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Ernest DeMartini Obituary

Ernest John DeMartini

February 10, 1942 - January 19, 2018

Ernest John DeMartini put down his chalk and closed his math book for the last time, as unexpectedly as finding the end of a Mobius strip, on January 19, 2018. Ernie was born in San Mateo, California, on February 10, 1942, to Ernest and Bertha DeMartini. He spent his childhood in San Mateo and Burlingame, graduated from San Mateo High School in 1959, and went on to add his bachelor's and master's degrees at San Jose State College.

While a student at San Jose State, he met Eva Erlbaum, and they fell in love. They married, moved to Walnut Creek, and welcomed the arrival of two children. They eventually made their longtime home in Lafayette, which later became a playground for their grandchildren. Over the last nine years, they spent much of their time in Maui. Ernie and Eva's formula remained true, as they recently celebrated their (x2 + 4x - 10) when x=6 anniversary. As a husband, he fulfilled every girl's dream of finding a kind, funny and humble partner. As a father and grandfather, he was adored.

Ernie began his career as a student teacher at Willow Glen High School, moving up to the San Jose East Side High School District from 1965-67, and then making his way to Acalanes High School in 1968. From 1968-2004, Mr. D taught thousands of students, including his own two children. He absolutely loved every minute of teaching and never missed a day of school. He particularly enjoyed seeing the success of his students and their families inside and outside of the classroom. He also had an incredible ability to remember everything about his former students.

While he expected sincere effort from all of his students, he made life in the classroom enjoyable with his noteworthy humor. When class was out for the day, he was often found either coaching youth sports or at Diablo Foods visiting with students, parents, friends and employees. His family has joked for decades that it would always take him at least two hours just to get a loaf of bread, and he often forgot one item, so he just had to go back.

Mr. D "retired" in 2004 with his infamous line, "I told Eva I would retire, but I still think I have a few good years left in me." Within a few short months, he went back to teaching, this time as a substitute and also as a private tutor. In recent years, he also brought his love of teaching to Maui Preparatory Academy. When in Maui or Lafayette, he would always have his worn iPad so he could continue tutoring all his students. He also spent countless hours making house calls as he wanted to make sure students who were unable to attend school, due to illness or an accident, remained current in their math studies.

He leaves behind his wife Eva, daughter Kelly, her husband Nick and step-daughter Natasha, son Jeff, his wife Jenny and their children Natalie and James, as well as a giant sphere of people he truly loved.

Ernie did not wish to have a memorial as he never felt the attention should be on him. In his honor, The Ernie DeMartini Memorial Mathematics Fund has been created for the benefit of Acalanes High School students and teachers. Contributions can be made, via check, to Schwab Charitable at 1958 Summit Park Dr. Suite 200, Orlando, FL 32810. Please include the complete Fund name and account number 59836431 in the memo line of the check. His family thanks everyone for the incredible outpouring of support.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 21 to Feb. 25, 2018.

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Deborah Flory Maedke

November 5, 2025

I didn't have Ernie as a math teacher when I was a student at Acalanes, but I did have him as a dear friend when I myself taught Spanish at Acalanes a number of years later. Ernie always brightened my day and made me laugh. He could be SO funny! He even showed up in his convertible with a shovel at my house one Saturday afternoon when my husband and I were digging a trench in the front yard to put in a new water line to the house! He helped us dig! I eventually moved to GA and unfortunately lost touch with Ernie but I loved him and he will always have a special place in my heart. To the DeMartini family, I am so sorry for your loss. I can imagine how much you miss him. <3

Matt and Wendy Raggio

September 2, 2024

Dear Eva:

So sorry to hear about Ernie's passing. So many great memories. Ernie and I against Terry and Ed on the tennis court. I hope you're well.

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Dave Mattei

December 3, 2019

Dear Eva,

Sadly I just found Ernie's obituary. I am sorry that it took so long to let you know how much my early years as Ernie's high school friend meant to me and how I was saddened to hear of his death. I always wished that we could have continued our relationship, but it seemed that life got in the way. But I always thought of him as a special friend and ALWAYS will.

Regards, Dave Mattei

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November 12, 2019

DeMar was my favorite teacher. He was always so pleasant, greeted everyone with a smile, and made math fun! I always enjoyed his class and his wit. I often think about him when I reflect on my own teaching practices. He taught me so much, not just about math, but about teaching and building relationships with students.

August 21, 2018

Mr. DeMartini was one of my favorite teachers at Acalanes. He was encouraging, kind, super cool, stylish and had a terrific sense of humor. He was beyond proud of me when I scored in the 97% on my SAT. It was all because of him. He turned a fear of math into a strength.

Sorry for your loss

Susan Bell Bien.

Barbara Starr

August 16, 2018

We just heard about the passing of Ernie. So sorry for your loss. He sounds like he had an amazing life, family and career.
Sincerely
Barbara and Harold Katz-Starr

February 28, 2018

Heartfelt condolences are extended to your family at this difficult time. Seek the love and support God provides to help you cope during this time - Psalms 29:11

Bruce Licht

February 26, 2018

Ernie was my favorite teacher and no question is the one educator I remember most from my years at Acalanes High School. I was very fortunate to have Mr. D for Geometry. Not only was he a great teacher but he made the subject fun. And Ernie sure had style. I remember he was always very fashionably dressed bold colors, nice bell-bottom slacks, gold chains, and fancy tinted glasses. He sure made a statement, especially with his kind heart and big smile. He was a cool teacher, both inside and outside of the classroom. He will always have a special place in my life.

Bruce Licht

Jean Lawther

February 24, 2018

My son was his student in High School. DeMartini singled him out as a star, and with his encouragement, he now has a BS in math and a Ph.D in civil engineering. He was a wonderful, supportive teacher at a very difficult time in my son's life. All of it done with humor. This is a very great loss for all of us but especially those young students finding their way.

Erin Phelan

February 23, 2018

I remember having Mr. DeMartini for Geometry at Acalanes Hugh School. I remember enjoying his class, but I loved math and thought it was easy because of his teaching. I remember he drove a porcshe and parked it in one corner of the parking lot just about everyday. Good memories from Mr De Martini. Sorry for your loss Kelly, and family. Erin Beth Phelan

Jessica Buckles (Fathollahi)

February 23, 2018

Even when I struggled with the subject, he was so nice and funny that I couldn't be too frustrated. His love for teaching was always apparent. He is one of the teachers that I tell my children about. My condolences to his family.

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