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Robert Robustelli Obituary

Robert "Bob" Robustelli
Robert "Bob" Robustelli, a lifelong resident of Stamford, passed away November 18, 2025, at Stamford Hospital surrounded by his loving family.
Bob was born January 8, 1953, in Stamford, CT to his parents Andrew Robustelli and the former Jeanne Dora. Bob was a lifetime supporter of athletics in his hometown and around the world. He was one of the most talented athletes Stamford has ever produced.
Bob graduated from Stamford Catholic High School in 1970. He excelled as a three sport athlete during his time at SCHS and was named the Most Valuable Player of the FCIAC championship during his senior year. He was a member of the 1971 Stamford Babe Ruth World Championship team which won the championship in front of a hometown crowd, Stamford CT hosting the tournament that year.
After pursuing a football career at the University of Connecticut, Bob would join the family business, Robustelli Travel in sales and event planning. He visited many countries during his tenure in the travel and hospitality business, often advocating for the expansion of football and baseball in Europe and Mexico. Following a career at Robustelli Travel, he returned to his alma mater, becoming the then Trinity Catholic High School's Athletic Director from 2016 to 2020.
Bob is perhaps best remembered for his 40-year dedication to youth sports in Stamford. During decades as a baseball manager at his beloved Springdale Little League and its successor league, Stamford Little League, and recently coaching flag football in Stamford's Flag Football program, Bob mentored and helped form hundreds of young players who remember him for his honest manner, old-world discipline and lifelong personal interest in their growth.
Perhaps Bob's greatest joy was family- countless pizza Fridays, Sunday family dinners, and the many golf matches he travelled to to see his grandson Chase play, and recently in coaching grandson Leo in baseball and flag football.
Bob was member of the Church of the Holy Spirit where he was an usher and member of the Men's Club, often flipping pancakes proudly at the pancake breakfasts.
In later years, he was an honoree in 2014 and member of the Stamford Old Timer's. He became its President this past year.
Bob's passing leaves a void that can never be filled.
Bob is survived by his wife Patti (Lacerenza), son Lucas (Kristen), and daughters Amanda Price (Jason), Brett-lyn Varelis (Stefanos), Kristen Delmonico (Barry), and Laura Smith (Cody). He leaves grandchildren Chase and Reese Robustelli, Owen Price, Leo Delmonico, Elle, Vivian, Archer and Colton Smith and their most recent addition, Konstantinos Robert Varelis.
He is also survived by his brothers Rick (Nancy), Tom (Terry), Chris (Bridget), Michael (Tracey) and John (Cathy) as well as sisters Laurie Salvatore (Bennett), Andra Compolattaro (Randy) and Tina Salvatore (Paul).
He is survived by many brothers and sisters-in-law, cousins, nieces, nephews and childhood and sports friends whom he loved.
Bob was predeceased by his parents Andrew and Jeanne Robustelli.
Visitation will be at Lacerenza Macari Family Funeral Home located at Eight Schuyler Avenue in Stamford, Thursday November 20th from 4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Guests are encouraged to park in a designated parking lot across from Sacred Heart Church on Schuyler Avenue, one block from the funeral home.
Family and friends are invited to gather for a Mass of Christian burial which will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. Friday, November 21st at the Church of St. Cecilia - St. Gabriel, 1184 Newfield Avenue, Stamford, CT. Burial will follow at St. John's Cemetery, 25 Camp Avenue in Darien, CT.
Funeral services are under the direction of Lacerenza Macari Family Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers, friends are encouraged to make a contribution to the Stamford Old Timers Scholarship Fund awarded each year to Stamford area student athletes at each high school, c/o Tom Vitti, P O Box 4012, Stamford, CT 06907.
To leave an online condolence, please visit www.lacerenzafh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Stamford Advocate from Nov. 19 to Nov. 20, 2025.

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Dolores Spoto

Yesterday

Dear Patti and family,
So,so sorry for the passing of Bobby. He was a great guy. Just know that I am holding you close to my heart and will remember Bobby in my prayers. My heart felt condolences.

Love,
Dee Spoto and family

Ernie and Joyce Orgera

Yesterday

Our Deepest Sympathies to The Robustelli Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. May your wonderful memories bring you peace during this difficult time.

Gary Liberatore

Yesterday

My deepest sympathy to the entire Robustelli family on the passing of Bob.... A great guy who did so much for the youth of Stamford and beyond. The Robustelli family has been the epitome of everything good and helpful to all of Stamford and Bob certainly did his part in continuing that tradition...

DeeDee Rubino

Yesterday

I am truly saddened by Bob's passing. He was a great guy, a true gem. My condolences and prayers are with you. May Bob rest peacefully in the loving arms of our Lord.

peg silverman

Yesterday

andra&randy,our codolences to you and resof the. family cherish all of those good family memories.peg

Bill Hayes

Yesterday

Bobby is the best athlete I have ever had as a teammate. Enjoyed speaking with him about youth sports coaching at the SCHS 1970 reunion last summer. God Bless Coach Captain and teammate. You´re great.

Paul Nakian

Yesterday

Very sorry to read of Bob's passing. Bob was a true gentleman and I always recieved a warm greeting when we ran across each other in Stamford. His achievements and that of his esteemed family are part of Stamford storied history. My sincere condolences to his family. May he rest in piece. Paul Nakian

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Michael Mancuso

Yesterday

Dear Luke and Family - Please remember ALL the good times, those memories will last a lifetime. RIP.

Rick and Kerry Wolfe / Wolfe's Cleaners

Yesterday

We are both very sorry for your loss. Bob will be missed !

Rosemarie Marrucco Blosio

Yesterday

Dear Patti, Laurie and all of the Robustelli Family.
We are truly sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He did so much for the youth in Stamford and was loved by all. He will always be remembered.
Our prayers and thoughts to all of you.
Sincerely, Rosemarie Blosio and Family

John J Cody

Yesterday

Patti and all of Bob´s loved ones,
I am so sorry for your loss and pain.
Bob was such a Good Man! One of the best ever.
May all your warm memories and strong faith carry you through this challenging time and may Bob Rest in Peace

Patricia Saxe

Yesterday

Dear Patty and Family. I´m so sorry for your loss.

Michael L. Riccio

Yesterday

My sincere condolences to the family.

Joe Rich

Yesterday

My prayers are with the Robustelli family at this time.
Joe Rich.

Michael and Robin Portanova and Family

Yesterday

Deepest condolences on your loss. Thoughts and prayers for all.

The Uva and DeBlasi Families of Sorrento's

Yesterday

Dear Patty and Family,
Our deepest heartfelt condolences.

Gerry Costello

Yesterday

Patti and the entire Robustelli family, Debbie and I offer our deepest sympathies. Bob was a good teammate, a good friend and more importantly he selflessly gave back to the community. His coaching and mentoring of the youth of Stamford will have impact for generations to come.
May he rest in Peace and May the Lord Hold Him In The Palm of His Hand

Michael Verses

Yesterday

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.=======Robert====I will never forget all the great times we had together, you were the best of the best, RIV, LOVE YOU BROTHER========MIKE VERSES

Mike Loughran, Jr.

Yesterday

I am so sorry for the entire family, friends and the thousands of folks whose lives were enriched by Bobby's love of sports and mentoring efforts. Please accept my sympathies, on behalf of the entire Loughran family.

Michael Mann

Yesterday

To Patti and the entire Robustelli family- My deepest condolences on Bobs passing. He was a great athlete and a role model for so many kids who grew up in Stamford. My brother Brian was a team mate of Bobs at SCHS. He and our family have some very fond memories of Bob and your entire family during those years. RIP Bob

Larry Conroy

Yesterday

Luke and family,

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you all. Sounds like his positive impact expanded well beyond your family and deeply into the community. Must have been an amazing guy!

Former Stamford, Ct. Resident

Yesterday

Dear entire Robustelli Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of Bob.
His Legacy is a reflection of a
life filled with caring for others. Thank you Bob for sharing your
time and talents with so many.
May you rest in eternal peace.
Sincerely,

Dana Nemeth

November 19, 2025

To the entire Robstelli Family My Prayers and Condolences to all of u during this difficult time and will certainly be missed. I´ve known the entire Robstelli family for 45 years working at Mario the Baker Remembering when his Mom and Dad would come in for Dinner and the whole Robstelli family . U will always be in our hearts Great man may u RIP

Pat Ganino

November 19, 2025

To the Robustelli Family. We send to you and your extended families our deepest sympathies. I have just finished reading Andy's biography written by Bob. What wonderful memories for the Robustelli Family and for those who knew your family. May you rest in peace. Sincerely,
Pat & Mike Ganino and the family of Fred & Kay Robertucci

Sal Chiappetta

November 19, 2025

Robustelli Family
I am so sorry to hear of Bob´s passing. He was a great guy who I enjoyed on a personnel and business level. He always made me laugh with his great wit. May he RIP!!

Rob Trout

November 19, 2025

I´m sorry to hear of Bob Robustelli´s passing. I recall his outstanding high school athletic achievements and leadership skills. He´ll be remembered as one of the best ever, Stamford athletes. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

Karen Dyas

November 19, 2025

I´m so Sorry for your loss what a great man always so Happy RIP Bobby

Darlene Massari Treadway & Charles Treadway

November 19, 2025

Patti & Family Our Deepest condolences to you and your family. He was a great man, May he rest in peace with the Angels God bless you

Michael Antonelli

November 19, 2025

Patti and the entire Robustelli family. I am so sad to hear this terrible news. I have many fond memories of Bobby and the entire family coming into the Dairy Inn. It was always such a pleasure. His warm and friendly personality, I will always remember. May God grant you all the strength and courage to get through through this most challenging time.
All my love and prayers!!
Michael Antonelli

Mark Herzhauser

November 19, 2025

Luke and the Robustelli Family, My condolences for the loss of your husband, father, grandfather, and friend, Bob. Wishing you warm memories of the surely loving, caring and fun time you spent you spent together. Sincerely, Mark Herzhauser

Dr. Richard J Sass

November 19, 2025

To The Robustelli Family, with respect and sympathy....

Joseph Lacerenza

November 19, 2025

Patti and children, very sorry for your loss

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