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Massey - Fred W. Carpenter, age 79, of Massey, MD passed away peacefully with his family by his side on June 9, 2021.
He was born on October 26, 1941, in Kingston, PA to the late Lloyd Arlie Carpenter and Jennie Fernetta Carpenter.
Fred was a retired Physical Education teacher in the Appoquinimink School District, teaching for 30 years. During his time in the M.O.T. area he founded and coached the Middletown Wrestling Club in 1975, founded and coached the Middletown Soccer Club in 1978. He coached the Middletown High School Wrestling team from 1974-1983, he then went on to coach St. Andrew's School Wrestling from 1983-2018. He also coached JV baseball at Middletown High School, and St. Andrew's School Freshman Lacrosse. Fred was the Founder and Mentor of the Middletown Baseball Card Club, the Cofounder and Director of Camp Appoquinimink at Silver Lake Elementary, and Program Director of the Kent County Parks and Recreation at Redding Middle School.
Outside of the M.O.T. area Fred was involved in coaching and mentoring Team Delaware AAU/USA wrestling from 1982-1987, Faith In Action mentor and Recreation Director of Crystal Beach, Earlville MD, a manager and coach of Millington Warriors Legendary Men's Fastpitch team, member of the National Horseshoe Pitchers Association and an accomplished scout and outdoorsman. He also enjoyed donating many holiday meals to the Friendship House in Wilmington, DE.
Fred was preceded in death by his wife Emily Carpenter in 2008.
He is survived by his children, John Carpenter (Dawn), Bill Carpenter (Brenda), and Susan Carpenter. Three grandchildren, Brittany Carpenter, Thomas Carpenter, and Emma Carpenter, and one great grandchild, Sage Jacobs. He is also survived by a sister, Lois Sauers (John) and twin brother Frank Carpenter (Barbara), two nieces, Shannon Carpenter and Linda Sauers and six nephews, Matt Sauers, Matt Adamson, John Adamson, Andrew Adamson, Doug Carpenter and Todd Carpenter.
A visitation will be held on Thursday, June 17, 2021, from 10 – 11 am at Connection Community Church, 4744 Summit Bridge Rd., Middletown, DE. Memorial service will begin at 11 am. Interment will be private.
For online condolences please visit Daniels-Hutchison.com
In Lieu of flowers donations may be made to Friendship House https://www.friendshiphousede.org/
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Memories and Condolences
for Fred Carpenter
Sponsored by Daniels & Hutchison Funeral Home - Middletown.
Barbara Durham
June 5, 2023
Fred was a wonderful friend to the people at the Newark Senior pool. To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. Ray and I knew him and loved him. What a generous and kind man. Rest in peace, my friend.
LOVE OUR TEACHER/COACH MOT
July 15, 2021
THANKS...COACH/EMILY/JOHN/BILL/SUSAN...
APPOQUINIMINK SCHOOL AND ST. ANDREW'S SCHOOL...
NEWARE SENIOR CENTER POOL BUDDIES
July 15, 2021
Fred Carpenter “Coach” passed away in June. His obit is on Legacy.com. Coach was so kind, caring and compassionate. He always brought bushels of produce to the pool buddies to share. It would be a nice tribute to him to post the email below in the August issue of the NSC booklet. Thank you!
NEWARK SENIOR CENTER POOL BUDDIES REQUESTING POSTING OF "COACH" IN NEWSLETTER---THIS IS FOR YOU JOHN/BILL/SUSAN...DAD HAD BIG HEART AND WAS LOVED BY ALL W/ HIS GENEROSITY...FROM GIRLS/GUYS...
CHILDREN'S FARM TOWNSEND DE.
NEWARK SENIOR CENTER
July 15, 2021
Hello Arnie,
So good to hear from you. I am sorry about the loss of your friend. Coach was quite a guy and extremely popular on fresh corn and tomato day!
I hope you are doing ok and have or are surviving these challenging times We are getting back to normal here at the center but miss many of our members.
Take care,
Carla
Carla Grygiel
Executive Director
Newark Senior Center
200 Whitechapel Dr.
Newark, DE 19713
302-737-2336 x115
The first and only nationally accredited senior center in the state of Delaware!
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OCTOBER BIRTHDAY CLUB NEWARK SENIOR CENTER
July 15, 2021
Good coaches, particularly in youth embrace all players regardless of their talent level. They measure success not by wins and losses but by the instances of unlocking the potential in each player. That process requires connecting with all players, understanding what holds them back, giving direction, encouraging them when they struggle or their confidence wavers.
First, Jesus needs us to “recognize the challenge.” This requires that I admit I labor to be the disciple I am called to be because I am burdened by things that I prioritize over consistent, committed discipleship. Lord, grant me the grace to recognize the burdens I allow to exist.
Second, Jesus encourages us to “do your part”. That means intentionally coming to Jesus, taking up his yoke and learning from him. Lord, grant me the grace of perseverance that I always come to and learn from you.
Third, Jesus reassures us if we “trust the system.” This is the most difficult for me. I must let go of those things I want to control. That desire for control only creates more burdens. Lord, strengthen my faith, and grant me the courage to let go.
Thanks, Coach. Your message is clear. Let’s do this.
Barbara Tritelli
July 15, 2021
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Coach was a wonderful, caring, kind human being. His generosity knew no bounds. All of his pool buddies in the Newark Senior Center witnessed him bringing in bushels of produce for everyone to share. We remember Coach for his goodness and his friendliness to everyone. RIP Coach. Barbara Tritelli
THANK YOU FRIEND
BEVERLY-IN-HEAVEN AND ARNIE SHER SAMSON
July 15, 2021
JOHN-BILL-SUSAN...
RIP - "COACH" - FRED W. CARPENTER...
Good coaches, particularly in youth embrace all players regardless of their talent level. They measure success not by wins and losses but by the instances of unlocking the potential in each player. That process requires connecting with all players, understanding what holds them back, giving direction, encouraging them when they struggle or their confidence wavers.
First, Jesus needs us to “recognize the challenge.” This requires that I admit I labor to be the disciple I am called to be because I am burdened by things that I prioritize over consistent, committed discipleship. Lord, grant me the grace to recognize the burdens I allow to exist.
Second, Jesus encourages us to “do your part”. That means intentionally coming to Jesus, taking up his yoke and learning from him. Lord, grant me the grace of perseverance that I always come to and learn from you.
Third, Jesus reassures us if we “trust the system.” This is the most difficult for me. I must let go of those things I want to control. That desire for control only creates more burdens. Lord, strengthen my faith, and grant me the courage to let go.
Thanks, Coach. Your message is clear. Let’s do this.
BEVERLY-IN-HEAVEN AND ARNIE SHER SAMSON
BEVERLY-IN-HEAVEN AND ARNIE SHER SAMSON
July 10, 2021
COACH HAD HEART OF GOLD-SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO FAMILY/FRIENDS-COACH HAD TWIN BROTHER- COACH TAUGHT IN MIDDLETOWN SCHOOLS AND ST. ANDREWS. WE BELONGED TO OCTOBER BIRTHDAY CLUB. COACH/EMILY/FAMILY LIVED IN MASSEY MD. COACH WAS KNOWN FOR HIS PRODUCE GIFTS AND SYRUP GIFTS. HIS FAMILY LOVED HIM AS WELL AS MANY OTHERS. REST IN PEACE DEAR FRIEND...BEVERLY-IN-HEAVEN AND ARNIE SHER SAMSON...TOWNSEND DE.
Barbara Durham
July 10, 2021
I just found out that Coach passed. I knew Coach in the Newark Senior Pool when he use to being us a load of vegetables to the Newark Senior Pool. Everyone thought the world of him and he will be missed. Barbara Durham
Dona
July 4, 2021
So sorry to hear of Fred's passing....sending hugs to his family....a loving person, always.
Peter McLean
June 26, 2021
Such a wonderfully generous and thoughtful soul; Fred continues to be an inspiration.
I have fond memories of him...laden with fresh corn, brimming from burlap bags, destined for the McLean/Pala family and so many others.
We send our love to Fred and his family.
Peter (St. Andrew's School, fellow lacrosse coach and friend) and Family
Todd Reeder
June 19, 2021
Fred was a great guy.
Lisa Labounty
June 17, 2021
Bill, Susan & John,
I am sorry of your loss. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Thinking and praying for you and your Dad today and always.
With sympathy,
Deborah Heverin
June 15, 2021
I was saddened to learn of Fred’s passing. I hope his family will find peace in their many memories. He certainly was a good, kind hearted, and selfless man.
Kevin Dowling
June 15, 2021
Coach Carpenter was a truly, truly remarkable person. To this day I don't think I've met a more generous, caring, and compassionate man -- his example is one that I will always try to emulate. He will be dearly missed and my condolences go out to the Carpenter family.
- Kevin Dowling (St. Andrew's School, Class of 2012)
AL Shellenberger
June 15, 2021
Fred was a fun friend who "lived up the lane" from our family on Old Berwick Rd in Bloomsburg, PA. We shared a lot of laughs and memories. If you want to see Fred's family pedigree it is on familysearch.org. Someone recorded it back from Fred to the 10th C. The origin of the Carpenter name began in Melun, France in 1042 with his direct ancestor, Guillaune 'le Carpentari. Rest in peace my good friend among all your ancestors.
Ardie Todd
June 15, 2021
Anyone who knew Fred loved him. He was very humble!
paul collier
June 15, 2021
Mr. Carpenter was a tremendous coach and mentor to all those who wrestled at the Middletown wrestling club. He was there everyday at the old Ellis lecrone gymnasium to help us home our skills on the mats. I will always remember our trips to many AAU tournaments and the nationals wherever they might be... Indianapolis, Lincoln, Iowa city. He was always there to help us realize out goals.
paul collier
June 15, 2021
We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Peter
June 15, 2021
As I was reading this obituary I was saddened by the loss of Fred. I did not know him so at this time I would like to send you my condolences. Death is a sad time in our lives so taking comfort from God’s strength only he can help us get through these hard times that lay ahead of us at this. Have a good day Peter
Felecia Daniels
June 14, 2021
To the Carpenter family
My deepest condolences and prayers for your family's loss.
I had the pleasure of meeting Mr Carpenter years ago as a youth attending Summer Recreation at Redding Middle School. Years later when our paths crossed we would always reminisce about those days and he was always interested in where many of the kids from back then were and how life has treated everyone.
Such a nice man who left a great impression. It was always a joy to be in his presence.
Sleep well Mr Carpenter, you've earned your wings.
J Ortiz
June 12, 2021
VERY HONORABLE MAN, DEDICATED TO HIS CRAFT, INFLUENCED SO MANY, AND WILL BE REMEMBERED BY ALL WHO KNEW HIM AS A GREAT PERSON
Stacey Mansfield
June 12, 2021
Mr. Fred was so much fun! I had the pleasure of caring for him for a few months and it always made my day knowing we were going to the Dutch market. He will be missed.
Nick McDonough
June 12, 2021
Coach Carpenter was a fantastic coach, mentor and friend. He had huge impact on me and who I am today. I will forever be grateful and happy I had the privilege to call him my friend. This world got a tremendous amount of pure good because of the lives he touched. I can only hope to pay that forward as effectively as Carps.
Nick McDonough
St. Andrew's School, Class of 1999
April Stokes-Williams
June 12, 2021
My Condolences to the Carpenter Family. Mr Carpenter was a great Teacher. Always encouraged me to push through in gym. He will definitely be missed but never forgotten. I pray that God give JOY PEACE and may Gods FAVOR be upon you. AMEN
Kathryn Scott-Heiber
June 11, 2021
Fred Carpenter was my gym teacher in elementary school back in the 70's. I am saddened to hear this news. He was the best! Couldn't wait to get to gym class! He found me on Facebook. He remembered who I was and where I lived. He remembered things that I didn't remember until we were talking. There has never been another teacher like him. He will be greatly missed! My thoughts and prayers are with his family! May God be with you all. May he rest in peace and spread his wings he most definitely deserved!
Lois Barrall
June 11, 2021
Fred was the closest thing I had to a brother, having grown up with two sisters all my life. The whole Carpenter family was part of my family as well. I remember when my father died and I was starting college, he helped me move into my first college dorm room. How blessed we all were to have known him. He always had a smile. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. Rest well, Fred.
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