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Dr. Shelley shingles his roof circa 1985
TJ Kattermann
December 31, 2018
Sad news to learn of the untimely passing of Dr. Rowland Shelley.
There was always excitement afoot whenever I was called to help Dr. Shelley
on a number of projects around his house since the early 1980s. Arguably the most epic of these adventures was his decision to re-roof his own house rather than pay full price to have a roofing company do the job for him.
I reminded him that hot, sweaty, tedious roofing work was not far removed from coal mining and is not to be undertaken lightly. He was undaunted despite laudable attempts by Lourdes to dissuade him from this project.
So we came up with a plan to do a shingle overlay on his existing roof. (A common practice in Raleigh at the time.) He would take a week's paid vacation from work and I would be paid to co-ordinate the finer points of layout and technique on Monday, Wednesday and Friday of that week while he and his crew of teenagers would hammer down the repetitive rows of ordinary shingles in between my visits.
Tuesday night I received a phone call to postpone my second day's work from Wednesday to Thursday because his teenage crew had gone AWOL and he needed more time to nail shingles by himself. When I suggested the two of us could knock out large sections of the roof together in two shakes of a lamb's tail he was adamant: he would nail the shingles by himself. And he did. Every single one. Thursday the two us worked together as planned and Dr.Shelley postponed my final visit to Saturday so he could spend Friday nailing down the infill shingles by himself again. Saturday we finished up the roof together more or less on time and on budget.
He estimated his overall cash outlay was 1/3 of what the job would have cost if done by a roofing company. Lourdes told me he never picked up a hammer again after that job.
But as a shining example of a good old fashioned old school North Carolina Native Rowland Shelley was the man. No one could spend time in Rowland's company and not be inspired. He was fascinated by fireflies from California that knew when sunset came even when they were moved three thousand miles away to North Carolina.
His framed map of the world on the wall in his house is filled with colored pins of all the places he had seen and all the places he planned to visit.
Sir, you will be terribly missed and we are all poorer with your departure.
Wanda Brewer
November 14, 2018
Dear Lourdes, You and your family are in my prayers.
Beth Schulz-Butulis
November 13, 2018
Lourdes, we are so sorry to learn about Rowland's death and regret not having the opportunity to meet him. Our condolences to your entire family.
Jean Clayton
November 13, 2018
We know that Rowland is in Heaven organizing everything and counting millipedes. Love and light and peace to you.
Jean Clayton and Bill Barkley
Jean Clayton
November 13, 2018
Rowland is surely organizing things in heaven and counting millipedes there! Bill and I send all of you love and light and peace.
Jean Clayton and Bill Barkley
Joye Norris
November 13, 2018
Susan and l are thinking of you Lourdes. He was so lucky to have you
In his life.
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