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David T. Benware

1952 - 2015

David T. Benware obituary, 1952-2015, Hampton, VA

BORN

1952

DIED

2015

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R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home - Hampton

245 South Armistead Avenue

Hampton, Virginia

David Benware Obituary

HAMPTON - David Thomas Benware, age 63, of Hampton, VA passed away on October 18, 2015. Born in Saratoga County, New York on May 23, 1952, he was the son of the late Thomas and Mary Benware. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his daughter Jennifer. David graduated from Alfred University with a BS in Political Science, later receiving his Master's Degree from FIT. He served in the U.S. Army for fourteen years. After leaving the Army, he worked in transportation for various school systems. At the time of death he was Director of Transportation for Hampton City Schools. The family will receive friends from 1-2 PM Saturday at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, Hampton, Va. Immediately following at 2 PM, David's life will be remembered and celebrated in the funeral home chapel. Surviving is his wife, Debbie, son Jason and his wife Melanie, brothers Ray, Bill, Tommy, Louie, Paul and Matthew along with their spouses and children. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the JDRF One Walk, Walker Debbie Benware (Team Dragons) at www2.jdrf.org or the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Virginia Chapter Hampton Roads Office, PO Box 11047, Norfolk, VA 23517. R. Hayden Smith will be responsible for arrangements.

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Published by Daily Press on Oct. 23, 2015.

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Peter Katranides

February 1, 2017

Wow,

If it hadn't been for Mr. B, I would not be where I am today in transportation. He saw favor in me and I'll NEVER forget that. Leaving St. Louis, I thought I'd never see him again. God had a different plan. I moved to Virginia and the company I worked for ran school bus service for that city. Who ran that school bus company? Mr. B. It was a great time to meet up with him again and later break bread with him on numerous occasions. Thanks Mr. B. You always will have a place in my heart.

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Steve Froberg

July 21, 2016

Dear Mrs. Benware ,
I went to the officer basic course with Dave in 1976 at Fort Eustis and he and i were friends , along with John Ohnstad , Jeff Peppers and Don Fairbanks . We stayed in touch for a while , but i last saw Dave when he was working at MTMC HQ in DC in the late 80s.
I am sorry for your loss . I was proud to call Dave my friend , and he was a fine soldier and one of the best troop leaders I ever knew.

God Bless your family and RIP ,

Steve Froberg

June 12, 2016

My condolence to your family
from a Atlantic Express of MO. Sorry to here of you loss. R.I.P. Dave

Debbie Foye

May 11, 2016

DebbieSo sorry. Deb and I just saw this. Our prayers are with you. May the fond memories of Dave guide you in the times ahead. Love. Debbie and Doug

Mary Jackson

January 9, 2016

Sending my condolences, Dave was my manger at Atlantic Express in St. Louis MO. That was many years ago, he was a great person.

Angela Jenkins

October 26, 2015

To Mr.Benware Family I send my condolences to you all. He will be truly missed.I worked under him for 1 year and He was sweet Boss to have worked for. My prayers are with you and your family, sorry to hear of his passing.

October 23, 2015

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Shari Huggar

October 23, 2015

To the Benware Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. David was good person and proud soldier! He will be missed by many! May God continue to comfort each of you.

Vizel Townsend

October 23, 2015

My condolences on your loss. Dave was a good guy. My prayers are with the family.

Jennifer Forrest

October 23, 2015

Nurse Benware, we are so very sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and your family! Love the Forrests - Jennifer, Greg, Ryan and Noah

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