Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Obituary
Guest Book
Publish in a newspaper
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Joan Benjamin
June 18, 2024
Pam, Brenda and I shared art and laughs (sometimes the one causing the other). My watercolor was pale and insipid next to Pam's vibrancy; "bland" was never in her vocabulary.
We 3 had an idea of opening a small, cozy restaurant, it's name and menu based on our 3 names: hence, PBJ's, with outlandish servings all somehow incorporating peanut butter (& bacon?) Good memories of a vibrant lady and sister in the Lord.
See you again in His Presence.
Joan B
Pamela and Michael Fishlow
June 11, 2024
Pam has taught us to find your happy place and live your life to the fullest! That is exactly what she had done. Caring, warm, creative, talented, unique, always a smile, that is how I will always remember Pam Our hearts go out to Dave, Jenny, Jason, her grandchildren, and all those loved ones she left behind. She is never really gone, just in another place and in all your hearts.
Brenda Morrison-Bowser
June 10, 2024
Pam, My dear friend for over 20 years. Oh the fun we had...
We met in massage school and all though very different, we became best friends.
The fun times of thrift shopping, laughing , eatting, massages and girl weekendswill always be my thoughts of us together.
You are a special amazing person Pam, I am blessed to call you my friend
I will always think of you and your fun engery for life.
Love you much. I can still hear your laughing and can't believe we won't talk again.
I miss you dearly
See you on the other side
Blessings to Dave, Jenny, Jason and family
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Brittany Appleyard
June 10, 2024
Pam was and will always be, the definition of a beautiful soul. Having her as a backyard neighbor with Dave for decades, growing up playing with all the pups, even back to when Winston would run up and down the fence line with our dogs, Max and Samson, stride for stride, so many memories. Was definitely sad to lose our neighbors to the beautiful beachfront life, but Pam always said she wanted to retire to her happy place with Dave, which is exactly what they did. Dave, Jenn, Jason, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Pam is now reunited with her mom that she adored so much, as well as I know she´s together again with all of her Yorkies that loved her dearly.
Forever neighbors, Tina and Brittany Appleyard
Kris Refford
June 10, 2024
Pam was a customer who became a friend. She was so generous. When she found out I was talking belly dance lessons she gave me a skirt that she has used for dancing. She loved her family more than anything. Her sense of style was bold and beautiful. When she moved to SC i was sad that I wouldn´t get to see her anymore. 2 years later we moved and I was so happy I already had a friend there. My dad died and my family went through some big changes right before we moved. I struggled and Pam reached out giving me big sister advice. Things didn´t work out for me to go see her but we kept in touch and she helped me through some dark days. I´ll miss her calling me Krissypoo. I will keep her memory in a place of honor. She was a light in so many lives and she´ll be missed so very much. Sending much love to Dave and the family.
Wendy Ward
June 10, 2024
Pam made an everlasting impression on my heart. She was so beautiful on the outside and within. I will miss our conversations about our love for family and our fur babies/pups, her incredible sense of style, her kindness, her honesty, her contagious laugh and her free spirited presence. She was not just a client, she really was my friend. My heart is broken and she will forever be missed and never forgotten. Sending my love and prayers for comfort and peace for Dave and Family.
Brenda Green
June 10, 2024
The memories come flooding back, of sketching together as a group in my home, learning to freely swirl out a bold sense of a person´s face and hair, of visiting her home with a kitchen full of cows, to appreciating the snake in the garden picture, hanging out with Kathy Rahter,... we laughed and cried together. Lots of love and prayers to Dave and family! Brenda and Henry Green
Carol Shenk Schneider
June 9, 2024
I met Pamela at a mutual friend´s coffee get together. We learned we were both from Lancaster PA and that started a great conversation about our lives there and things we missed since moving to SC. From there we discussed her amazing glasses and she shared her favorite websites with me, although I doubt I could ever look as fabulous as she did even if I tried.
I´ll remember Pamela for her never ending smiles and contagious laughter, her kindness and compassion, and her ability to make friends with everyone she met. I´ll always think of her whenever I see a flamingo and when I wear a bright colored outfit with big statement earrings.
Jennifer ONeill
June 9, 2024
Pam
She was an amazing artist and so vibrant. The first time I met her was at a New Year´s Eve party. I walked in and first person I saw was Pam with her huge smile . I felt like I had known her my whole life she was that welcoming. I will miss her and the energy she had. I cant think of her without smiling . She will be missed and never forgotten may you enjoy the light Pam, thanks for being you.
Jennifer ONeill
Peg Rettew Cross
June 8, 2024
I met her when she was the new girl at our school (Leola Elem) in 4th grade. She came over to me and asked me to be her friend. She and I have been friends ever since. I learned alot from her as a friend. A beautiful soul has left our lives too soon. But oh, the beautiful memories she has left in our hearts. A Choir of Angels have carried her Home again. May Gods' Loving and healing arms embrace Dave and her family.
Showing 1 - 11 of 11 results
9506 SC-707 Unit 3-4, Myrtle Beach, SC 29588
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more