James Robert "Jim" Gaylor

James Robert "Jim" Gaylor obituary, Edmond, OK

James Robert "Jim" Gaylor

James Gaylor Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Crawford Family Funeral & Cremation Service - Edmond on Dec. 1, 2025.
It is with great sadness that we acknowledge the passing of James Robert Gaylor, affectionately known as "Rusty" to his immediate family. Jim was born in Oklahoma City on December 11, 1947, to Paul Gaylor and Ruth Bryant Gaylor. He passed from this life on Friday, November 28, 2025.
After graduating from high school in Miami, OK, he enlisted in the Army and was discharged as a Captain. He attended Northeastern Oklahoma A&M College, the University of Oklahoma, and earned his MS at the University of Central Oklahoma.
Jim spent years working at Dean McGee Eye Institute and the University of Oklahoma Dermatology Department before founding and running his own environmental science business for more than 35 years. He said he answered to no one except his clients, Janet, and the Cardinals game schedule. He enjoyed a quiet morning on the patio, with a cup of coffee. His passions were the St. Louis Cardinals and history.
Jim is preceded in death by his parents, and by Judith Hill Gaylor, mother of his children. He is survived by his wife, Janet, of the home; daughter Emily Gaylor, and his grandson, Ben Abernathy; son Chris Gaylor, also sons, Jeff (Robin)Wiley and Jason (Judy)Wiley, whom he welcomed into his life through his marriage to Janet; grandchildren, Geran, Darci, Aubri, Maci, Noemi, Graci, and Jeffrey; great-grandchildren, Sarah and Emily; and his sisters, Lesa (Cort) Cosby, Paula Crabb, and Jeannine Salazar. Many other family members, close business associates, and friends also survive him.
In true Rusty fashion, he requested his tombstone read: "I told you I was sick."
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Debra Wiley Austin

December 3, 2025

So very sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love and prayers.

Kathy Costello

December 3, 2025

I am very sad to hear that Jim has passed away. It's been many years since I've seen him but have many nice memories. Jim was a customer at a café i worked for many years. Jim would come in sometimes for breakfast early morning. There was a constant group that were always there and it was always good when Jim was part of that. It was a great way to start a day, everyone was happy! He would also bring his crew in at lunch if they were in the area. always kind! Also he and Janet would come for lunch, I like them both every much. After waiting on him for quite some time I found out our son's were also friends and still are. Life is way to short. My heartfelt condolences. Kathy Costello (RJs Cafe)

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