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John Heaton Obituary
John Joseph Heaton, Jr., of New Milford, CT, passed peacefully in his sleep on June 21, 2018, surrounded by his loving family. Originally from Bronx, NY, John and his family have been residents of New Milford, CT, since 1964. He was preceded in death by his parents, John J. Heaton, Sr. and Helen A. (Donnelly) Heaton of Bronx, NY, and siblings Thomas F. Heaton of Gibsons, BC and Joseph P. Heaton of Mesa, AZ.
John is survived by his one true love, his wife of 59 years, Louise (Picchione), his children Nancy Heaton (Stephanie) of New Milford, Helen Rossi (Greg) of Martinez, CA, Kathleen Martin (Clem) of New Milford, John J. Heaton, III (Stacy) of Murrells Inlet, SC, Louis Heaton (Michelle) and Patrick Heaton (Tara) of New Milford, CT, brothers Andrew Heaton of Groveland, MA and Kevin Heaton of Kent, CT, 13 grandchildren, three great grandchildren and many loving nieces and nephews and cousins. Near and dear to his heart were the many children who he welcomed into his home over the years, especially his nephew Adam Heaton.
John was a graduate of Iona Preparatory School in New Rochelle, NY. He was founder and chairman of the Nestle Credit Union for 17 years, served as chairman of the local union at New Milford's Nestle Facility for 20 years, ending his career as a Business Agent for the BCT Union.
He volunteered for the United Way and the Northville Fire Department, was a member of the Booster Club of New Milford High School and a member of the Knights of Columbus. He was a long time parishioner St. Francis Xavier Church.
John served on the New Milford Sewer Commission for 17 years, including six as chairman and oversaw the construction and rehabilitation of the New Milford Sewer Plant.
A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated Monday June 25, 2018 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Francis Xavier Church in New Milford. Interment will follow in St. Francis Cemetery in New Milford. Calling hours will be held on Sunday, June 24, 2018 from 2:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge Street, New Milford, CT.
Contributions in John's memory may be made to New Milford VNA/Hospice, 68 Park Lane Rd., New Milford, CT 06776.
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Jan, Abra, Reyes, Ryah Mabasa
July 21, 2018
Our sympathy to you, Louise and Family. John has transitioned, but his love and gentle spirit will remain with you. We will remember John for his many kindnesses, his keen intellect, and his love for his family. We wish you peace, calm, comfort and courage in the days ahead.
Loretta Clark
July 5, 2018
Dear Louise and family, I was so very sorry to hear about John passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Louise in case you don't remember me I worked for John Maurer and worked with all of you. Please know that I think of all of you often, I remember how kind your husband was when he was there when I was. You are all in my prayers.
Peter Henderson
June 30, 2018
John will be truly missed.
He and I served together as members of the BCT local 50 executive board for over a decade. He was an extremely hard working, knowledgeable, chairman.
John epitomized the statement, always sacrifice your own personal advancement, for the collective wellbeing of others.
Not a sentiment heard much of lately
Amy Gantert
June 29, 2018
Dear Nancy and family, I am so sorry about the passing of John. He sounds like a wonderful loving man who will be greatly missed. May your memories of him bring you peace during this time of sadness.
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Ann Cuddy Thomsen
June 28, 2018
Dear Kathy and entire Heaton family, I am so sorry for the loss of John. Although I only met him once, I remember him as a genuinely kind and thoughtful man. I hope you can hold your memories of him dear during this difficult time. Sending love and prayers to you all.
arthur palmer
June 28, 2018
just found out about johns passing.he always accepted people for who they were and not what they looked like,I really appreciated that more than anything he ever said to me.his family should be so proud of the person he was.can any of us ask for more/
June 28, 2018
just found out about johns passing, my condolences to all the heaton family.he was big on accepting people for who they were and not what they looked like.I appreciated that more than anything he ever said to me.I know his whole family is proud of the man he was. can any of us hope for more?
William Devine
June 27, 2018
Kevin, I am truly sorry for your loss my prayers are with you
Sandi Evangelista
June 25, 2018
May you rest in Peace Mr. Heaton. Deepest Sympathy to Nancy, Stef and the Heaton family. May God bless all.
Sandi Evangelista
Tim Cunningham
June 25, 2018
I got to know John from our time together at Nestle. I was very sorry to hear of his passing. I wish his family all the best in this difficult time.
Marion Turk
June 25, 2018
To John's entire family: I am sincerely sorry for your loss. John was a kind, loving, guiding "father" to my family. We will miss him sorely.
Peter Kisling
June 25, 2018
My condolences to the entire Heaton family. John was a great guy and I am honored to have known him. Many memories of seeing him at all the kids games and a really nice conversation with John at 1 Twenty Two last year. You have so many more memories and those will carry you through the days ahead.
Kevin Bielmeier
June 24, 2018
Our hearts and prayers go out to the entire Heaton family for the loss their patriarch, John Heaton. He was a good and kind man, devoted father, husband and community servant, that we are honored to have had the pleasure of spending time with, albeit too briefly. May he Rest In Peace.
Reynolds Family
June 24, 2018
May the road rise before you, May the wind be always at your back, May the rain fall soft upon your fields, May the sun shine warm upon your face & John, May God hold you in the palm of his hand until we meet again. RIP Mr. Heaton. God's best blessings to all the family in this time of sad grief.
Frederick Pauli - AOH Member
June 24, 2018
John was proud of the fact that his DNA was 93 percent Irish.
Mallorie Parkinson
June 23, 2018
Condolences to the entire Heaton family. Mr. Heaton was a very kind and gentle man. May God rest his soul
Anne Cutter
June 23, 2018
John was one of the sweetest, gentlest man I ever knew. I met John while on the Sewer Commission - his calm, confident demeanor led the group and he helped me understand many of the complexities of that particular commission. But, if you wanted to see his face light up - just ask him about his family. He was so full of pride and love His eyes would soften a smile would form, he became papa bear right before your eyes !
He was a smart man, he was a good man, he was a good friend. My heart goes out to the family. Love and prayers.
Lynda Wellman
June 22, 2018
I got to know John during my time as a reporter covering the Sewer Commission. He was always kind, patient and gracious as he explained the complicated workings and responsibilities of the panel. My sympathy to his family. May he rest in peace.
Donna and norman Miller
June 22, 2018
May you RIP John! ❤
June 22, 2018
My sympathies to the entire Heaton family. MY regards, Mary Hagan.
CKT
June 22, 2018
MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOU A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17
Font Family
June 22, 2018
So sorry to hear. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Anna Butera-Benham
June 22, 2018
My condolences to the entire family. Mr Heaton always greeted everyone with a smile. My God Bless you in your time of sorrow.
June 22, 2018
Our condolences to the entire Heaton family, Mr. Heaton was a very kind man and always had a smile on his face. He always welcomed everyone into his home.
Frank & Cheryl (Hungerford) Ferrence
Brian and Kitty Arnold
June 22, 2018
A good man...we will hold his family close in our hearts....
Thomas Grossenbacher
June 22, 2018
Sorry for your loss , John was a great guy!
June 22, 2018
Joh's smile shone light into every room he entered. He will be missed by all of us. We love you John!
Kevin Brady
June 22, 2018
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. By the wonderful words I've read on line it obvious that he was a fantastic man. Ladies, you will remain in my prayers.
Mildred Maras
June 21, 2018
Wonderful husband, father, and brother and son. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Rest in peace, Love, friends for many years, Millie and Butch Maras
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