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Donald J. Barnes

1936 - 2019

Donald J. Barnes obituary, 1936-2019, San Antonio, TX

BORN

1936

DIED

2019

Donald Barnes Obituary

September 1, 1936 - May 11, 2019
Donald J. Barnes passed peacefully at his home of 46 years on May 11, 2019. Don was born to Monte and Mamie Barnes September 1, 1936 in Colorado Springs, CO. His family moved to Southern California for a few years before returning to Colorado. He graduated high school early, furthered his education, received his clinical psychology degree from The University of Colorado Boulder and worked towards his PhD at Ohio State University. Don graduated from the US Air Force Officer Training School and began performing experimental research on primates. After many years, Don questioned the ethics and necessity of the testing and became a strong advocate for animal rights. Don quickly became a vegan, traveled the world speaking and advocating for the rights of all non-human animals. He was a strong advocate who spoke, debated and rallied for alternatives to the use of non-human animals in testing. Don believed strongly that no non-human animal should die for human consumption. Don was a voice for the voiceless! Don was active with wildlife rescues and cared for a feral cat colony practicing TNR at his home for 19 years.
His compassion for all beings was evident and he would be the first to tell you that he preferred his companion animals over most people. Don's love for beautiful women, vegan cooking, tequila, reading, gardening, late nights with his book club, jazz music, a good crossword puzzle, making limoncello, playing pool, having a beer, smoking a cigarette and strong black coffee were just a few of his many passions he actively enjoyed until the very end. He loved putzing around his home in Beacon Hill, a strong thunderstorm, the soft light at dusk he fondly called, "the gloaming", taking on many projects, running his cat fence business and staying active.


This great man was a partner in life to Alice. He was a father, stepfather, grand father, son, brother, uncle and a dear friend to many all over the world. He was the most charming man you would ever meet. He will be sorely missed by his companion animals and all that had the honor of knowing him. A Celebration of his Life will be held on Saturday, May 25th at Fast Eddie's Billiard's 502 Embassy Oaks San Antonio, TX.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Primarily Primates are greatly appreciated. www.primarily primates.org. Don's legacy is large, and he will be greatly missed by his loves and all that loved him.

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Published by San Antonio Express-News on May 19, 2019.

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Lee Evans

May 24, 2019

Don had a good sense of humor. One Thanksgiving when we were all over at his house having a vegan celebration of the holiday, I watched one of his indoor cats scratching the windowsill. I said, "Oh look, the cat is ruining your window frame." Don said, "Not to worry, he's just renovating it a little." Miss you Don.

May 22, 2019

Don was one of those rare humans who carried out his work on behalf of animals but never had the need to sing his own praises. In the field of animal protection and rights you encounter many who are there because they need to be, Don was there because he fully believed in the rights of those we call animals. He was eternally sarcastic, funny, appropriately disrespectful and brilliant.

This world still needs him but we will have to get along without him.
Lynn Cuny
Wildlife Rescue & Rehabilitation

Thomas Wigington

May 21, 2019

I am sorry for your loss. Always remember that God is loving and kind and He cares for you. 1Peter 5:6,7

Kay Lair

May 20, 2019

John (Hollrah) and I were just thinking about Don and wondering how he was doing when we heard the news. We are saddened to hear he has left us. Don was such an authentic individual and good soul, and he definitely left an indelible imprint on this earth. I know our lives were changed forever through our friendship with Don. He fought the power and used his eloquent voice to speak out for the voiceless. And the world is better off for it.

Forever Don

May 20, 2019

My college graduation 1993.

lauren Ornelas

May 20, 2019

I met Don in April 1988 and he changed my life forever. He was my mentor, he believed in me and supported me.

I learned so much from him and was so thankful to have him as part of my life for so long.

Thank you to all you have given the world and me.

You will be missed.

I am so sorry for his partner and family for their loss.

love,
lauren Ornelas

May 20, 2019

To the family and friends of Donald,I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure your hearts are heavy at this time. May the " God of all comfort" bring comfort to your family (2 Cor 1:3). Your loved one will be at rest and in God's memory.

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