Doris Ruffner Whiting

Doris Ruffner Whiting obituary, Charles Town, WV

Doris Ruffner Whiting

Doris Whiting Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home - Harpers Ferry on Dec. 24, 2025.
Doris Ruffner Whiting,99, of Charles Town, WV, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 17, 2025, at Canterbury Center in Shepherdstown, WV. She was born on March 25, 1926, in Luray, VA. to Jacob Daniel and Frances Baldwin Ruffner. Doris married Edgar Mason Whiting, Jr. on January 19, 1957, in Winchester, VA. Doris and Edgar moved to Charles Town in 1958 and owned Jefferson County Motors, a Ford/Mercury dealership until 1977. Afterwards, Doris held the positions of the Clerk of the Magistrate Court and then the Clerk of the Circuit Court until her retirement in 1994. Doris was a member of the Old Opera House Guild and the Jefferson County Garden Club. She delivered Meals on Wheels in Jefferson County for over fifteen years.
Doris was preceded in death by her husband, Edgar (1996), her brother Nelson Ruffner and three sisters: Jane Lucas, Sue Housden, and Polly Hershberger. She is survived by her three children: Edgar Mason Whiting, III (Kathleen) of Stevensville, MT, Ellen Whiting Teichman of Media, PA, and Catherine Whiting Athey (George) of Charles Town, WV; six grandchildren and one great-grandchild.
The family will be planning a memorial service for a later date.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Meals on Wheels of Jefferson County, PO Box 565, Charles Town, WV, 25414; Old Opera House Theatre Company, 204 N. George St., Charles Town, WV, 25414; Zion Episcopal Church 221 E. Washington St, Charles Town, WV, 25414.

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Candy Cain

December 29, 2025

I am so saddened to learn of Doris' passing. She was a person full of spirit and fun...seemed nothing brought her down. She was a good and close friend of my mom, Lily Cain, and her sisters, Libba and Frances. My goodness, they did enjoy each other at the parties, garden club, bridge club, and any other excuse to have fun together. I, too, considered Doris a good friend and feel blessed to have been able to share good times with her as well. She will be missed by many.
Sending my condolences and deepest sympathy to Catherine, Edgar, and Ellen.
Candy Cain

Ashlynn Bailey

December 24, 2025

So very sorry for the loss of Doris! I was her aide at harmony and she was nothing but pleasure! I truly will miss us having coffee and joking daily together! Prayers for the family for comfort and healing during this rough time ! - Ashlynn

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