Donald Weston DeCoster

Donald Weston DeCoster obituary, Suffolk, VA

Donald Weston DeCoster

Donald DeCoster Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home & Crematory - Wakefield on Jan. 28, 2026.
Donald Weston DeCoster, Jr. 85, passed away on January 27, 2026. He was the son of the late Donald W. DeCoster, Sr. and Norma Long DeCoster. Don is preceded in death by his son, Donald DeCoster, III and stepson, James Arrington.
Don was a proud Navy veteran who served aboard submarines as a Chief Torpedoman. He was a collector of Navy memorabilia, found joy in antiquing, and was a true master of the grill.Don also possessed a sharp intellect and was naturally talented at woodworking,
He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Joan Cannon DeCoster; daughter, Cathy Verdin (Randy); stepdaughter, Julie Bowden (Phil); grandsons, Wes DeCoster, Roy DeCoster, Zachary DeCoster, Christopher Verdin (Maisie), and Phillip Lee Bowden.
R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home, Wakefield Chapel is serving the family. Services will be held privately at a later date. Condolences may be registered at RWBakerFH.com.
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February 18, 2026

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Keith Bryant

February 18, 2026

My deepest condolences to Joan and family. DJ was a great friend and co-worker. He honored me by being my guest speaker at my Navy retirement ceremony. He will be missed...Keith Bryant

Jay Bradshaw

January 29, 2026

D J &.Joan have been the best neighbors anyone could ever ask for. He will be forever missed. Jay & Wilma Bradshaw

Ronald F. Harburg

January 28, 2026

My last old friend is gone.
Ron Harburg

Teresa Weaver

January 28, 2026

Joan & Julie,
We are so sorry for your loss. DJ was a warm, caring and supportive husband, parent and friend. Sending love, Daniel & Teresa Weaver

Connie Yeatman

January 28, 2026

Joan, I am so sorry. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you and your family.

Connie Yeatman

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