David F. Hitchman

David F. Hitchman obituary

David F. Hitchman

David Hitchman Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Gately Funeral Home - Melrose on Jun. 25, 2025.

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David Francis Hitchman passed away too soon at his home on June 22nd, 2025. Born on April 7, 1972, to Arthur and Claire Hitchman, David was a lifelong Melrosian who deeply loved the city he called home.

David grew up cherishing every moment of his childhood-riding bikes, with his brother, fishing, and running through the neighborhood with friends. A proud graduate of Melrose High School, Class of 1991, David held his high school friends close to his heart and spoke of them often, no matter where his life took him.

He went on to attend UMass Amherst, where he became a proud brother of Theta Chi and built great friendships and beautiful relationships. During those years, he adopted his beloved dog, Shane. After earning his degree, David pursued his legal education at the Massachusetts School of Law and proudly became an attorney. He began his career as a public defender, where his passion for a good argument never went unnoticed.

David's greatest joy in life came with the birth of his children, Sarah and Nicholas-the true loves of his life. He beamed with pride watching Sarah thrive in school and Nicholas grow into a talented athlete and kind young man. David had a special connection with children and was always the adult you'd find talking with the kids instead of the grown-ups.

He cherished his time with family-cousins' weekends, the annual brunch, Christmas Eves, skiing in North Conway, Hampton Beach trips, and meals from Billy's Roast Beef. These traditions brought him joy.

David leaves behind his children, Sarah and Nicholas, and their mother Stacy; his mother Claire; his brother Arthur and sister-in-law Lauren; his sister Jill and brother-in-law Michael Leeman. He was a devoted uncle to Olivia, Sophia, Arthur, Alexandra, Katie, Megan, and Caroline. He is also survived by many loving aunts, uncles, and cousins. He was predeceased by his father, Arthur Hitchman, who passed just six months prior.

David's life was defined by his deep love for his family and the people who never gave up on him. He faced the struggles of addiction for much of his adult life, a burden that ultimately became too heavy to carry. Though this world may have felt too big for him, his love, laughter, and memories will remain with us always.

Rest in peace, David. You were deeply loved and will be forever missed.

Visiting Hours will be held on Wednesday, July 2, 2025, at the Gately Funeral Home, 79 W. Foster St., Melrose, from 8:00AM-10:30AM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00AM at Most Blessed Sacrament Church, 1155 Main St., Wakefield, following the visitation at the funeral home. Interment to follow the mass at Wyoming Cemetery, 205 Sylvan St., Melrose. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend.

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Jim Russo

July 28, 2025

Defended me well back in 2005. Always remembered him fondly. Very sorry to hear this news. Thoughts are with his family.

C. Garcia

July 8, 2025

I was a Fraternity brother of Hitch´s at UMass. The thing about him was that he was always ready with a laugh and great kindness. He had a good-naturedness about him that always made you feel better about yourself. Hadn´t spoken to him in years and a few years back heard from him via Social media. I could feel his smile again through reading his words. I´m sorry for your loss.

The Kasprzak Family

July 2, 2025

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cindy Gallucci Brier

June 25, 2025

To the Hitchman family, I am so saddened to hear of the sudden passing of David. What a nice tribute and that picture is the David I knew. I remember that smile. He was a friendly, funny and always welcoming person. He was around our family for so many years as he was a very close friend of my brother Brian Gallucci. He was loved by my family. My deepest condolences go out to you all. May David rest in peace.

Johnny O'Herron

June 25, 2025

To the Hitchman family, please accept my condolences for the passing of David. I had the pleasure of meeting David, whom I always referred to as "Hitch," through our mutual friend, Brian Gallucci, about thirty years ago. David made a great first impression on me; firm handshake, eye contact, and a friendly smile. David was such a fun guy and I enjoyed the vacations we went on together in New Hampshire, Rhode Island, and Florida. Of the many things I liked about him I can sum up by just saying David had style and he had a style all his own. What energy and passion he would invoke when he would argue to make a point and I always admired him for that. Like many other people who knew him, I rather liked David. I never met his equal and I don´t think I ever will. Prayers for the repose of his soul.

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