February 10, 1942 - January 19, 2018
Ernest John DeMartini put down his chalk and closed his math book for the last time, as unexpectedly as finding the end of a Mobius strip, on January 19, 2018. Ernie was born in San Mateo, California, on February 10, 1942, to Ernest and Bertha DeMartini. He spent his childhood in San Mateo and Burlingame, graduated from San Mateo High School in 1959, and went on to add his bachelor's and master's degrees at San Jose State College.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Deborah Flory Maedke
November 5, 2025
I didn't have Ernie as a math teacher when I was a student at Acalanes, but I did have him as a dear friend when I myself taught Spanish at Acalanes a number of years later. Ernie always brightened my day and made me laugh. He could be SO funny! He even showed up in his convertible with a shovel at my house one Saturday afternoon when my husband and I were digging a trench in the front yard to put in a new water line to the house! He helped us dig! I eventually moved to GA and unfortunately lost touch with Ernie but I loved him and he will always have a special place in my heart. To the DeMartini family, I am so sorry for your loss. I can imagine how much you miss him. <3
Matt and Wendy Raggio
September 2, 2024
Dear Eva:
So sorry to hear about Ernie's passing. So many great memories. Ernie and I against Terry and Ed on the tennis court. I hope you're well.
Dave Mattei
December 3, 2019
Dear Eva,
Sadly I just found Ernie's obituary. I am sorry that it took so long to let you know how much my early years as Ernie's high school friend meant to me and how I was saddened to hear of his death. I always wished that we could have continued our relationship, but it seemed that life got in the way. But I always thought of him as a special friend and ALWAYS will.
Regards, Dave Mattei
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November 12, 2019
DeMar was my favorite teacher. He was always so pleasant, greeted everyone with a smile, and made math fun! I always enjoyed his class and his wit. I often think about him when I reflect on my own teaching practices. He taught me so much, not just about math, but about teaching and building relationships with students.

August 21, 2018
Mr. DeMartini was one of my favorite teachers at Acalanes. He was encouraging, kind, super cool, stylish and had a terrific sense of humor. He was beyond proud of me when I scored in the 97% on my SAT. It was all because of him. He turned a fear of math into a strength.
Sorry for your loss
Susan Bell Bien.
Barbara Starr
August 16, 2018
We just heard about the passing of Ernie. So sorry for your loss. He sounds like he had an amazing life, family and career.
Sincerely
Barbara and Harold Katz-Starr
February 28, 2018
Heartfelt condolences are extended to your family at this difficult time. Seek the love and support God provides to help you cope during this time - Psalms 29:11
Bruce Licht
February 26, 2018
Ernie was my favorite teacher and no question is the one educator I remember most from my years at Acalanes High School. I was very fortunate to have Mr. D for Geometry. Not only was he a great teacher but he made the subject fun. And Ernie sure had style. I remember he was always very fashionably dressed bold colors, nice bell-bottom slacks, gold chains, and fancy tinted glasses. He sure made a statement, especially with his kind heart and big smile. He was a cool teacher, both inside and outside of the classroom. He will always have a special place in my life.
Bruce Licht
Jean Lawther
February 24, 2018
My son was his student in High School. DeMartini singled him out as a star, and with his encouragement, he now has a BS in math and a Ph.D in civil engineering. He was a wonderful, supportive teacher at a very difficult time in my son's life. All of it done with humor. This is a very great loss for all of us but especially those young students finding their way.
Erin Phelan
February 23, 2018
I remember having Mr. DeMartini for Geometry at Acalanes Hugh School. I remember enjoying his class, but I loved math and thought it was easy because of his teaching. I remember he drove a porcshe and parked it in one corner of the parking lot just about everyday. Good memories from Mr De Martini. Sorry for your loss Kelly, and family. Erin Beth Phelan
Jessica Buckles (Fathollahi)
February 23, 2018
Even when I struggled with the subject, he was so nice and funny that I couldn't be too frustrated. His love for teaching was always apparent. He is one of the teachers that I tell my children about. My condolences to his family.
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