Luke Wienecke

Luke Wienecke obituary, Oklahoma City, OK

Luke Wienecke

Luke Wienecke Obituary

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Robert "Luke" Wienecke, a beloved son, brother, and friend to many, died on May 12, 2023.
Luke was born on June 26, 2002 in Oklahoma City. He grew up in Nichols Hills, attending Christ the King Catholic School and Bishop McGuinness High School. He was an AP student; served on student council all 4 years of high school, and served for two years as Class President; he played on the golf team; he was Master of Assemblies, emceeing school events and rallies, renowned for compelling speeches.
He was blessed with many close friends, a number of whom he attended school with from pre-school through twelfth grade.
After graduating from McGuinness, Luke attended college at George Washington University in Washington, D.C., majoring in Political Science. He interned with Oklahoma Congressman Tom Cole, and for the House Appropriations Subcommittee on Transportation, Housing, and Urban Development. At home, he interned with OKC Mayor David Holt. He was a writer and Sports Editor for the GW newspaper. His randomly-assigned freshman roommates became a tight knit group that sustained and supported him in his time away from home.
Luke was always a student of life and had a keen analytical mind. His intense focus and varied interests often belied his young age. When he was four years old, Luke drew a thoroughly detailed, labeled rendition of the Titanic on 8 pieces of paper taped together. He was an avid and meticulous collector of basketball cards. Luke had an encyclopedic knowledge of sports statistics. Like many members of his Cooper family, Luke was musical, playing guitar and piano, and he had a surprisingly good singing voice. In recent years, American law and politics were his primary passions, encompassing presidential debates to presidential biographies to obscure Senate subcommittee hearings.
Luke's sharp, inquisitive mind coupled with his humorous, sensitive, kind spirit nurtured close friendships with peers, children, and his elders in equal measure. Luke was especially close with Father Rick Stansberry, the longtime pastor of Christ the King, whom he considered a mentor, confidante, and friend.
Luke had a special relationship with every member of his large family, too numerous to describe here. Since moving to DC, not a day went by without at least one phone call to his mom, Sarah, who was his steadfast champion in all things. He and his dad, Rob, bonded over the Dallas Cowboys and frequent discussions about Luke's future. His love for his siblings was peerless: he and Jeffrey, two-and-half years apart in age, still had their rooms connected by a sliding door, which was frequently left wide open: they had a special brotherly bond and always will. Luke interned for his sister Olivia and brother-in-law Kane's law practice, would often lend an ear to hearing about their cases, and even discussed a future law partnership. Six months ago, Luke became an uncle to his niece Cora and approached the role of "the unc" with characteristic enthusiasm, humor, and joy. One of Luke's most special relationships was with his Grandad, Dick Cooper - who was an always-willing C-SPAN, presidential debate and political issue foil.
Along with his myriad achievements, accolades, close relationships, sense of humor, Luke battled serious mental illness. His struggle with bipolar disorder in recent years has been a roller coaster of the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. His immediate family provided never-ending support, in particular, his mom Sarah was his devoted advocate, always working to perfect his treatment so he could live the life we all knew he deserved. Luke was determined to not let bipolar disorder define him. Ultimately, the battle came to an end when Luke took his own life.
All who know Luke are so proud of him and grateful for the many experiences and accomplishments that will be his legacy. It now falls to those who knew and loved him to carry forward his good works and kind deeds. He made every moment of his twenty years count.
Luke is survived by his loving parents, Robert and Sarah Wienecke; sister Olivia Glazner Cassil, brother-in-law Kane Cassil, and niece Cora Cassil; brother Jeffrey Wienecke; Grandad, Richard Cooper; uncle Steve Cooper & aunt Annamarie Cooper, cousins Adam & Tara Cooper, Elaine & Jacob Simon, Claire Cooper, and Ann Cooper; aunt Rebecca Gordon, cousins Jordan Cody, Genevieve Gordon, Liliana Gordon, and Matt & Sarah Brown; aunt Catherine Vaughn & uncle Jim Vaughn, cousin Alex Valleroy; uncle Michael Cooper & aunt Rachel Cooper, cousins Maegan and Carrie Cooper; uncle Tim Cooper & aunt Erin Cooper, cousins Elise and Adele Cooper; uncle Matt Wienecke & aunt Sally Wienecke, cousins Chandler and Colton Wienecke; uncle Alan Wienecke, cousins Carl & Monica Wienecke; and aunt Gretchen Wienecke & uncle Bob Herre, cousins Matt, Bobby, and Nikki Herre; as well as great-aunts, great-uncles, second cousins, and many other loving relatives. He is preceded in death by Grandma Shirley Cooper and Grandparents Bob & Nancy Wienecke.
An Evening Prayer Service will be held on Wednesday May 17, 2023 at 7:00 PM at Christ the King Catholic Church. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, May 18, 2023 at 2:00 also at Christ the King Catholic Church.
Congressman Cole issued the following statement about Luke:
http://cole.house.gov/media/press-releases/cole-mourns-loss-dc-intern-luke-wienecke
A flag will be flown over the United States Capitol to honor Luke and presented to his family with gratitude for his faithful service.
In Luke's memory, the family encourages donations to the Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance of Oklahoma through a link on their website at www.dbsaok.org or by contacting the organization directly.

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May 9, 2024

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May 23, 2023

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May 23, 2023

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Tom and Janet Fedor

May 9, 2024

Dr Wienecke and Family-
Our thought and prayers remain with you and your family during this time.
Tom and Janet Fedor

Darren Goff

May 23, 2023

So sorry for your loss . Please make a you tube tribute of photos of your sweet boy and put great music to it . Then when you need a Luke moment go to it and revel in the memory of your handsome son . Again I´m sorry for your loss, Darren Goff

Karen Jurich

May 23, 2023

I wish to add condolences to Luke´s family and friends. The obituary touched me due to Luke´s life mirroring my own son´s who will be attending GW in the fall. I will remember Luke´s story and hold my son a little closer. Peace to you all and especially to Sarah.

Mackenzie

May 22, 2023

The first day of my American presidency class this semester luke asked if he could sit in the desk next to me. The rest of the semester was filled with him making remarkably intelligent comments that always left me thinking "why didn´t I think of that", a smile he brought to class everyday, little comments he would make about the class to me that would leave me giggling, and him encouraging me to share more of my thoughts to the class. On the last day of class we walked out together and I told him I think he should run for president some day. I could tell how special of a person he was from the small amount of time I spent with him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Kay Barker and Odie Nance

May 21, 2023

Luke was blessed to have your love and knowledge to help him cope and excel in numerous areas as he struggled with this most challenging condition.
Through his accomplishments, he leaves a legacy which will continue to positively affect the lives of numerous people as well as future generations.

Words are inadequate to express our sorrow for your unfathomable loss.

Matt Boyse

May 21, 2023

What a shock, what a loss, what a tragedy! Phrases in a few languages come to mind: es fehlen die Woerter (German) or brak slow (Polish) - that can be translated along the lines of "I am at a loss for words."

Luke was a student in my U.S. Foreign Policy course at GW. He was such a cheerful, engaged, and enthusiastic student. He was constantly raising his hand and contributing to the discussion. He was such a joy to have in class, always adding interesting and important perspectives and advancing the subject at hand. I remember running into him a couple of times on campus and his cheer would brighten my day.

My deepest sympathies to Luke´s family. I only knew him from one class but from that perspective he was a terrific young man. My deepest condolences and requiescat in pace. Matt Boyse

Thuy Farrell

May 17, 2023

Dear family especially Mrs Sarah Wienecke. Thank you for revealing Luke´s struggle with bipolar. As a woman diagnosed with bipolar, I struggle to balance living out my dream and making it a reality with limitations that I am frozen when I am down and feel so depressed and helpless. I have learned to self talk saying to myself this too shall pass. Luke had lived a great and fulfilling life because you gave him everything: love shelter education. God bless you.

Roger and Jimmie Harris

May 17, 2023

Dr Rob and wife Sarah. So sorry for your tragic loss. We have experienced the loss of our nephew. So tragic. Prayers your way.
Roger and Jimmie Harris

Nancy Croley

May 16, 2023

Dr. Wienecke & family,
Steven and I are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Croley

Tonya Atkinson

May 16, 2023

Drs. Wienecke and family, I am so very sorry for this unfathomable loss. Wishing you every possible comfort.

Anna Timberlake

May 16, 2023

Wienecke Family: Luke is such a light and a joy to teach. I fondly remember the many discussions and questions he had in middle school science. :) It was extra special to also teach Jeffrey and witness the strong bond the two of them have. I sincerely wish I could have made his funeral, but please know I have been fervently praying for all of you. May our Mother Mary wrap you in her mantle and bring you peace.

Bob and Denise Remondino

May 16, 2023

Rob and Sarah, you are the best and so sorry. Thoughts and prayers are constantly with you and you´re family from both of us. I have received multiple texts from many others, expressing their sympathy and support. Lots of love from Everyone.

Colleen Kennedy

May 16, 2023

I was fortunate to have Luke as a student in my Interpersonal Communication class this past Fall, and remember him as a thoughtful, engaged and collegial standout among the class. Our class presentations gave him the opportunity to speak of his love for his family and friends and passion for golf. He will be greatly missed in the GW community and my thoughts are with his family and friends who are facing this difficult moment.

Matt Clark

May 16, 2023

"So sorry to hear this horrible news...I loved and admired how hard he worked and relentless Luke was while playing for me.....He'll always be one of my favorite players...
Rest in Peace young man..
Matt Clark"

Fr. Stephen Hamilton

May 16, 2023

Rob & Sarah: I am moved and saddened by this pain that you and your family are enduring. I join you and so many others in praying for Luke's repose in the arms of God's mercy. I pray that the Holy Spirit may bring consolation to you as you embrace this cross in faith.

Carol Barnes

May 16, 2023

Dr Wienecke & family I'm so very sorry for your tragic loss.

Peggy Pourchot

May 16, 2023

My dearest Sarah and Rob,
The depth of your sorrow has no end. Knowing God is your strength will help you continue. I lost a sister from suicide and not a day goes by that I don´t think of her and pray to God for strength.
I am so very sorry for this tragic loss of of a beautiful son. God bless.

Farewell Too Soon Bouquet

Lynlee Graham

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Dr. Michael Goff

May 15, 2023

Luke was a stellar student in my American Presidency course at George Washington University. He had just finished the course with flying colors a few days ago. He also was a very respectful, gracious, interesting, and insightful person. As his professor at GWU, I am stunned and heartbroken that he has died so young and so suddenly. I am praying for his mom and dad, his family, and his friends. It reminds me of the old refrain: "only the good die young."

Judy Henson

May 15, 2023

There are no words that can ease your sorrow, but know that your family is in my prayers.

Mathena

May 15, 2023

I was in a Business Communications course with Luke last spring and sat at the same table that he did. Every class, he would bring his joyous personality and make everyone smile. I was in a few group projects with him and our group would end up laughing and enjoying our time, mainly because of Luke. It is a rare occasion to have met someone with such a bright personality and so much talent. I was awed by his ability to public speak and get A´s on all of the exams - as was everyone else. I will always be thankful for the time we spent chatting on our walk back to campus after class. My deepest condolences to Luke´s family, he will always be remembered.

Lina

May 15, 2023

My condolenceso for your loss.
Although I don't know your family, I share in your sadness.
So very sorry.
May Luke rest in peace.
I am from Ottawa, Ontario Canada

Helen McBennett

May 15, 2023

My deepest sympathy to all who grieve the loss of Luke, especially his beloved family. May prayers of comfort fill your hearts and carry you through this terrible loss. Requiescat in pace, Luke!

Owen Averill

May 15, 2023

I didn't know Luke too well, but I saw him occasionally through the school newspaper and around campus. When I did see him, he was always genuine and warm to others around him, including myself. I offer my deepest condolences to his family.

Jack, Terry, Coree, Barney , Sally Sinclair

May 15, 2023

Gone tooo soon!
May we all learn more about mental illness and find solutions
Jack and Terry Sinclair

Earth & Sky Memorial

God Parents of Tobias Amstutz

Sent Flowers

Joanie Holmboe

May 15, 2023

What a beautiful tribute to Luke´s short life.
He was surrounded by love, family & friends and continues to be as he rests in the loving hands of God our Father.
God´s Peace be with you all as you mourn your devastating loss!
Much Love- Joanie Holmboe

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