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Robert Durden Obituary
May 10, 1925 - March 4, 2016
Durham
Dr. Robert Franklin Durden, Professor Emeritus of American History at Duke University, born May 10, 1925 in Graymont, GA died March 4, 2016 in Durham,NC. He was the son of Virgil Edward Durden and Mildred Donaldson Durden and was pre-deceased by his only brother, Donald Dean Durden and by his wife, Anne Oller Durden. He is survived by two daughters, two grand-daughters and three great-grandsons. Mildred Frances Durden of Weaverville, NC and Molly Durden Rutherfoord ( Walton) of Roanoke, VA. Gennette Rutherfoord Huber of Surry VA and sons George Durden Huber and Henry Franklin Huber. Isabel Rutherfoord Thornton ( Lucas) of Fincastle, VA and son John Rutherfoord Thornton. He is also survived by his cousins Cynthia Johnston Anderson and Mary Emmye Johnston Lewis of Statesboro, GA and Dottie Donaldson Garvin and Robert Donaldson, also of Statesboro, GA. Bob grew up in Emmanuel County , GA and attended the Emmanuel County Institute. He went on to Emory University and also served as an Ensign in the US Navy ( Pacific Theater) during WWII. After the war he returned to Emory to complete his Bachelor's and Master's degrees in American History. He then received his PhD from Princeton University. Bob and Anne were married in Chestnut Hill, PA in 1952. Their honeymoon was the drive to Durham where Bob took up his teaching position at Duke University He taught American History for 49 years at Duke, writing many books, the most remembered being The Dukes of Durham. Bob loved both campuses at Duke and often walked to work. His favorite place though was the Sarah P. Duke Gardens. His ashes will be placed there, next to Anne's, in April. A reception for family and friends will be held there following the inurnment. Date to be announced later. The family wishes to thank his many devoted friends for their faithful visits. They also thank the staff and caregivers at The Forest at Duke, most especially the Dining Room Ladies on Olsen, Maria Ivy and the nurses on Olsen.
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Douglas Gregory
June 23, 2024
Except for my Father, I never met a Southern gentleman such as Dr. Durden. Razor sharp mind and made attending his classes a wonderful experience. Duke University was very fortunate to have had his likes teach History. Everytime I read his books or even review my notes of his classes remind me of his bellows of pipe tobacco and the kindness in his voice. Thanks Dr. Durden for the experience of knowing you.
Paul Escott
February 29, 2024
I will always remember a great mentor and good friend.
Paul Escott
February 28, 2023
Bob Durden did so much for me. He was a great teacher and mentor, and he also had a great style!
Ray Gavins
March 9, 2016
Bob was an invaluable history colleague, counselor, and friend for me. His distinguished scholarship, teaching, mentorship, and service also helped earn our Department national and international distinction. I'll always remember and revere him.
Paul Escott
March 7, 2016
Bob Durden was my mentor and friend. Through his example he showed me the highest standards of professionalism, generosity, and tactful consideration of others. He was a wise and kind human being and a southern gentleman in all the best senses of that phrase. I'll always admire him.
Jeffrey Crow
March 6, 2016
Bob was a gentleman and scholar of the first order. As a mentor and friend, he guided me through graduate school and always supported me in my professional and personal life. I was privileged to know him.--Jeffrey J. Crow
Madeline Ralston Nicholson
March 6, 2016
I want to express my condolences to my dear friends & neighbors of many years, tMolly & Frannie(& their families). I spent many a day "hanging out" at their house (across the street) & always had the best time! Dr. & Mrs. Durden were the kindest & most engaging of parents! Dr. D sang us lovely songs & often entertained with marvelous little stories. Perhaps the strongest memories I have were the walks around the gorgeous landscaping he would do around their lovely home, pointing out the shrubbery, plantings, & seating he'd have to enjoy the beauties of nature. I left for college, then points north for work, but always knew I was home when I'd see Bob Durden out walking their sweet pups, while donning his seersucker nightrobe! God rest your loving soul, Dr. Durden! You won't be forgotten.
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