Gertrude L. Bonem

Gertrude L. Bonem obituary, Bay City, MI

Gertrude L. Bonem

Gertrude Bonem Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Trahan Funeral Chapel & Prearrangement Center on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Gertrude L. (Madden) Bonem, age 98, passed away Monday afternoon, August 25, 2025 at Bay City Comfort Care. The daughter of the late Harley and Victoria (Liss) Madden, she was born on March 29, 1927 in Bay City. Gertrude has been a longtime member of St. Jude’s Thaddeus Parish. She worked at the former Peoples National Bank for 33 years, retiring in 1994. Gertrude was the consummate host, and everyone looked forward to her Christmas Eve party each year. It was her favorite holiday, and she did a fantastic event. Gertrude was a devoted, caring and wonderful wife, mother and grandmother and she will be greatly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her.
On Valentine's Day, February 14, 1953, Gertrude was united in marriage to Joseph F. Bonem and sadly he preceded her in death on March 18, 2015. She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Carol and Paul Martin of Essexville and her son, Joseph Bonem of Linwood; her grandchildren, Heather (Ryan) Kastner, Ashley (Garret) Morgan, Sophia Bonem and Ryan Bonem; a great granddaughter, Josephine Alyse Kastner; and a sister-in-law, Kelly Madden. Gertrude was also preceded in death by three sisters, Charlotte Malleck, Olive Madden and Geraldine Rousse; and two brothers, Arthur Madden and Harley Madden.
The Funeral Mass will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, September 12, 2025 at St. Jude’s Thaddeus Parish with Rev. T.J. Fleming and Dcn. Timothy Hartwig presiding. It was Gertrude's desire for cremation to take place, and private entombment will be at St. Patrick Mausoleum. Visiting hours will be at the church on Friday, September 12th from 10:00 to 11:00 a.m. The family suggests donations in Gertrude's memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Funeral home arrangements are being provided by Trahan Funeral Chapel. Celebrate Gertrude's life online by sharing your favorite stories and photos on her dedicated webpage at www.trahanfc.com
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