Born, April 25th, 1927, in Tacoma, Washington
Passed Away, November 7, 2013, in Hayward, California
Bernice Meyer was the younger daughter of Albert and Pauline Notzli, immigrants from Switzerland to the USA. Baptized at Holy Rosary Catholic Church in Tacoma, the family next moved to Bremerton, where Bernice's father, an expert tailor, worked for the JC Penney Store. In Bremerton, Bernice began her Catholic School Education at Our Lady Star of the Sea School.
In 1933, the Notzli family relocated to Oakland, as Bernice's father was chosen to be the first tailor at the newly opened JC Penney Store. Bernice attended Saint Anthony Elementary School. Her "favorite" teacher was Sister Mary Canisius, RSM, who taught her in both 4th and 6th grade. Bernice was mentored at the piano and pipe organ by Sister Mary Donata, RSM. For many years, Bernice was the organist at Saint Anthony Catholic Church in Oakland.
Bernice attended Notre Dame High School in Alameda and graduated in 1945.
Mrs. Meyer attended Business College and became a skilled stenographer and typist. She was the executive secretary for Mr. Bruce Goldman and his Mr. La Rue of Goldman's Department Store.
When the time came for marriage, Bernice and her groom, John H. Meyer took their vows, "till death do us part," at St. Anthony Catholic Church on September 11th, 1949. Fifty years later, they renewed their vows at the same parish.
Upon John's retirement, the couple moved from Hayward to Joyce, Washington (Port Angeles) where they enjoyed the beautiful rural setting among the evergreen trees, and the rhythmic sounds of the waves at the shoreline of the Straights of Juan De Fuca.
Both of the Meyer's returned to Hayward in January 2013, to live at the family home. Over the past months, the family appreciated the care extended by Dr. K.S. Chen and the nurses and staff at Saint Rose Hospital. At-home caregivers are to be commended for their devotion to the couple.
Bernice and John were the proud parents of Steven John, Kenneth Alan, and Mark Herman Meyer. All the boys were born at Providence Hospital Oakland, where Dr. William J. Kennedy, MD, was the family doctor to all three generations of the family.
Mrs. Meyer was pleased to see all three sons graduate from Moreau Catholic High School in Hayward and later, from USF and UCLA respectively.
Bernice and John were frequent participants at both the Newark Swiss Park and Ripon Swiss Hall, where they loved to dance to the Swiss tunes. It was at the Newark Swiss Hall, that the couple celebrated their wedding reception, their 25th and 50th anniversaries as well. This past September of 2013, John and Bernice quietly observed their 64th wedding anniversary at home with family and friends.
Bernice is survived by her husband, John, her three sons, cherished daughter-in-law, Lisa Meyer (Marc), her sister Paula, and her nieces, Kathleen O'Connell and Denise Mucci. She was devoted to Gabriel and Sofia, her special "angels."
There are three services. A Prayer Service of readings and hymns will take place on Thursday evening, November 14th, at Holy Angels Mortuary, 1051 Harder Road at Mission Blvd in Hayward at 7:00PM.
On Friday evening, November 15th, at 7:00PM, there will be a Wake and Recitation of the Holy Rosary at Saint Vincent de Paul Church, Steiner and Green, San Francisco. On both Thursday and Friday, visitation will be held prior to the stated service times, beginning each day at 4:30PM.
The Requiem Mass will be celebrated at All Saints Catholic Church in Hayward on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:00AM. Burial to follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Hayward in the Saint Anthony section behind Moreau High School. All are cordially invited to a reception to follow at the Newark Swiss Park, Mowry West at Cedar Blvd. in Newark, beginning at 11:30AM.
In lieu of flowers, you are invited to make a contribution to the Bernice Meyer Scholarship Fund of the Golden Gate Boys Choir and Bellringers (GGBCBR) care of 480 Larchmont Street., Hayward, CA 94544, or in the envelopes provided at services.
May she rest in peace!

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Kathleen M O'Connell
November 7, 2025
Thinking of you today Aunt Bernice. I keep finding pennies all over the place in my daily travels. I miss you.
Connie Torrey
November 7, 2022
I am thinking of you today, Mrs. Meyer, and on many other days throughout the year.
I think how wonderful that you started your son, Steven, in music. And, I think that today you would be so proud of the work he does with the Golden Gate Boys Choir, even if it´s hard sometimes.
May you be remembered with love for all eternity
Connie Torrey
November 7, 2021
Thinking of you today, Mrs. Meyer, and sending love. We miss seeing you around, but know you are here in other ways. Your presence is here in all the good things your son, Steven, is doing w/ his music and the GGBC. And that is beautiful
~ From Roger and Connie Torrey and Family.
Connie Torrey
January 3, 2014
Over the years, I knew John and Bernice Meyer, but mostly from a distance of many miles.
Later, when Steve brought them home to Hayward about a year ago, I began to know them more. A lovely couple they were, and I feel privileged to have known them.
I see much, and, over a lifetime, I have seen much. But never ever have I seen the love, the care, and the gentleness that Steve gave to his parents so they would be comfortable and happy. Their care wasn't easy as they were getting older and older. But Steve didn't complain~ he never complained. This is so amazing to me.
Also amazing, and so beautiful, is that God took both John and Bernice to Heaven practically together to be with Him there. I thought of that a lot during John Meyer's Requiem Mass, and those thoughts were very beautiful and very comforting.
May John and Bernice live on and on in people's memories and hearts.
And may they continue to touch our lives.
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Connie Torrey
January 3, 2014
Over the years, I knew John and Bernice Meyer, but mostly from a distance of many miles.
Later, when Steve brought them home to Hayward about a year ago, I began to know them more. A lovely couple they were, and I feel privileged to have known them.
I see much, and, over a lifetime, I have seen much. But never ever have I seen the love, the care, and the gentleness that Steve gave to his parents so they would be comfortable and happy. Their care wasn't easy as they were getting older and older. But Steve didn't complain~ he never complained. This is so amazing to me.
Also amazing, and so beautiful, is that God took both John and Bernice to Heaven practically together to be with Him there. I thought of that a lot during John Meyer's Requiem Mass, and those thoughts were very beautiful and very comforting.
May John and Bernice live on and on in people's memories. And may they continue to touch our lives.
Kimberlee Caniglia
December 29, 2013
Many prayers for the family of Bernice and John Meyer. To lose a parent is terribly difficult, but to lose both within a month is heartbreaking. I attended the Wakes and Funeral Masses for both Bernice and John and have never experienced more beautifully planned out services. The readings, hymns, and particularly the music selections were a testament to the love of a son who wanted to honor his parents with the same gift of music they gave to him. It was like heaven sent it's angels to sing to us here on earth, giving us a glimpse of what Bernice and John have in store for them....and hopefully us to follow.
May God Bless the entire Meyer family during this difficult time, and may He guide them to find joy and love together in their lives.
Chris & Mary Antons
December 18, 2013
Dear John, Steve,Ken and Mark - We just learned today of Bernice's passing away. We have so many memories wrapped around our parish, our Benedictines and the strong relationship between Betty and your Mom/wife.
May she rest in peace and thank you all for being part of our lives.
Margaret Ann Kennedy
November 27, 2013
First of all, let me offer you my condolences on the death of your wife and mother.
Secondly, I am W.J. Kennedy, M.D.'s daughter, Margaret Ann. I can't tell you how deepley I and the rest of my family were touched by the mention of our father in your wife's/mother's obituary. It is such a comfort to realize that he lives on in people's memories and through their children.

For Bernice from John Meyer
Vilma Balbuena
November 16, 2013
EULOGY for BERNICE MEYER
by Vilma Balbuena 11/14/13
I don't remember when or where I met Bernice 30 some years ago. What I remember is her friendly smile and the ease she made me comfortable. It was like second nature to her. I often dropped by their house at Larchmont St. to do many choir projects with Steven. Bernice made me feel like I'm part of the family. If you feel tired, she said, lie down on the couch and use the afghan to keep you warm. She'd invite me for lunch while I'm there, even for some special dinners with friends.
One day, I woke up not feeling well and told her I couldn't go with them to watch the performance of the Boys' Choir at summer camp under the direction of Steven. She told me to take a hot shower so I would feel better. Wow, what power of persuasion she had! I ended up enjoying not only the choir but also the 2-hr drive with Bernice and John to Sonoma.
Bernice had a passion for life and for people, as evident in her yearly Christmas letters. She has strong opinions and an accurate assessment of character. She asserted herself when she wanted to move to a house surrounded by nature on a road less travelled. John, the ever supportive husband said: Go find your dream house and buy it. Next Christmas, she was ecstatic, writing about their little house on the bluff of a little Washington town. When Eric and I visited them they gave us a day to remember. Eric fell in love with the quaint A-frame house that exudes their warmth and hospitality. He photographed every section of it, while I photographed the surrounding trees, lupines and salmon berries. It was her little patch of heaven. It was a “little Switzerland.”
To return their hospitality after a boat ride and picnic, Eric asked where we can take them out to eat. She said, right here in my kitchen. Yes, she was a great cook, too. She warmed the tummies of many a visiting friend at this charming chalet, or even just dropping by friends at the Choir Central in Hayward.
Another patch of heaven to Bernice is the dance floor. She was a picture of joy, vigor and youth as she danced around with John in a very fast Swiss waltz tempo. My God! I couldn't keep up with her.
Charley and Carmela Colety
November 14, 2013
Now that she has fallen asleep may she rest in peace.
Kathleen O'Connell
November 13, 2013
Thinking of you Aunt Bernice. Love, your niece Kathleen
November 13, 2013
Love you Aunt Bernice. Your spirit lives on in the many people whose lives you touched. I know you are waving down at me from heaven. Your niece, Kathleen
Lydia Riccio
November 12, 2013
John, Steve, Ken & Marc, I have no words only beautiful memories of a lady who had a way of lifting folks spirits. Her artistic notes to my parents brought them joy & smiles. Can sure see Bernice upstairs joining the chorus of Angels. May she Rest in Peace. May your grief be comforted by the Angels.
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