David Kramer

David Kramer obituary, Rochester, NY

David Kramer

David Kramer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc. - Rochester on Jan. 13, 2023.

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David Kramer, of Rochester, New York, born on September 13, 1963 in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, to the late Eugene Kramer and late Carol Kramer, passed away at age 59 on January 3, 2023. He is survived by his sister, Leslie Kramer (Justin Boyce); niece, Audrey Boyce; aunt, Janet Burke; and cousin Catherine VanMiert.
David was a Brighton High School graduate, and never shed his Brighton roots. David had a brilliant mind, and went on to attend Brown University, the University of Wisconsin, and the University of Rhode Island, where he obtained his PhD in English. Like his mother Carol and grandmother Mabel, he was a natural educator, and he taught high school and college students at many places in the Rochester area, including the Rochester City School District, Monroe Community College, the Rochester Institute of Technology, Keuka College, and St. John Fisher College. David was also a Fellow at Nazareth College Center for Public History and Storyteller in Residence at the Smaller Matters Institute.
In addition to teaching, David was a writer, historian and scholar who published numerous guest essays, letters, and book reviews. One of his many passion projects was a screenplay he wrote based in part on his dissertation on the Spanish-American war, in which he imagined an alternative history where Red Badge of Courage novelist Stephen Crane became a filmmaker.
But David is most known in Rochester for his self-made online magazine Talker of the Town (Talkerofthetown.com). David was a prolific chronicler of the history, politics, culture, and personalities of his hometown.
Perhaps the best way to understand David's creativity and intellect is to look through his magazine, launched in 2013. He wrote most of the articles and took most of the pictures himself, working tirelessly in his office every day researching his stories and talking with people-from the local shoe repair guy who gave him a free pair of boots to the candidates for local offices who were canvassing in Brighton. His family and friends as well were featured in many more personal stories, a precious gift.
He provided a forum for other local writers and poets to publish their work, including Michael Nighan, Bill Pruitt, and others.
David's passions extended to sports as well. He umpired for local baseball and softball games for decades, played with the Brighton "Game at the Corners," and was a diehard fan of the Buffalo Bills. He meticulously maintained a baseball card collection, which sometimes got mentions in his magazine. His friends have joked about his competitiveness. Whether it was chess, wiffle ball, darts, or Monopoly, he played to win.
A tribute to his kind and generous spirit are the many lifelong friendships he has maintained since childhood. Brighton friends Dean Tucker, Bruce Kay, Eric Kemperman, Stephen Shapiro, and Andre Marquis were always there for David, and he for them.
A private gathering to celebrate David's life will be held at the end of January.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to GeVa Theatre Center (gevatheatre.org).

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January 29, 2023

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VFA

January 29, 2023

David. I can't believe you're gone. You were an absolute original. I'll miss your curiosity, your intellect, your creativity and your genuine concern for others. I'm grateful to have known you.

Amy Stockwell

January 23, 2023

While I never got to meet David in person, I was privileged to be one of his contributors for Talker of the Town. Working with David was a delight. His enthusiasm, intelligence and boundless curiosity were inspiriting. I will always be grateful for having had those opportunities to talk to him. His passing leaves a big hole in the life of his community.

Michelle D. Smith

January 17, 2023

David: I knew u as a Brown '86 classmate who had a zest for life & learning, enjoyed laughing, and remember one heartfelt conversation we had about our shared love of English Language Arts (ELA), lifelong learning, enjoying good reading content, and a desire to teach. We both pursued and realized the passion of teaching and empowering "the next generation" in the education sector. May u rest in peace. Prayerful that we who knew u will keep your spirit alive through shared memories. #EverTrue // M.D. Smith :-)

Sarah Brown

January 16, 2023

I am so incredibly sad to hear this. I remember him well at brown University. I liked him because he was funny, smart -- and unique. Everything about him was unique - and he cared more about connecting and sharing ideas then putting on airs and posturing. He was real and I really valued that. I can see his smile so clearly - and I can hear is laughter even right now from so long ago. He was a good person; a good heart. Easy to talk to and communicate with, so approachable. Our birthday years with the same and we were born one month apart (I in October)... I wish I knew how someone so young dies. This is sad, and I'm sorry he's not in this world with us anymore.

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