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Dr. Rowland M. Shelley

1942 - 2018

Dr.  Rowland M. Shelley obituary, 1942-2018, Raleigh, NC

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Rowland Shelley Obituary

Dr. Rowland M. Shelley

Raleigh

Dr. Rowland M. Shelley, a Raleigh native, born 1942, died in Raleigh on November 11, 2018. Survived by his wife of 38 years Lourdes O. Shelley, son Stephen (Theresa), stepson Demian Hardister (Lisa), sister Gail Shelley Duncan, grandchildren Landon and Brooke Hardister, Sofia Shelley. Also surviving are three nieces and multiple great nieces and nephews.

Rowland's lifetime passion and profession was his innate curiosity and research of millipedes and centipedes. He received over $200,000 in grant awards over his career from such institutions as the National Science Foundation, National Geographic Society and the Smithsonian Institution. He was a prolific reviewer of scientific publications (350+). He discovered, named and described 200+ new species and over 30 genera. He loved to travel with his wife Lourdes throughout six continents, 50 countries, all US States and Puerto Rico. Several millipedes were named for Rowland in his honor. His family tolerated his frequent departures from marked trails to turn over logs, rocks and leaves looking for that special millipede.

He was a 1960 graduate of Broughton High School. He received his undergraduate degree from UNC-Chapel Hill in zoology in 1964 and a PhD in physiology from NC State University in 1970. He worked for 44 years as Curator of Invertebrates for the NC Museum of Natural Sciences.

He generously donated his time in the planning of the new Museum of Natural Sciences which opened in 2000 and was awarded the designation and distinction of "Museum Treasure".

He was fascinated by trains and rode as many as possible throughout the US and many countries. Rowland could recite a train schedule on demand and was known to sit at the old and new Raleigh Union Stations to see trains arrive and depart. "All aboard" was his favorite motto, which he loved to share with the grandchildren.

Rowland was a world renowned expert on North American millipedes and centipedes. He collaborated with national and international colleagues on many research papers and will be missed as the expert he was. He mentored dozens of undergraduate and graduate students in the US and abroad, generously sharing his knowledge of millipedes and centipedes.

He was a passionate sports fan and particularly loved North Carolina basketball. He had a knack for recalling statistics, special moments and the starting five for virtually every UNC Basketball team since the 1957 NCAA Championship. Should they have cared to listen, he had coaching advice to share with coaches Dean Smith, Roy Williams, Larry Fedora and virtually every other coach of a team he loved. Later in life, he took up golf, thoroughly enjoying the game and mostly playing with his son and grandson.

His greatest joy was attending his grandchildren's sports events and playing with his youngest granddaughter and taking her on her first collecting field trip at age two! He cherished beautiful National Parks and spectacular settings especially those with waterfalls, roaring rivers and expansive oceans. His ashes will be scattered in the ocean and in a forest near his home.

He was, truly, one of a kind.

A celebration of life service will be held 4:00pm Friday, November 16, at Unity Church of the Triangle, 5570 Munford Road, Raleigh, NC 27612. The family will receive friends immediately after the service.

The family requests no flowers; however donations in his memory will be appreciated and may be made to the Rowland Shelley biodiversity fund for students, University of Tennessee Knoxville Entomology and Plant Pathology Department, 2505 EJ Chapman Drive, 370 Plant Biotechnology Building, Knoxvile TN 37996-4560.

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Published by The News and Observer on Nov. 13, 2018.

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Dr. Shelley shingles his roof circa 1985

TJ Kattermann

December 31, 2018

Sad news to learn of the untimely passing of Dr. Rowland Shelley.
There was always excitement afoot whenever I was called to help Dr. Shelley
on a number of projects around his house since the early 1980s. Arguably the most epic of these adventures was his decision to re-roof his own house rather than pay full price to have a roofing company do the job for him.
I reminded him that hot, sweaty, tedious roofing work was not far removed from coal mining and is not to be undertaken lightly. He was undaunted despite laudable attempts by Lourdes to dissuade him from this project.
So we came up with a plan to do a shingle overlay on his existing roof. (A common practice in Raleigh at the time.) He would take a week's paid vacation from work and I would be paid to co-ordinate the finer points of layout and technique on Monday, Wednesday and Friday of that week while he and his crew of teenagers would hammer down the repetitive rows of ordinary shingles in between my visits.
Tuesday night I received a phone call to postpone my second day's work from Wednesday to Thursday because his teenage crew had gone AWOL and he needed more time to nail shingles by himself. When I suggested the two of us could knock out large sections of the roof together in two shakes of a lamb's tail he was adamant: he would nail the shingles by himself. And he did. Every single one. Thursday the two us worked together as planned and Dr.Shelley postponed my final visit to Saturday so he could spend Friday nailing down the infill shingles by himself again. Saturday we finished up the roof together more or less on time and on budget.
He estimated his overall cash outlay was 1/3 of what the job would have cost if done by a roofing company. Lourdes told me he never picked up a hammer again after that job.

But as a shining example of a good old fashioned old school North Carolina Native Rowland Shelley was the man. No one could spend time in Rowland's company and not be inspired. He was fascinated by fireflies from California that knew when sunset came even when they were moved three thousand miles away to North Carolina.
His framed map of the world on the wall in his house is filled with colored pins of all the places he had seen and all the places he planned to visit.
Sir, you will be terribly missed and we are all poorer with your departure.

Wanda Brewer

November 14, 2018

Dear Lourdes, You and your family are in my prayers.

Beth Schulz-Butulis

November 13, 2018

Lourdes, we are so sorry to learn about Rowland's death and regret not having the opportunity to meet him. Our condolences to your entire family.

Jean Clayton

November 13, 2018

We know that Rowland is in Heaven organizing everything and counting millipedes. Love and light and peace to you.

Jean Clayton and Bill Barkley

Jean Clayton

November 13, 2018

Rowland is surely organizing things in heaven and counting millipedes there! Bill and I send all of you love and light and peace.

Jean Clayton and Bill Barkley

Joye Norris

November 13, 2018

Susan and l are thinking of you Lourdes. He was so lucky to have you
In his life.

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