Joseph W. Gross

Joseph W. Gross obituary, Gloucester, MA

Joseph W. Gross

Joseph Gross Obituary

Published by Campbell Funeral Home - Gloucester on Nov. 24, 2017.
Joseph W. Gross, 68, of Gloucester died peacefully in the morning hours this past Friday November 24, 2017. Born in Cincinnati, OH, on October 29, 1949, Joe was the third of four siblings. He moved with his entire family to Gloucester, MA in 1955. He has been a lifelong resident of Gloucester since that day. Joe spent his formative years attending St. Mel's School in East Gloucester before heading up the line to St. John's Prep, from which he graduated high school in 1967. He enrolled at the University of Cincinnati and spent a semester there before leaving to join the peace movement. He spent the next 20 years protesting, reading, driving a school bus in Maine, raising a family, and working as a fisherman out of Gloucester before deciding to return to school to earn his Associate's Degree in Physical Therapy from North Shore Community College. Joe began his career as a Physical Therapist's Assistant at Addison Gilbert Hospital before joining VNA Care Network and working as an in-home PT assistant around Cape Ann, a role at which he would excel and enjoy for the next 16 years of his life. Joe was welcomed into the homes of countless Cape Ann families and often forged friendships not only with the people for whom he was providing care but also with the families to which they belonged. Joe's family could not walk around Gloucester without hearing some form of compliment about how great he had been to a person's loved one in a difficult time, compliments which were always then passed on to Joe. He was a lover of reading, science, politics, music, bodysurfing, fishing, storytelling, and cooking, but the thing he loved more than anything else was helping people in a time of need. There was never a moment where Joe would be too busy to help a friend or stranger with any task, no matter how small or large. He loved to take his children and grandchildren for walks along the beaches and rocks of East Gloucester, where he grew up, and to take his dog for walks through the Seine Field, Dogtown, and Ravenswood Forest. He loved his family. Joe is predeceased by his father, Bill Gross, his mother, Katherine "Renee" (Mayer) Gross-Nutbrown, his stepfather Richard Nutbrown, his son Wilbur "Willie" Joseph Gross, and his niece Lauren Rendell. He is survived by his eldest brother Mate of Los Gatos, CA; his sister Gretchen Graziano of North Kingston, NH and her children Steven, David and Melissa; and his younger brother Tony, along with Tony's wife Abbie Lundberg and their children, Alex and Lucy Gross, of Gloucester. He is loved and survived by his wife of 47 years, Judith (Moser) Gross, of Gloucester, his daughter Mary (Gross) Russell and her husband Robert, of Tampa, FL, and his grandchildren, Jackie, Kevin, Julie, Emily, and Alyssa. He is also survived by oldest son Leaf, of Manhattan, NY, and his youngest child Julius and his fiancée, Emily, of Gloucester, all of whom loved him dearly. Visiting hours will be in the Pike-Newhall Funeral Home, 61 Middle St. Gloucester on Wednesday evening, November 29, 2017 from 4-7 PM. A Celebration of Joe's Life will take place at the Gloucester House, 63 Rogers St. Gloucester, on Thursday November 30, 2017 from 6-9 PM. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Joe's name to the League of Women Voters Katherine E. Gross Nutbrown Scholarship Fund, payable to LWVCA and sent to June Michaels at P.O. Box 244 Rockport, MA 01966.

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December 15, 2017

Geordie Keefe posted to the memorial.

December 1, 2017

PAUL & CATHY STANLEY posted to the memorial.

December 1, 2017

Wolf Krakowski posted to the memorial.

Geordie Keefe

December 15, 2017

Love you Joe, you were one of the best I ever knew! I wish we could have been there. Love to all the family.

PAUL & CATHY STANLEY

December 1, 2017

Our deepest sympathy and love to Judy and the entire family. So sorry we missed the service. Joe will be greatly missed, he was just a great guy.

Wolf Krakowski

December 1, 2017

One never knows who is destined to become a dear friend. I was friendly with Mate in 1970 - 1971 in Cambridge and met Joe and his family through that friendship. A dozen years later, I was back in the Boston area and, not knowing anyone except my fiancé Paula, I decided to go looking for Joe in Gloucester. I asked a couple of guys holdong a garage sale if they knew Joe: "Who wants to know?" they asked suspiciously.
After I told them my story, they gave me directions. What struck me was that these guys were protective of Joe and that he was part of a community that looked out for one another.
Joe and Judy gave us a cast-iron skillet as a wedding present, which I loved.
Joe was authentic; a big-hearted, caring and loving friend; always accessible and engaging.
In a time of personal crisis, Joe and Judy were there for me, keeping it real.
When I made my first CD, I brought it to Joe for evaluation. I never will forget - he fired up that huge car and we drove around Cape Ann late one starry night, listening together. Joe's genuine and very favorable, enthusiastic response did a lot for my confidence and self-esteem in this area. If Joe liked it, -- I knew it was not without merit. No cultural prejudices, no over-analysis. Joe was without guile, honest in expressing himself.
Joe and Judy always treated us to their generous hospitality, feeding us and making us welcome and comfortable.
Joe introduced me to the glories of kasha (buckwheat to the culturally underpriveleged). He was the only person who called me "Wolfie."

Thanks for your love, laughs and friendship, Joe. You are in our hearts forever. Peace, brother.

Wolf. Krakowski
Paula Parsky

Mardi Moser Rendell

November 30, 2017

So appreciate the loving attention, care and kindness Joe showed to my mother as she aged. And to Meredith, Lauren and myself when we visited family in Gloucester.

Eugene Nuccio

November 30, 2017

My prayers and sympathy to your family for the loss of Joe. The description of Joe's commitment to helping others and fostering peace throughout his life is entirely consistent with the person I met as my SJP classmate more than 50 years ago. Joe never hesitated to be engaged and to help others be the best they could be. God bless. Gene Nuccio, SJP '67.

Josh Silva

November 30, 2017

My thoughts are with the entire family. I'll always remember growing up in the neighborhood...Joe was like having another kid around! Water gun fights in the house, spray painting his yard into a baseball field, annual Water Country trips. All great memories I'll never forget. Thanks, Joe.

Jack Kareckas

November 29, 2017

Condolences to Joe's family and friends. The news of Joe's passing gives us pause and is a reflection of our shared journey through life. It is gratifying to hear of his work for peace and the care provided to others; noble efforts indeed.

Peace,
Jack Kareckas
SJP 67

Michelle Shattuck

November 28, 2017

Julius, So sorry to hear about your Dad. Thoughts & prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.

Dale Morris

November 28, 2017

Joe was one of a kind. My family and I had the good fortune to meet him when he was physical therapist for my mother. Joe's genuine compassion and caring made a world of difference to her during her recuperation. She always looked forward to his visits and Joe never ceased to make her smile, laugh, and bring her hope. We will always be grateful to him. I was very saddened to learn of his passing: my deepest sympathy and condolences to his family & friends. He will be sorely missed.

Bill Watson

November 28, 2017

The help Joe gave my son Will over 17 years enabled him to become independent and overcome so many advertises and you were a true friend to the entire family. God bless you Joe

Joe Delgardo

November 27, 2017

May my brother Joe Gross rest in peace during my time living with Joe and his family I learned what true love of life is, and Joe spread love and peace of mind every day of his life. He will live on in our hearts because he impacted our minds and he will never be forgotten,his legacy will be " He came, he saw and he conquered" he came with love he saw hatred, and he conquered hate with his love. Thank you Brother Joe I will continue our battle to change the world for the better

Marjie Erkkila [email protected]

November 27, 2017

So sorry for your loss, Tony . He was such a generous and gentleman even way back "in the day".

kelly reardon

November 26, 2017

Joe was one of the sweetest people that I have the pleasure of knowing my whole life, I used to love bumping into him he always had a big hug and kiss for me and told me he loved me, never failed to ask about my kids and tell me what a great job I was doing...Cheers to knowing you Joe, till we meet again xoxoxo

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