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Roger O'Neill Obituary

Dr. Roger A. O'Neill 1957 - 2008 Roger O'Neill died on May 8, 2008 after a short decline from complications of adenomal carcinoma. He was attended by many family members and friends during his terminal illness, and received exemplary attention from Dr. Mojdeh Talebian in the Intensive Care Unit of Sequoia Hospital in Redwood City. Roger was born in Princeton, New Jersey to an academic family. His father was a Professor of Physics at Princeton University, and his mother a Professor of Psychology at Trenton State College. Roger inherited extraordinary gifts: His father's acute scientific insight, his mother's deep understanding of human nature, and both parents' skill in analysis and clear exposition. His family's frequent camping trips encouraged his innate fascination with nature and his love of the outdoors. He enjoyed the rustic pleasures of hiking, fishing, gardening, and tidepooling, and grew into a skilled biologist. Roger received his A.B. in biology with Distinction from Kenyon College in 1979, and his Ph.D. in biochemistry from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill in 1983. Immediately following graduate school he received a four-year National Institutes of Health Postdoctoral Fellowship, the first of many awards recognizing his creativity as a scientist. Roger practiced his profession in six life sciences companies, beginning with Genencor International, and ending with BioTechNiks. He co-founded GlycoGen, and at Applied Biosystems he developed the reagent chemistry used by both the NIH and Celera in their race to sequence the human genome. He co-edited and prefaced two books, and published 28 scientific papers and more than 200 abstracts. At the time of his death he held 12 issued patents and had nine more pending. Mens et Manus: Along with a gift for biological science came a cornucopia of other talents. Roger was brilliant with his hands: a sensitive angler, a crack shot, an elegant glider pilot, a skilled luthier, and a maker of beautiful objects. His cases in rare woods are museum quality, and his jazz and classical guitars have been praised by professional musicians for their warm sound and fine craftsmanship. But the most important symmetry of this remarkable man was that his many accomplishments were matched by an equally generous character. Roger loved people as much as he loved nature. His heart and home were open to guests from many fields of endeavor and every stratum of society, and as a result he was surrounded by loving and talented friends. First among them is his brilliant and beautiful wife, Dr. Olga Petrauskene, who he met and courted in Russia. He recognized and won her as a true consort, a respected biochemist like himself who shared his scientific training, his gift for playing and appreciating music, and his delight in a shared feast and a house full of laughter. Roger gave money to many charities, and he gave true charity to many people: His attention, his understanding, his support, and the time of his life that turned out in the end to be unexpectedly short. For those of us left behind, the transient gift of his person is all the more precious. Roger is survived by his beloved wife Olga; stepdaughter, Rasa Petrauskaite; mother, Sylvia T. O'Neill; sisters, Janet O'Neill and Eleanor O'Neill, and half-brother, Edward O'Neill. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The Southern Poverty Law Center of Atlanta, Georgia or the Johns Hopkins Colon Cancer Center of Baltimore, Maryland.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on May 23, 2008.

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Linda Liebes

June 20, 2008

Sid and I met Roger when he was perhaps four years old and was passing hors d'oeuvres at a physics cocktail party his parents were giving in Princeton. This clearly was the beginning of Roger's skills as a great host, which have been written about by others. He was enchanting and adorable and continued to be so always. - We loved the time we spent with him in his adult years in San Carlos and mourn his untimely death. To all his family, we send love and deepest condolences on your tremendous loss, which we also share. Linda and Sid Liebes

SYLVIA O'NEILL

June 18, 2008

Roger was my second child and only son. He was a very bright, loving and tenderhearted child and grew to be a man of incredible talent, ability, insight, and affection. He has always been an exemplary child. I am heartbroken at his loss but I rejoice in my two daughters and my grandchildren and also in Roger's lovely wife, Olga and her daughter Rasa, who have become very dear to me. I cannot adequately describe all my feelings about losing my beloved son but I can share with the other signers of this Guest Book that he was a gift to all of us who knew him.

GLENDA COSENZA

June 18, 2008

I've known Roger since about 1990 when his mom and I first visited him. We all went to Yosemite for 4 days and had such a wonderful experience. I grew to love and respect Roger and enjoyed always our times together. I'm so glad that Roger and Olga went to Alaska last summer with us (and with Rasa too). We had a marvelous time up there and got to spend lots of time in one another's company. I grieve for Roger. But I am grateful for the time together.

Robert Cardwell

June 1, 2008

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Roger's death this week. I had known him in pyrotechnics and we worked together pretty closely on a technical monograph he wrote for our journal Pyrotechnica. It was through this cooperation I became aware of his many other interests in rare woods, botany, photography, music, literary tastes, etc.
Roger would get out his guitar occasionally and play for us at the party at the fireworks conventions which was a treat.
We last talked about a year ago on the phone, mostly about how much things had changed in the country since 911 and about various health problems but I sensed nothing was life threatening with him at the time.
My best wishes and heartfelt sympathy to his family and friends.

Darrell Fiss

May 31, 2008

I also met Roger through Pyrotechny. It was at WWB and a star roller seminar he had given. The next year we touched base and I showed him video of the copy I had made of his roller. He will be sadly missed for sure. My deepest sympathy to his family and close friends.

Bruce Blom

May 30, 2008

I met Roger many years ago through our shared interest in pyrotechnics. Although I only saw and spoke with at these events, and it's been a few years since the last time, I still remember him clearly. His knowledge, willingness to share, and easy grace made him someone to seek out. He'll be missed.

Warren Klofkorn

May 30, 2008

I knew Roger through his love of the art of pyrotechny. I offer my sincere condolences to his family. He will be missed by many.

Priscilla Linsley

May 28, 2008

I met the O'Neill family the first day my daughters and I moved to Princeton in 1966. His mother and I became friends and our children played together a lot. My oldest daughter, Karen, receives "Town Topics" online and sent the obit to us. What a distinguished career the gawky pre-teen had as an adult with such a loving family and friends. I would like to re-connect with Sylvia.

Peter Fisher

May 27, 2008

I loved Roger.

He was a good friend.

He will always have a place in my heart.

I am honored to have had time
to work and play with him.

Peter Fisher

Dave Anderson

May 26, 2008

Roger will always have a special place in my heart. I will never forget him. He definitely made a positive impact on my life. He is and always will be missed and remembered by me. God Bless Roger.

Honor Spitz

May 25, 2008

I am so sorry to learn of such an untimely death. My condolences to the whole O'Neill family.

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