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Sylvia Messina Obituary
Sylvia Messina, 92Passed peacefully on August 26, 2025
Sylvia Messina, beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away at the age of 92. A devoted wife to her late husband Joseph for 66 wonderful years, Sylvia built a life centered around family, faith, and generosity.
She was the proud mother of four, Susan, John, Jane, and Sharon. Grandmother to eight, and great-grandmother to seven-each of whom brought her endless joy. Sylvia's love extended beyond her immediate family to her cherished siblings, Stella, Frances, and Rocco, and to her many nieces and nephews, all of whom she adored.
A longtime member of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church, Sylvia lived her faith through service and kindness. She had a gift for giving-whether it was finding the perfect item for someone she loved or spotting a great sale that she couldn't resist. A regular at Costco, she turned shopping into an act of love.
Sylvia's warmth, humor, and generosity will always be remembered by all who knew her.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church in Lake Ronkonkoma, NY, in Sylvia's memory.
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