Shirley Ann Tredway

Shirley Ann Tredway obituary, Red Lion, PA

Shirley Ann Tredway

Shirley Tredway Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wagner-Elfner and Burg Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Inc. - Red Lion on May 12, 2025.

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Shirley Ann Tredway, 90, of Red Lion, passed away peacefully at home on May 10, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. Born in Red Lion on March 31, 1935 to the late Wilford D. and Hazel E. (Zeigler) Rupp, she was the devoted wife of the late Horace William "Bill" Tredway Jr., who preceded her in death in 2010.
A 1953 graduate of Red Lion High School, Shirley began her education walking to a one-room schoolhouse, Portner's School. Her career took her from Murphy's 5 & 10 to many years as a secretary at Borg Warner, and later to a cherished role as a "cafeteria lady" for Red Lion schools-loved by students and staff alike.
Shirley's life was grounded in faith, family, and kindness. A longtime member of Bethlehem Stonepile Church, she was known for her warm heart, holiday meals, strong faith in God, and the love she poured into everything she did-especially time spent with her grandchildren and grand puppies.
She is survived by her daughters, Suzette E. Snyder (Matthew), who lovingly took care of her for the past 13 years in her journey with Alzheimer's, and Cynthia A. Holland (Todd); her grandchildren, Joseph D. Burns (Alexa), Kara M. Holland, and Paige E. Holland; and great-grandson, Landon William Burns. She is also survived by her sisters-in-law Janet and Brenda Rupp and many cousins, nieces, and nephews. She was preceded in death by her son, Jeffrey Lee Tredway, and her brothers, Glenwood, David, and Darwin Rupp.
A celebration of life will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at Bethlehem Stonepile Church, 250 Bethlehem Church Road, Red Lion, with Pastor Bryant Holtzapple officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. A visitation will be held from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. at the church.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association (www.alz.org) or the York County SPCA (www.ycspca.org).
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May 29, 2025

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Tifinie mcCullough

May 29, 2025

My greatest memory of Mrs. Tredway was her unknowingly teaching me the school Alma mater. She would sing it as she tidied the house. We´ve lost the sweetest girl on earth. Love to her family at this sad time.

Suzette Snyder

May 25, 2025

To the best Mom and Grandma,

We love you more than words can ever say. Your warmth, your strength, and your endless love have left a mark on all our hearts. Life feels so much harder without you here - your absence is felt every moment. But we hold on to the beautiful memories and the love you gave so freely.

Until we meet again in heaven,
you will always be with us - in our hearts, our thoughts, and everything we do.

With all my love,
Your daughter, Suzette

Kara Holland

May 16, 2025

Grandma,

You were the heart of our family-selfless, compassionate, and endlessly nurturing. You always knew just what to do to bring comfort, calm, and love to those around you. Whether it was your gentle advice, your warm hugs, or the way you made everyone feel safe and seen, your presence was a gift we were lucky to have.

Though Alzheimer´s touched the last 13 years of your life, it never dimmed the light of the incredible woman you were. You lived with strength, grace, and a quiet resilience that inspired all of us. Your life was filled with kindness and love-toward your family, your friends, and every creature you crossed paths with.

Now, you are free from pain and confusion, and I find peace in knowing that you´re reunited with Grandpa, surrounded by all the animals and beloved pets you adored so deeply. I hope Heaven has a porch swing, soft blankets, and endless puppy cuddles-everything that brought you joy.

I miss you more than words can say. Not a day will go by without thinking of you, remembering your laugh, your stories, your love. Until we meet again, you´ll live on in our hearts.

With all my love,
Your granddaughter,
Kara

Kara Holland

May 16, 2025

Paige Holland

May 15, 2025

Dear grandma, though I didn´t get to know you as much as I wished. I can see you shine throughout our family who share your kindness and love. Through everything you remained resilient and fought hard despite the odds being against you. Love and miss u you are a true inspiration to your children, me and other grandbabies.

Todd Holland

May 13, 2025

So sorry for your loss. She was a great lady, grandma, and mother-in-law.

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