Peter Russell Henderson

Peter Russell Henderson obituary

Peter Russell Henderson

Peter Henderson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Casper Funeral & Cremation Services on Nov. 14, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Peter Russell Henderson, age 85, passed away peacefully in Amesbury, Massachusetts on Friday, November 7, 2025, with his loving family and his beloved cat, Nino, by his side. After courageously facing an aggressive form of cancer, Peter is now at rest, having lived a life marked by unwavering loyalty, kindness, and integrity.
Born in Cohasset, Massachusetts on April 13, 1940, Peter grew up in Marshfield, where he attended public schools. At Marshfield High School, he was a standout athlete and served as varsity captain in baseball, basketball, and football. He continued his education at the University of Maine, majoring in history and pitching for the university's baseball team. After graduating in 1962, Peter enlisted in the United States Air Force, serving in Topsham, Maine until 1965.
Following his honorable discharge, Peter began his career working in sales support at Caterpillar, Inc. in Peoria, Illinois. He later returned to New England, where he became a respected furniture sales representative and eventually opened his own showroom at the Boston Design Center. Known for his reliability and fairness, Peter earned the trust and admiration of everyone who worked with him.
Those who knew Peter well can attest that the "darnedest things" always seemed to find him. Life's little mishaps and unexpected moments seemed drawn to his good-natured spirit, and he met them with humility and a ready laugh, never letting them diminish his joy or confidence. Despite these occasional twists of fate, Peter remained a gifted athlete throughout his life, running forty miles a week in his younger years and playing tennis at every opportunity. It was on the tennis court that he met his beloved wife, Lynne, and forged many lifelong friendships. Peter's loyalty, generosity, and steadfast support endeared him to all who knew him. In moments of both celebration and challenge, he stood by his friends, offering wise counsel and a helping hand.
Later in life, Peter took up cycling and could often be seen around town in his signature red vest, ringing his bell as he greeted friends and neighbors along the bike trail. He loved traveling with Lynne, family, and friends, especially to Europe and to their winter home at The Racquet Club of Scottsdale. No matter where he went, Peter's spirit and character left an indelible mark, and the friends he made along the way became family.
Above all, Peter was devoted to his family. He deeply loved his six children, eight grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren. He found great joy in cheering them on at their games and celebrating their accomplishments. Peter's unconditional love and steadfast support made him the heart and guiding light of his family.
Peter is survived by his loving wife of 34 years, Lynne O'Toole-Henderson; three children from his first marriage, Laurie Strong of Wilbraham, MA, Jeff Henderson of Palmer, MA, and Tracy Henderson of Springfield, MA; three step-daughters whom he loved as his own, Rebecca O'Toole of San Diego, CA, Kimberly Palen of Amesbury, MA, and Lindsay O'Toole of San Diego, CA; his brother, Robert Henderson of Pittsfield, NH; eight grandchildren, Jessica McCord of Palmer, MA, Chase Henderson of Wilbraham, MA, Tyler and Isla Lien of San Diego, CA, Kyle, Dylan, and Emma Palen of Amesbury, MA, and Mia Ford of San Diego, CA; two great-grandchildren, Brogan McCord and Kellen McCord of Palmer, MA; and his beloved cat, Nino.
Peter's memory will remain a guiding star to all who knew him. He showed us what it means to be a loyal friend, a devoted family member, and a person of true character. He always stood for what was right and inspired others to do the same.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society in honor of Peter's life and his brave fight against cancer. A page has been established for Peter Russell Henderson at American Cancer Society https://raiseyourway.donordrive.com/campaigns/Peter--Henderson

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Peter Henderson's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

Yesterday

Candace Longchamps posted to the memorial.

Yesterday

Britt Lien posted to the memorial.

November 15, 2025

Kim Palen posted to the memorial.

3 Entries

Candace Longchamps

Yesterday

I´m so sorry to hear of your loss OToole family. There wasn´t a time I ran into him that he didn´t have a big smile on his face. What a wonderful man he was! Candy Longchamps

Britt Lien

Yesterday

We will always remember you, Peter, as a friendly man taking good care of Norwegian guests. Only good memories! Thanks! From Britt & Hans Olav

Kim Palen

November 15, 2025

I will miss you always and I will treasure every happy memory you gave me. Love you Petie Pete.

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Casper Funeral & Cremation Services

187 Dorchester Street, Boston, MA 02127-2846

Make a Donation
in Peter Henderson's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

How to support Peter's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Peter Henderson's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Peter Henderson's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

Yesterday

Candace Longchamps posted to the memorial.

Yesterday

Britt Lien posted to the memorial.

November 15, 2025

Kim Palen posted to the memorial.