Elliott Bespolka

Elliott Bespolka obituary

Elliott Bespolka

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9:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.

Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services (East Main Street)

254 East Main Street, MD 21157

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25

Prayer Service

10:00 a.m.

Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services (East Main Street)

254 East Main Street, MD 21157

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Aug

25

Graveside service

11:30 a.m.

Garrison Forest Veterans Cemetery

11501 Garrison Forest Road, MD 21117

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Elliott Bespolka Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services, P.A. - Westminster on Aug. 17, 2025.

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Elliott Gabriel Bespolka, Jr, 77, of Millville, DE, died Sunday, August 17, 2025, at his residence. Born March 16, 1948 in Cambridge, MA, he was the son of the late Elliott G. Bespolka, Sr. and Olga (Netishen) Bespolka. He was the husband of Linda R. Bespolka.

He served in the Navy during Vietnam. Before retiring he worked as a retail manager for Hamburgers Clothing, RoomStore Furniture, Jos A. Banks during his career.

He was predeceased by sisters Carol Ann Bespolka and Patricia Bespolka.

Besides his wife, he is survived by a son Andrew E. Bespolka and wife Dana M. Bespolka, granddaughter Corinne R. Bespolka of New Windsor, MD. Also survived by his loving sister Diane B. Ahlberg and her husband, W. Eric Ahlberg, III of Washington, NC. Elliott leaves a nephew, W. Eric Ahlberg, IV of Chesterfield, VA; and a niece, Cortney A. Napior and her husband, Michael, and their daughters, Emerson and Sophie, all of Chesterfield, VA. He also leaves many loved ones, cousins, nieces, nephews and a community of friends.

The family will receive friends on Monday, August 25, 2025 from 9:30 to 10:00 a.m. at Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services, 254 E. Main St., Westminster, MD. Prayer services will begin at 10 a.m. Interment will follow at 11:30 a.m. at Garrison Forest Veterans Cemetery.

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Upcoming Events

Aug

25

Visitation

9:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.

Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services (East Main Street)

254 East Main Street, MD 21157

Send Flowers

Aug

25

Prayer Service

10:00 a.m.

Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services (East Main Street)

254 East Main Street, MD 21157

Send Flowers

Aug

25

Graveside service

11:30 a.m.

Garrison Forest Veterans Cemetery

11501 Garrison Forest Road, MD 21117

Send Flowers