E. Jane McNiff

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E. Jane McNiff

E. McNiff Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shepherd Funeral & Cremation Service on Jun. 25, 2025.

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E. Jane McNiff, of Duxbury, MA., passed away on June 21st surrounded by her loving family. Jane was 89 years old.
Jane was the loving wife of Philip McNiff to whom she was married for 65 happy years. Jane became the matriarch of an ever-expanding family that includes her daughter Sandra Hatch of Wareham MA, son Christopher McNiff of Kingston MA and his wife Dawn, and daughter Tracy Staples of Amherst MA and her husband Jimmy. Jane was predeceased by her youngest son, the late P.K. McNiff.
Jane was the cherished sister of Jack Malloch of Colorado Springs, the grandmother of 13 and great grandmother of 13. Jane was also the foster mother of the late Barbara Opell of Kingston MA.
Jane lived in Fall River during her childhood and upon graduating from Durfee High School she moved to Boston where she lived with friends and worked for Liberty Mutual. One of her coworkers there, Mary Faith O'Neill, would go on to become her dearest lifelong friend.
It was during this time in Boston that she met and married the love of her life Philip. The newlywed couple relocated to Duxbury in 1959 where they lived and raised a family for 66 years.
While in Duxbury, Jane, a big believer in the power of voting, was a poll worker for 18 years before becoming an election warden for 12 years. She also spent several years in the appointed position of Assistant Town Clerk for the Town of Duxbury. There was a time when, because of these two positions, that she knew half the people in the town on a first name basis, and she relished all the social interaction that ensued.
While spending time with friends and family was Jane's greatest passion, a close second was her passion for singing. Whether it was multiple leading roles in musicals with the Duxbury based community theatre group The Bay Players or her many years spent singing professionally at various venues in Duxbury and Falmouth - Jane loved it all. She was especially thrilled when a crowd would respond to her enthusiasm and sing along with her.
Jane enjoyed travel, but it was always more about the who than the where. She loved meeting new people and would routinely create friends for life from a chance encounter. She had cards and notes for every occasion and made it look effortless to keep in constant touch with her ever-expanding family and circle of friends.
It was this special combination of social grace and friendly personality that led her and Phil, in their late 70's, to cultivate a group of new friends that met at the same time and place every year in Ptown for a week of fun and revelry. And while they may have been the oldest couple in the group, it never seemed that way as they were always young at heart.
Calling hours will be held on Thursday, June 26th from 4-7:00 at the Shepherd Funeral Home, 216 Main St. (route 106) in Kingston, MA. A funeral mass will be held at 10:00 am Friday, June 27 at Holy Family Church in Duxbury.
In lieu of flowers please send donations to The Hannah B. G. Shaw Nursing Home 299 Wareham St. Middleborough, MA. 02346 Jane's family will be forever grateful for the wonderful care they provided over the past year.

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Diana and Daniel Wang

June 25, 2025

I first met Jane at the Duxbury Town Hall back in 2005. What began as a simple professional relationship quickly blossomed into a treasured friendship. For the past twenty years, I had the honor of being not just the tax preparer for Jane and "Dr. Phil," but also a part of their extended family in spirit.

Every year, without fail, we´d meet at the same booth at T.G.I. Friday´s-our little tradition. We´d catch up on everything: life, laughter, memories, and of course, the growing number of great-grandchildren they were so proud of. Those moments meant the world to me, and I always looked forward to them.

Jane had a warmth and kindness that made everyone feel special. Her stories, her smile, and her gentle presence will stay with me forever.

I will miss you deeply, dear Jane. Thank you for the memories and the friendship. You will always have a place in my heart.

Maggie Velazquez

June 25, 2025

Mrs. Jane...
All she wanted was to be back with Phil.
The Joy and Love I spotted 20 or so years ago on that P-Town deck..
Who knew that their Hearts were Full of Love and Energy that they wanted to share
Happy I met you Both,
Happier you're back together...
Good Times, Lots of Laughter..
Shenanigans to You Lady Jane
CHOP CHOP

Trudi & Larry Boc

June 25, 2025

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Mother.
Jane was my co-worker for years at Duxbury Town Hall, and I enjoyed ever minute working with her and spending time outside of work. Jane was a wonderful women, always making everyone laugh and happy. Jane and Phil were the sweetest couple, they really enjoyed and truly loved one another.
Enternal love and hugs to you Jane and Phil!

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