversations during those games. He was just a lovely man. Our heartfelt condolences to his dear family, Carol, Zach, Andrew, his daughter in law, Elizabeth, and the heart of all grandparents - the grandchildren. We pray for strength for all of you.
Peter Ricciardi
April 27, 2020
A wonderful man with a wonderful family who made our time in Harvard much more meaningful. Our thoughts are with you...Carol, Zach and Andrew. You are loved.
Sue Grossman
April 27, 2020
A dear friend over the years who was known for his dry sense of humor and his modest demeanor...always making us feel comfortable in his presence. Fun times...Love to you all and please find comfort in everyone's sincere kind words~With our love, Sue and Stephen Grossman
Bob and Janet Masow
April 27, 2020
We are deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Dr. Friedman. He took wonderful care of our whole family from the time of his arrival in Westford. We will truly miss him. Our deepest condolences to his family.
cynthia first
April 27, 2020
Carol, Zach, and Andrew, I'm so sorry for all you have been thru. So hard to have to let go while remaining remote. I hope you can gather safely to grieve, and also know you did everything you could. Carol you are an amazing advocate! Love to you all.
Lori McKinney
April 27, 2020
I am so very sorry for your loss. I was a patient of Dr. Friedman for 25 years and with every visit he would remember my children and we would have wonderful conversations as he was truly interested! Rest in Peace.....
Pam Eubank
April 27, 2020
We extend our deepest sympathy to Carol, Zach and Andrew. We have many memories of good times with David and all of you - sporting events, engagements, weddings, and more. He was a unique, thoughtful, and classy man. Our love and prayers are with you. Love, Pam and Bob
Tami Harrah
April 27, 2020
Carol, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. My deepest condolences.
Kevin Regan
April 27, 2020
We were very saddened to learn of Dr. Friedman's passing. He demonstrated a high level of competence and compassionate care for each of his patients. In a particular situation, after he worked diligently with this individual, he referred this family member to a specialist. Not surprising that the improvement of the patient's condition was his primary objective. I still have the cards he gave me of his Uncle Benny's induction into the NFL Hall of Fame. Another example of his deep caring of others. Our sincere sympathy to Dr. Friedman's loved ones. He was a man who provided a high level of professional care for others. Rest In Peace!
Kathy Kleine
April 27, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Will pray for you and your family.
Yingmu Zhong
April 26, 2020
Sorry to see you go, David. My family will miss you.
Bev Ridpath
April 26, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. I have known David for years and admired the way he approached the challenges in his life with patience, humor and wisdom. He was a calm and supportive presence. May he rest in peace.
Carole Joyce
April 26, 2020
Rest in peace Dr Friedman
Victor & Claudia Dosoretz
April 26, 2020
Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Joseph Campo
April 26, 2020
We're very sorry to hear about Dr Friedman's passing. He was a very friendly man who treated us all professionally and humanely. I enjoyed talks about football and being from NYC. We will miss him. RIP Dr Friedman. - Joseph Campo and family.
Megan Carroll
April 25, 2020
Deepest condolences. David was a wonderful man and will be missed.
Chris Lull
April 25, 2020
Please accept my sincere condolences. I've known David for several years, and always enjoyed his wry sense of humor, his determination in the face of chronic pain, and his persistent search for serenity. The wonderful photograph shows the way his eyes smiled along with his mouth! Wishing you peace and comfort in your memories of him.
Delise &Lester Dsouza
April 25, 2020
So sorry to hear of your loss. My husband & I were his patients. He always loved discussing about India . He was a kind & gentle soul.Our deepest condolences to Mrs.Friedman & the family. May his soul Rest in Eternal Peace.
Margot Stage
April 25, 2020
My heartfelt condolences to David's family. We shared the journey for a number of years and his quiet and thoughtful presence was a gift to many. He was loved and will be missed.
Chris Lyle
April 25, 2020
One of the kindest and gentlest souls I have had the pleasure of sharing many meetings andong car rides with. You'll be missed
Dawna Carrette
April 25, 2020
So sorry that you lost David during this stressful time. We liked to talk about music. We liked the Kenny Roger's song What Condition Your Condition is In. I guess you are up with Kenny now and they have one heck of a band.
Linda Chance
April 25, 2020
I had only known David for a few years, but I was always happy to see him. He had a gentle and kind demeanor. He will be dearly missed. This is so very sad.
Joel Ross
April 25, 2020
Words cannot express the many, many years of friendship and connection we shared. Pam and I will always feel gratitude for his place in our lives and hope to be as supportive as we can to his family.
Siamack
April 25, 2020
So sorry to hear this sad news. Our condolences to family and friends for this unfortunate loss. He will be missed. Thanks to Dr. Friedman my vision improved over 20 years that I was his patient.
Colleen Duggan
April 25, 2020
So sorry to hear. I saw Dr Friedman from the time I was 6 when he opened his practice until he retired. He will always be 'my' eye doctor. I have no words. My sincere condolences to his family and co-workers.
George and Annette Allison
April 25, 2020
George and I are shocked to hear this. We were patients of his since moving to the area in 2000. Dr. Friedman introduced me to CRT lenses which I continue to wear. He was a pioneer with a calm demeanor and a sense of humor. We really enjoyed him and appreciated his care. We are saddened that he wasn't able to enjoy more years in his retirement. Our deepest condolences to his family and the continuing staff at Gateway Vision.
Cheryl Nelson
April 25, 2020
I am so so sorry to hear of your loss! Dr. Friedman was my eye dr. for many, many years and he was a kind and gentle spirit. Praying for you and your family in this difficult time.
Carol Engel
April 25, 2020
I was probably one of David's first customers. I got my first set of eyeglasses from his office.
Nancy Templeton
April 25, 2020
I was a patient of Dr Friedman's for almost 30 years. He was not only a wonderful practitioner, but also such a kind man, who I always looked forward to chatting with during my eye exams. RIP Dr Friedman. My sincere condolences to his family.
John and Sylvia Luejten
April 25, 2020
Our whole family were patients of Dr. Friedman for many years. In addition to the state of the art treatments that he pursued and offered, it was always nice to reconnect with him personally. He had a very kind and gentle manner, as well as a mind that was always open to learning new things. We have many fond memories of him. - The Luetjens
Gene and Doris Joki
April 25, 2020
Our deepest sympathy to the Friedman family. He was our optometrist for many years and we so enjoyed seeing him for our yearly exam. We had another attachment to him as we bought our home in Westford from him so many years ago. Rest in peace, Dr. Friedman.
Nancy Burns
April 25, 2020
What a loss! My husband and I received great eye care by Dr. Friedman over many years; such a nice man as well as a capable optometrist. Condolences to his family.
Alana Askey
April 24, 2020
Deepest sympathy to the Friedman family. It was always a pleasure to have to go to "the eye doctor". Dr. Friedman was a kind and caring doctor who spent a lot of time with his patients. He was always happy and made you feel relaxed. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Karen Emanouil
April 24, 2020
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this trying time.Dr. Friedman was a pleasure to work for.
Barbara and Charlie Schiappa
April 24, 2020
Dr. Friedman was a kind, gentle person and a very smart doctor. My husband and I were his patients from the 1970s until his retirement and Dr. Hunter took over his practice. This is such sad news. Blessings and condolences to his family. It is just like Dr. Friedman that he would want memorials given to the food pantry.
Phyllis Cohen
April 24, 2020
Dr. Friedman was a gifted doctor and a kind and gentle man. I was a patient of his for years. I am so sad to know that he has passed. We needed him on this earth for much longer. My prayers and thoughts are with his family. Phyllis Cohen & Family
Karen Wilson
April 24, 2020
An excellent optometrist who always paid attention to his patients needs with a kind manner. Our deepest sympathy to all his family and loved ones. David and Karen Wilson
Gary Ball
April 24, 2020
I am so sorry to hear of this. He was my optometrist for years. Great man and my condolences to his family and friends.
Todd Mancini
April 24, 2020
I consider myself very fortunate to have been a patient of Dr. Friedman for many years. He was always so kind to me. Although had an air of friendly seriousness about him, which is appealing in a medical professional, I'll never forget the last time I saw him and how that all changed. I was very lucky to be at the office at the same time he was making what I understood to be his last visit to the office before fully engaging in his retirement (which had already partially started). The serious professional I thought I knew was smiling ear to ear, making jokes, in casual clothes, and clearly absolutely enjoying his new life. It was wonderful to see and it's a memory I will always cherish.
Raymonde Bowen
April 24, 2020
So hard to believe he is gone. Grateful for the times I drove him to mtgs and we chatted and got to know each other a little more. Loved to hear his joy when he talked about his granddaughters. So glad he was finding happiness again. He was a gentle soul and he will be missed. Ray Bowen
Carol and vinnie Scalesse
April 24, 2020
God speed dr Friedman. We remember your dry humor when we came in for our exam. we continued to come here even though we moved away. Great man. Prayers for your family.
Lois Socorelis
April 24, 2020
My thoughts and prayers go to Carol and The Friedman Family. I worked for Dr. Friedman for over 16 years until he sold the business and was one of his first patients when he came to Westford. We were all like family and I will always remember the wonderful family man, boss, Doctor and friend. David will not be forgotten.
Lois Socorelis
April 24, 2020
Rest In Peace Dr. Friedman ❤
Jay Campbell
April 24, 2020
My thoughts and prayers go to the Friedman family.❤
I met David in Concord we would see each other a couple times a week he was a kind gentle man and very supportive of myself and others he was involved with! David will not be forgotten.
Betsy Gray
April 24, 2020
I love this picture. Dr Friedman always came to the office with that smile on his face. His patients loved him. He will be missed.
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