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Marion
April 29, 2025
Hi Martha,
Not sure if NY is too far for you but trying to plan a memorial service there in a month or so.
Trying to get up to Oneida again soon.My mom her cousin would normally help with this but she's in assisted living herself.
I think her lawyer has someone assigned by the state going through her stuff, but hopefully when everything is assessed maybe some of her more military service related things can be shared locally. She has some beautiful art from a pre -tourist era Vietnam for example maybe a Vietnam Vet association would be interested in some it.
Anyway will try to get your contact and will keep you posted about memorial service,
Best,
Marion
Martha Paye
April 28, 2025
I am so saddened because of my failure to stay in touch with Ene.
She was my Personnel Director at Griffuss AFB. Please if there is any further service planned I would appreciate it if someone would contact me. Thank you

Marion Holland
April 15, 2025
Ene, my mom and grandma in 1963 in NY Harbor.
Illimar Ploom
April 8, 2025
Our dearest cousin Ene visited Estonia, her birth land, every year. Ene brought with her a joyful and peaceful aura, always ready for a hike or a chat. She never complained about anything and her was a very well-educated, sharp, and witty mind. Ene loved a good conversation and we, her relatives in Tartu and Tallinn, will be missing her dearly.
She had a unique way of making everyone feel welcome and appreciated. Ene's memory will continue to inspire us.
P.s. Marion, if you happen to read this, do send me an email. It would be lovely to be in touch. If I recall correctly, we are also related. My email is illimar.ploom(at)gmail.com
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Stephanie Schell
April 7, 2025
Worked hard to achieve the American Dream.
Marion Holland
April 6, 2025
Ene was my mom's closest family in the US and a sweetheart. Last year we had a wonderful time watching the eclipse up in Oneida. Kalli kalli ja head meelestused Ene.
Penny Stewart
April 1, 2025
So sorry for your Family's loss. I only knew Ene from shopping at the drug store I worked at. She was a very pleasant lady with a smile each time I waited on her. From what I just read about her she was a special service personal to the United States. Be very proud of her.
Sincerely,
Penny Stewart.
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