Wulf-Eike Kurt Bergemann

Wulf-Eike Kurt Bergemann obituary, Columbus, OH

Wulf-Eike Kurt Bergemann

Wulf-Eike Bergemann Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Rutherford Funeral Home at Powell on Aug. 15, 2023.

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Wulf-Eike Kurt Bergemann (Eike) passed away unexpectedly in Columbus, Ohio, on August 4, 2023 with his wife, two sons and brother by his side. He treasured his wife, Shirley; dearly loved his brother, Frank Schulz; was immeasurably proud of his sons, Kurt and Derek; and totally delighted in his beloved grandchildren, Alea, Travis, Anya, and Mira.
Eike was born in Leipzig, Germany, on July 1, 1945, to his parents, Ingeburg and Kurt Bergemann. His father was lost in the war on January 1, 1945, in a battle in Poland six months before Eike was born.
At a young age, Eike's resourcefulness was seen when he would trade chocolate bars for cigarettes with Russian soldiers, knowing his mother could use them to buy bread. He learned to make something from nothing using items others had discarded.
On December 30, 1953, Eike and his mother left Germany to begin a new life in America on the Gripsholm, a Swedish American ship, with all their worldly belongings held in a small wooden box. They built their life in Chicago where Inge married Walter Schulz. Eike took a loving and active role in raising their son, Frank, taking him on trips, and building him go-karts with lawnmower engines and a bike from spare parts.
While in Chicago, Eike received a BA in Geography from Northeastern University. He later met his wife, Shirley, and they welcomed two sons, Kurt and Derek.
Following his entrepreneurial spirit, Eike moved his family to Columbus, Ohio where he owned and ran Scandinavian Design furniture store. His eldest son Kurt spent summers and weekends working by his side for five years, beginning at the age of 14. Eike was known for his warmth, his energy, and his genuinely friendly way of treating people, employees and strangers alike.
As a business owner and, more importantly, as a father, Eike consistently demonstrated kindness, resourcefulness, and the importance of taking care of the people that matter to you. He also knew the transformative powers of time spent in the woods and on the water and took his sons on camping trips to Wisconsin and Canada. On these trips he shared camping, canoeing, and wilderness survival skills with them, which gave them a sense of confidence and a connection with nature that still gives strength to their lives today.
Strong yet loving and compassionate, especially when faced with difficult circumstances, his spirit was to make the best of every situation. Never one to complain or look back, he would often say that the only thing you can work with is the positive: if you find yourself hanging off the edge of a cliff, look for a branch to grab onto.
Eike valued people and enjoyed engaging in intense conversations with family and friends. He brought his sharp wit and wisdom to everyone he was with. He held a broad worldview and delighted in discussing global history and philosophy. He loved asking those he knew, "Who are your people?" He truly wanted to understand their background and what shaped them.
He was a sentimental man whose greatest love was his family. Eike was at his happiest tending the five acres of land around his home; and hosting and feeding his family and friends around a large dinner table filled with food, ensuring all those he loved were well-fed; and sitting on the front porch of his family's Massachusetts cabin watching his grandchildren as they played in the brook, surrounded by the pines and the people he loved.
Eike poured enthusiasm into every part of his life, whether it was greeting you with a heartfelt "Yay!" every time you walked through the door, or gifting you with whatever he knew you would enjoy. He was generous and gentle and took great pride in knowing what would make his people smile.
He put great effort into building good memories for his family. He will be deeply missed.
He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Shirley; his two sons, Kurt and Derek Bergemann; his brother, Frank Schulz; his grandchildren, Alea Bergemann, Travis Bergemann, Anya Bergemann, and Mira Bergemann; and also by nieces, Kate Askegaard and Lora Ristau; grandnephews, Colin Askegaard and Sutton Theobalt.
Eike's life will be honored in a private family gathering. The family is in the care of Rutherford Funeral Home at Powell. http://rutherfordfuneralhomes.com
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Frank Schulz

August 15, 2023

The photo of my brother Eike and I is my very favorite because it captures who he was to me. All of my life, as recently as a few weeks ago when we last spoke, he would greet me enthusiastically as "baby
brother". When I was a very young child he took on the responsibility of being the main male role model in my life. He was a brother, best-friend and dad, all rolled up into one amazing man. My father´s
parenting paradigm was to provide and always worked two jobs. In spite of being only a young teenager. Eike knew what I needed and stepped into that role doing all the dad things with me. Eike made me a go-cart and mini bike from scratch, welding them in the basement. When the bike I got for Christmas was stolen a few months later he built me one from used parts because my parents couldn´t afford to buy me another one. He took me fishing, hiking, camping and on vacations, usually just the two of us. His dad died before he was born and only had a few years with our grandfather before moving here from Germany with our mom when he was 8 years old so I don´t know where he learned how to be a dad. Maybe it was from a previous life. Regardless, he took guiding me seriously and I learned through his modeling behavior. He showed me how to be strong yet loving and compassionate especially when faced with difficult circumstances, to stand up and do the right thing even if wasn´t popular and knew you were going to pay a price for doing so, to be kind, caring and engaging with people you encounter on a daily basis, especially strangers, and to be fiercely protective of the people you love. It´s not hyperbole
for me to say that the best qualities in me were learned from him. Throughout my entire life he gave me the greatest gift of all- I always knew that I was loved unconditionally.

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