Obituary published on Legacy.com by Watkins Heritage Chapel - Kansas City on Aug. 16, 2025.
Andrea Shelley McThomas passed peacefully among family on August 14, 2025. Born in
Kansas City, Missouri to Dorothy Beatrice Stapleton and John McThomas, Shelley
was the youngest of four daughters, all of whom preceded her in passing.
As a child, Shelley enjoyed reading, writing, and traveling. At the age of six, she took
the train cross-country from Kansas City to Los Angeles alone under the supervision of
train attendants, who watched over children traveling alone. It was the beginning of a
lifelong love of exploring, traveling, and undertaking new experiences.
Graduating as Valedictorian of Lincoln High School, class of 1968, Shelley left Kansas
City to attend Howard University, following in the footsteps of her older sisters, where
she earned a BS and a Master's in Urban Studies. Remaining in Washington, D.C. for
25 years, she married Jeffrey L. Jackson, and to their union, a son, Aaron O.
McThomas Jackson was born. In Washington, D.C., Shelley pursued a career in
communication and marketing. First working at WRC-TV/NBC, and the Mutual
Broadcasting System, where she designed marketing and publicity campaigns for those
stations' top-rated hosts Willard Scott and Larry King, respectively. From here, she
moved into public relations work at The Creative Connection, where she was Vice
President for nearly eight years. After 25 years in D.C., Shelley returned home to
Kansas City in 1992 and joined the Kansas City School District in its marketing and
recruitment department. Later being promoted to Director of Communications and
Spokesperson during the turbulent desegregation suit years, where she had a front row
seat to the Supreme Court hearings at the station.
After stints at the Niles Home for Children, Fleishman Hilliard, and Executive Director of
the Heart of America Shakespeare Festival, Shelley stepped out on her own and formed
The Beatrice Group, a marketing and communications firm handling women elected
officials, special events, and healthcare clients. She was later invited to apply for the
Director of Elections for the City of Kansas City, and in November 2007, assumed the
position, where she remained until retiring in 2016. She oversaw more than 45
elections, including the historic win of President Barack Obama.
In 2012, Shelley was selected as a leadership Fellow to Nepal and Kazakhstan. She
maintained friendships from those experiences to this day. After retiring, Shelley
continued her election work as an international election monitor for the US State
Department and the OSCE. This work took her to Azerbaijan, Belarus, North
Macedonia, Albania, Bosnia, Georgia, Russia, and other Eastern European countries.
Additionally, as an international monitor for the Carter Center, Shelley served in Guyana
and Sierra Leone. She was also an election monitor in Ukraine twice, for the historic
presidential and parliamentary elections for Vladimir Zelensky.
After retiring, Shelley also indulged in writing short stories, taking tap dance lessons,
Zumba, and Tai Chi. An avid walker, she tried to get in 10,000 steps a day. With her
niece, Kamili, she enjoyed her second home in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and Atlantic
Beach, South Carolina- entertaining and relaxing with friends. She spent many winters
at her favorite Mexican beach town, Puerto Morales. Recently, with a Zimbabwean
girlfriend she would visit every winter, Shelley spent time in Ostuni, Italy, and Kilifi,
Kenya. Shelley was married twice and remained great friends with Jeff Jackson, with
whom she shares a son, and her first-grade sweetheart, Mark Bryant, to whom she was
married for 12 years.
She leaves a son Aaron, a host of nieces, nephews, family, and friends. Including her
five college roommates, whom she Zoomed with every month, as well as her AKA line
sisters from Alpha Chapter AKA Sorority Inc.
Shelley was a lifelong member of the NAACP, AKA, and a devoted advocate of Howard
University, where she thought every African American student should go. She was a
member of the Kansas City Alumni Club and donated regularly to her Alma Mater.
Shelley loved to dance and loved a good party! Her grandnieces, 20 to 30 years
younger, could never keep up with her during the family's renowned annual Kwanzaa
parties. She'd be the last one still dancing at six in the morning. Shelley was notably a
part of many organizations and sat on several boards; Card-carrying member of the
Democratic Party, D.C. Performing Arts Society, DC Lung Association Board, Big
Brothers/Big Sisters of D.C., KC Friends of Alvin Ailey, Global Ties, Kansas City Board
MO Election Officials. Her memberships include, Freedom Inc., Missouri Democratic
Party, KCU Radio, WPFW Radio (formerly WPC), Mtume Foundation, KC Chapter of
the Link, Beta Omega Chapter, AKA.
Funeral services Friday August 22, at 10:00am at St. Monica Catholic Church. Interment Maple Hill Cemetery. Visitation 9:00am-10:00am at the church.
Arrangements entrusted to Watkins Heritage Chapel. Condolences may be shared on our website. Services will be lived streamed: https://youtube.com/live/091U8cXwk8w?feature=share