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Brandon DeCaro
May 4, 2025
Thinking of you even more these past few days, old friend.
Brandon DeCaro
May 7, 2024
Miss you Ben!
Keith Johnstone
October 20, 2022
RIP Ben Huff
Dad
May 4, 2022
Love you Ben
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Brandon DeCaro
May 3, 2022
Missing you today Ben. You were such a great friend. I know you're looking down on everyone from Heaven.
Brandon DeCaro
May 3, 2020
Miss you Ben. You were such a great friend. May you be at peace with God.
February 21, 2020
Happy Birthday Ben
Miss you
Dad
February 21, 2020
Happy Birthday Ben
Love you,
Dad
Brandon DeCaro
May 9, 2018
Miss you Ben. Your friend.
Brandon
May 7, 2018
I love you and miss you Ben
Dad
Brandon DeCaro
February 27, 2018
You were such a great friend Ben and will always be missed.
February 22, 2018
Love and miss you always
Dad
Margaret Williams
November 19, 2017
Miss you today, my friend.
May 9, 2017
Miss you Ben.
May 8, 2017
Love and miss you Ben.
Dad
Brandon DeCaro
May 8, 2016
Miss you Ben
May 7, 2016
Ben, I'm cooking chicken and ribs and wishing were here.
Love you and miss you
Dad
Dirty Bird
August 5, 2015
BG!!!! Miss me you my dude. One of a kind. Much love always.
Jamie Gradwell
May 9, 2015
I can't believe it's been so long. You are missed every day. I know you are the Guardian Angel we all need.
I love and miss you Ben!!
Brandon DeCaro
May 9, 2015
Miss you Ben.
May 8, 2015
Ben, we love you and miss you everyday.
Lisa
Marty Huff
May 7, 2015
I Love you and miss you Ben.
Take care of John
Dad
February 21, 2015
We love and miss you everyday.
January 13, 2015
A great person and friend
Kim Ghant Furches
January 10, 2015
I come across an obituary today that absolutely broke our hearts for the Huff family... John Rainey.
I realized that this was the Son of Lisa Huff Rainey. Lisa, we are so very sorry for the loss of your precious son. When reading this, I noticed that he was preceded in death by his Uncle Ben. We had no idea of either of their passings.This was a complete shock for our family.
Growing up at young age in Rock Hill, my family had the pleasure of becoming friends with the Huffs. My sisters and I played with Ben and Jason daily. ALWAYS getting into something. Lisa would babysit us for our parents to gather at the community pool for cook outs. These were the best years of my entire life. I give so many thanks to Ben and Jason for these memories. As life changed and we moved to different states/towns. We lost contact. We, again established contact in our teens for a short time. I was so glad to be able to reconnect for a short time before our lives moved in different directions again. I will ALWAYS remember Bens amazing smile and every single childhood memory. I am so very sorry for each and every one of you. Marty, Martha, Lisa and Jason, Please know that our family is praying for you all. Thank You for so many wonderful memories!
Thoughts and Prayers,
The Ghant Family
Doug, Janet, Sherri, Jenny and Kim
Margaret Williams
July 12, 2014
I will always miss you! Thanks for being such a great friend to me. You were such a driven and focused person. You are truly one of God's special people.
Jamie Gradwell
May 8, 2014
I can't believe it's been 8 years since you passed away. Love & miss you Ben!!
May 8, 2014
We miss you so much Ben!
May 7, 2014
Ben, I almost forgot, be sure to take care of John
Love you both
Dad
May 7, 2014
Ben, It's been 8 years since you left us but you're on my mind always. I'll put some chicken on the grill tonight since that was one of your favorites
Luv Ya, Dad
February 21, 2014
Happy Birthday Ben. We all love you and miss you. I'll cook some ribs and chicken this weekend for you, Jason, and John.
DAD
February 6, 2014
WE NOW HAVE THREE BRIGHT STARS TO WATCH OVER THE HUFF FAMILY.
February 5, 2014
Take care of John for us
Marcus Luke
November 29, 2013
On the eve of the Michigan-Ohio St. game, I think of Ben, and, as always, smile! Like everyone Ben touched during his life that was way too short, I miss him.
Brandon DeCaro
May 8, 2013
Miss you Ben.
May 7, 2013
Ben, another year without you and the emptiness never goes away. I miss you and love you everyday....Dad
Brandon DeCaro
February 25, 2013
Miss you Ben.
Jamal
February 24, 2013
Birthday Week old friend. Toast to you.
February 22, 2013
Happy Birthday Ben. I know you are happy in heaven :)
February 21, 2013
happy birthday Ben. I love you and miss you
Dad
December 22, 2012
There's always a void in my heart during the Holidays without you Ben. I love you son and miss you so much
Dad
Stevie Anderson
September 3, 2012
Ben, as another season starts for Michigan, I still and always will think of you. You're missed back here more than you know. Go Blue! I always look for the #53 on the field and look back at your pictures in your memory. I love you and your style!
Jamie Gradwell
May 9, 2012
Think of you often Ben. When I get up to Ohio I will be sure to check on your dad and Bridget. Miss you more and more everyday.
Lisa Rainey
May 7, 2012
All of us were together tonight at Mom's...everyone misses you so much. I love you Ben..
Lisa
jason elledge
May 7, 2012
One hell of a guy and very well missed but not forgotten miss u Big Ben
Jennie Huff
May 7, 2012
Can not believe you are not here. Love and miss you every single day.
May 7, 2012
Ben, I'll cook some chicken and ribs for you tonght.
Love you...Dad
May 7, 2012
We all miss you Ben and wish you were still with us.
I love you...Dad
February 21, 2012
Happy Birthday Ben & Jason. Jason, Lisa, Jenny, Mom, Dad, Bridget, & Grandkids will make a special toast to you. Jason and I are both grilling tonite
Love You & Wish you were here...DAD
Lisa
February 21, 2012
We'll be celebrating yours and Jason's birthday today as we always do...and of course Dad is cooking ribs for you. We miss you more and more with each year that passes, and it is still so hard to believe you're not here with us. I love you Ben.... Lisa
Mike
July 28, 2011
Doesn't matter who's playing... when I see #53 it's your number to me.
Jamie Gradwell
May 12, 2011
I was just thinking about you...and can't believe your gone. Miss you everyday!
Pat Viamonte
May 8, 2011
Erik, Michael, and I talked about you this weekend and still cannot believe you were taken from so many people whom you touched and who loved you so much.
May 7, 2011
I'm cooking your favorite meal which is ckicken & ribs. I wish you would show up!! I love you...DAD
May 6, 2011
We all miss you so much,Ben. Everyone is doing their own thing, but we talk about you daily and feel you with us everyday.
I know you are proud of all we do in your memory.
Love you so much,...Mom
Jamie Gradwell
February 22, 2011
Happy Birthday Ben. You are missed so much everyday. Love you and miss you Ben!
February 21, 2011
Happy birthday Ben. I still can't believe you're not here with us...I love you and miss you so much.
Lisa
February 21, 2011
Happy Birthday, Ben! We love you and miss you every day.
Much love,
Mom
December 31, 2010
We're in a bowl game, that's good. We have RR to thank for that . Ha Ha .. He is such a good guy. We think about you every day, Ben..Go Blue.
Mom
December 31, 2010
Here it is , the day before a bowl game. At least we are in a bowl game . I guess we have RR to thank for that . Ha Ha he has no idea. We love you Ben and think of you every day,,
Love you , Mom
Chad
December 25, 2010
Sitting here thinking about you and some of the many memories around this time of year. Like the "can dispenser" you bought mombo. Only you could get away with that. Funny thing is I'm watching a replay of Hoke's team looking real good. I'm sure you already know that though. Miss you bro!
John Rainey
December 19, 2010
Hey Ben,
Been thinkin of ya everyday. I pray every night that everything is ok with you. I sure do miss you. I talk about you and the familiy constantly in Great Lakes. Man I hope you doing ok. Not a day goes by that you dont help me get through evrything. Thanks for watchn over me, and everybody. Ill be sure to make you proud bud.
Neil
December 9, 2010
Ben, I lived down the hall from you my freshman year at UM. I still remember you waking us all up with "We did it!" when you got back late from South Bend. You're the kind of guy we were all proud to say we knew.
Brandon DeCaro
August 18, 2010
Ben,
Growing up with you was an honor. As a 10 year old that just moved to the neighborhood, you gave me some of the best years of my life. Even after not seeing you for the past 15+ years, you still have made a lasting impression on me. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Miss you.
Brandon
May 7, 2010
I can't believe it's been four years, I love and miss you so much. Love, Little Julie
May 7, 2010
Missing you today and everyday
Tabby
May 7, 2010
Our thoughts go out to Martha, Marty , Lisa and Jason today and all Ben's family ..another year gone by .. hard to believe.... Pray to God to stay Strong..through the pain.
Love Chris and Greg
May 7, 2010
It's been 4 years since you left us Ben and I miss you so much. I'm blessed to have such beautiful children and grand kids and to lose one hurts so bad.
I love you and your family loves you
Dad
Jamie Gradwell
April 27, 2010
I can't believe it's almost 4 years since you have left us. Miss you...just as everyone does!! Love you!
April 26, 2010
I come back to check in, just haven't posted a message in awhile. Miss ya Ben (BG).
Jamal
April 23, 2010
These days leading up to your anniversary date are the worst. I can't believe it has been four years.
I love you as always and miss you everyday.
Mom
Lisa
April 4, 2010
This was the last holiday we spent together and it was my b-day too. Love you and miss you Ben.
February 22, 2010
Ben, for your birthday I stayed on the grill all weekend. MISS YOU. DAD
Jason Jennie Peyton and Bo Huff
February 21, 2010
There are just still no words...we miss you.
February 21, 2010
Happy Birthday, we love you and miss you so much.
Michael Harris
December 14, 2009
to the huffs ben was great friend that im happy to say i knew for a very long time from quail hollows football team to providence's football team. we had lots of fun together especially since we loved michigan football. i am truely sorry for your lost and may his memories last forever,
Scott Goodale
November 4, 2009
Before the Huffs moved to Charlotte sometime in the 80s, I grew up with Jason and Ben in Rock Hill, SC and played youth football with Jason. Jason and I were closer in age but "little" brother Ben would always play football with us in the yard, etc. I remember Ben as being a great kid with a good sense of humor and a great heart. We always enjoyed playing with Mr. Huff's Michigan Wolverines, SF 49ers, and Washington Redskins "REAL" football helmets as kids. We always thought that was the coolest thing. I'm extremely proud of Ben for growing up and accomplishing so much as a young man and I miss the Huff family from my childhood. Lisa, thank you for bringing me up to speed with an update on Facebook and I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Thanks.
Scott Goodale
Tracy Chambers Dulin
August 6, 2009
I ran in to an old dear friend today (Jennie) and we spoke fondly of Ben. It made me look for this online and I have just bawled after reading all of the wonderful entries from so many peoples lives that Ben touched. I grew up attending Quail and Prov HS with Ben. I also lived up the street and rode the bus with him. I remember always thinking how "cool" Ben was and literally looking up to him. I remembered how cute he was and what a nice guy. My son is 10 years old now, and is a "big" boy with a big heart. I know he is a special talent in many ways, including on the football field-and I hope that he will one day go on and be able to create such a special atmosphere for players and friends around him like Ben obviously did. I plan to show him this book and talk to him about Ben. Ben is an inspiration and a reminder to me to always appreciate our loved ones. Thanks Ben for being so special to so many.
July 4, 2009
Ben- just remembering the crazy 4th of July's with you! Especially the one at MiMi'a house when the sprinklers went off on you & Jason on the golf course!
Thinking of you today & everyday!
Jennie
BriAnna Frank
June 1, 2009
Dear Uncle Ben,
You werent really my true uncle but to me you were. I didnt really know you very well but me and pey miss you very much! We love you and miss you lots! God bless you!
Love,
BriAnna
Julie Foreman
May 7, 2009
Dear Huffs, we're thinking of you all today as always, but saying a special prayer for God to give you all a little extra comfort today. God bless Ben, you, and all of your extended family & friends. We love you guys! Julie, Wes, Michael & Lucas
Marty Huff
May 7, 2009
Ben, it's been 3 years and I miss you so much. I wish you were back with us.
I love you
Dad
Jamie Gradwell
March 5, 2009
Hey Ben I still can't believe your gone. I have this Michigan sweatshirt that everytime I see it I think about you...even though I'm still a Ohio State Fan!!! I will always keep that shirt. Love and Miss you!!
jamie lovern
March 4, 2009
Whats up man, Its hard to believe how long its been. I still think about you on a weekly basis. I guess that is a good thing, I hope I never forget all the good times we had. Tabby, sorry we missed you at x-mas, its such a crazy time of the year for us, we got to get together soon, maybe this summer.
Tabitha Payne
February 21, 2009
Happy Birthday Ben! I was just thinking about your 31st birthday. We were so broke so I set aside some extra money so I could take you to dinner to celebrate. You just so happen to find the money that I hid and used it to buy dog food for Harley. So many times a day I think of old times and smile. I love you and miss you always!
February 21, 2009
Happy Birthday Ben!
MARTY HUFF
December 24, 2008
MERRY CHRISTMAS BEN,
WE DO MISS YOU. YOU ARE ALWAYS
WITH US ALL.
LOVE DAD AND BRIDGET.
Marcus Luke
December 23, 2008
I was getting ready to play basketball at a local gym and went to grab a t-shirt. The t-shirt was a Dallas Desperados t-shirt Big Ben had given me years ago. Just like every other time I pull it out to wear, I smile, laugh, and think about Ben. I have met thousands and thousands of people and so far have not come across anyone like Ben.
When Ben walked into a room, everyone felt better. He had this aura about him that is unexplainable. He truly was a gentle giant. I was blessed to know Ben and still consider him one of the best friends I have had. I truly miss him, as we all do. Merry Christmas to all his friends and family, and to you too, Big Ben. Cain says Hi and he misses you too.
your friend,
Marcus Luke
BRIDGET HUFF
November 22, 2008
GO BLUE BEN!!! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YOU HAVE THE CONNECTIONS.
DO MISS YOU. B. AND DAD.
Martha mcurrie
November 21, 2008
The Buckeyes tomorrow. Can you say help? We love you and think of you every day, but Saturdays, come on help!!!
Love you,
M.
Jamal Anderson
November 20, 2008
Ben, just wanted to say what so many others continue to say and feel, I miss you. We just had a reunion of the 98 team, I know you were there in spirit....but I would have loved to see you in person. Miss you BG.
Jam
Bob
November 11, 2008
Rebecca and I were thinking about you at our wedding. Your Mom always gives me a little smile from you when I see her.
Love ya.
George Howell
October 22, 2008
I just put in a horseshoe pit in my back yard and while doing it I remembered ALL the GOOD times I had with Ben, Marty, Bridgett, and the boys. Ben was a hell of a guy! He would do anything for a friend. I hope everyone is doing well.
Marty Huff
August 25, 2008
Hi Ben, We're having a Huff Reunion this Labor Day weekend and I hope you show up.
Luv Ya, DAD
Martha Currie
May 7, 2008
Flowers, walk with Harley, together with all who love you and now you are around my neck forever. I know you're always with me. I love you and miss you everyday.
Mom.......Mombo
Jennie Huff
May 7, 2008
Two years and many tears. Still hard to believe we are going through this.
You know how much you are loved, missed, and thought about every day ......by many.
Marty Huff
May 7, 2008
Ben, it's been 2 years since you left us. When you left us a part of me left also. I love you and miss you
DAD
Tabitha Payne
May 6, 2008
Well here we are 2 years later - the absolute worst day of my life! Its amazing how I remember every little second and detail of the last day we spent together... I look at pictures of you everyday and wonder what we be doing if you were here. Where would we be in our lives together? I just have so many questions.. Its crazy how life can take such a fast turn and be flipped upside down in an instant. I miss you so very much everyday!
Gary Kidwell
February 26, 2008
God belss you Ben and your family. Thanks for the great memories you left us. WIll will gretaly miss you.
Desperados Fan.
BRIDGET HUFF
February 22, 2008
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN,
WE ARE SO THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND TOMORROW. JASON AND CHAD'S.BDAY!!! THEY SURE ARE PARTYING!!! YOU ARE SO MISSED.
WE LOVE YOU. DAD AND BRIDGEEETTT!!
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