Shirley Eilene Wilkinson

Shirley Eilene Wilkinson obituary, Norfolk, VA

Shirley Eilene Wilkinson

Shirley Wilkinson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Cremation & Funeral Services of Tidewater on Mar. 28, 2025.

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Portsmouth - Shirley Eilene (Lowe) Wilkinson, a cherished mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on March 27, 2025, in Portsmouth, VA, at the age of 82. Born on October 17, 1942, in Southampton County, VA, Shirley was the beloved daughter of the late Bill and Grace (Rollins) Hartman. A graduate of Granby High School in Norfolk, Shirley embarked on a fulfilling career in education administration, beginning as a dedicated secretary and later advancing to the role of office manager at Seatack Elementary School in Virginia Beach. Her professionalism and warm demeanor left a lasting impact on colleagues and students alike. Outside her professional life, Shirley was a woman of many talents and passions. She found immense joy in creating stunning stained glass pieces, sewing, and expressing herself through art. Her love for line dancing brought her great happiness, and she cherished the community and friendships it fostered. Shirley's life was enriched by the love and companionship of her long-time partner, John "Shep" Wilkinson, who preceded her in death, alongside her parents and her dear sister, Charlotte Hohman. Her memory lives on through her surviving family: daughters Sandi E. Moore and her husband Robert, Robin Ewing and her husband Jim; her devoted son, Trey Wilkinson; granddaughters Courtney Wilkinson and Tessa Ewing; and grandson James Moore. She is also survived by her brother Jay Hartman and his wife Linda, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends who will deeply miss her presence, wisdom, and kindness. A celebration of Shirley's life will be planned for a later date, where her family and friends will gather to honor and remember the beautiful life she led. Her legacy of love, creativity, and warmth will continue to inspire all who knew her. Cremation & Funeral Services of Tidewater is assisting Shirley's family. Please share memories and express condolences at CandFServices.com.
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Leslie Nelson Pereira

April 1, 2025

Shep and Shirley were the coolest adults in our neighborhood! They were a respite for me during during my teenage years and I will be grateful to them always. During the "straight hairstyle" years of high school Shirley would use her hair salon expertise to straighten my hair from time to time. She would listen to my cares and concerns and always have the right things to say. She was a lovely person in every way and I still think of her with gratitude from time to time. Shep? He was the grownup "kid," of mischief and fun. I still have a vivid memory (amongst others) of him going out for a long pass (of a small watermelon) in the Giant food store at Wards Corner! They were both such good, caring, and kind people. I also remember the day their daughter entered their (our) lives. A sweet beautiful blond haired child I fell in love with the minute I met her. I babysat her many, many times. Then came Trey, a miniature version of his father for whom I also babysat. I send love to you both and gratitude to Shep and Shirley for being such an important part of my life. I have not, and never will forget their kindness, generosity, and best of all, craziness! God bless them and their children and grandchildren.
Much love to you all, Leslie Nelson Pereira.

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