Carol Gough DaSilva

Carol Gough DaSilva obituary, Pompton Plains, NJ

Carol Gough DaSilva

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Carol DaSilva Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by M. John Scanlan Funeral Home - Pompton Plains on Aug. 15, 2025.

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It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Carol Gough DaSilva, who departed this life peacefully on August 14, 2025.
Carol was born and raised in Panama and immigrated to the United States in 2005 to work as an au pair. It was during this time that she met the love of her life, Jandir DaSilva, in Morristown, NJ. The two were married on December 1, 2007, beginning a life of love and partnership.
A passionate educator, Carol began teaching in 2010. She first worked in the Paterson school system before continuing her career in Orange, NJ. She was a dedicated preschool teacher who poured her heart into her work, forming lasting friendships with fellow teachers and actively participating in school activities, including art shows and community events. Since 2024, she had also been an involved member of the PTA.
Carol's greatest joy was her family. She especially cherished her relationship with her beloved daughter, Lillian Marie DaSilva, with whom she shared countless memories-from school projects to Girl Scouts activities. Carol's warmth, kindness, and generosity touched all who knew her.
She is survived by her loving husband, Jandir DaSilva; her beloved daughter, Lillian Marie DaSilva; her Mother, Judy Tejada; her brother, Gaspar Gough, and his wife Mabel, along with their children, Marianne Gough and Gaspar A. Gough; and her mother in-law, Marie DaSilva, her sister-in-law, Susan DaSilva, and her daughter, Jade Marie Ruiz. Carol was predeceased by her dear aunt and uncle, Edith and Franklin Sarmiento.
Visitation will be held from 4-7 PM on Tuesday, August 19, 2025 at Scanlan's. A funeral masswill be held 11 AM at St. Mary's RC Church in Pompton Lakes. Burial will follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Totowa. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Carol, please visit our floral store.

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Dear John,

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved wife. Words cannot fully express the depth of my sympathy, but please know that my heart and prayers are with you.

I understand the pain of losing someone dear, as I lost my father just four months ago on the very same date that you lost your precious wife. The ache of loss never truly goes away, yet I pray you find comfort in knowing that she is no longer suffering and now rests in peace.

May the Lord keep you and Lily, especially at this tender age. Carol will always hold a special place in my heart. OECC will not be the same without her, the warmth of her contagious smile, her joyful laughter, and her constant desire to help those around her will be dearly missed.

I also wish to thank you for the patience, love, and unwavering support you showed Carol throughout your marriage and during her illness. Your devotion was a true reflection of strength and love.

May the cherished memories you shared bring you comfort in the days ahead. Please know that you and Lily will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

With heartfelt sympathy,
Wilvana Mesidor

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Scanlan's

781 Newark Pompton Turnpike, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444

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St. Mary's RC Church

17 Pompton Ave, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

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