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Henry Hanna McVey III obituary, Williamsburg, VA

Henry McVey Obituary

MCVEY, Henry Hanna, III, died peacefully in his sleep at Williamsburg Landing on July 28, 2021, after a long illness. He was 85.

Hal McVey was born in Richmond, raised in the Fan District and never lived west of the Boulevard. He rode a streetcar out Broad Street to St. Christopher's School, where he excelled academically, was Chairman of the Honor Council, sang in the Glee Club and captained the Saints in a leather helmet with no face mask. He spent his boyhood summers at Gloucester Banks and Camp Maxwelton and both helped shape the man he would become.

Hal attended Hampden-Sydney College, where he was a member of the Chi Psi fraternity and the honor societies Omicron Delta Kappa and Phi Delta Kappa. He graduated in 1957 with honors and bachelor's degrees in both Arts and Science. He fiercely loved the college and everything it stood for and remained deeply devoted to the school, its music program and the Tigers down through the years. He counted his appointment to the Hampden-Sydney College Board of Trustees and the opportunity to serve as Chairman of that body, as one of the greatest honors of his life.

In 1964, Hal was introduced to a young singer from Baltimore named Reba Robinson, sparking a love and partnership that would endure for over 50 years. Together, Hal and Reba raised three children, restored three homes in the Fan, sang in the choir at Second Presbyterian, attended concerts and traveled the world, making friends along the way that enriched them emotionally and intellectually and made them laugh till they cried.

Hal joined Battle, Neal, Harris, Minor & Williams in 1960 and would spend nearly 40 years at the firm that would become McGuireWoods. He made partner in 1966, was Group Leader for Tort Defense, was active in teaching seminars, mentored young lawyers and represented Pro Bono clients his entire career. He was a member of the Richmond, Virginia and American Bar Associations, admitted to practice in State Courts, United States District Courts for the Eastern and Western Districts of Virginia, the Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals and the United States Supreme Court. He was honored to be a Fellow of American College of Trial Attorneys and a Member of their State Committee. He was a Member of the Virginia Trial Lawyers Association, (President 1984 to 1985) and a member of Virginia Association of Defense Attorneys (President 1985 to 1986). He was Regional Vice President of The Defense Research Institute and served on the Board of Directors. He was a Member of The Federation of Insurance & Corporate Counsel and Third District Ethics Committee Chairman. In 2006, he received the VADA's Award of Excellence in Civil Litigation. He lobbied before the Virginia General Assembly and was recognized in Best Lawyers in America many times. He went to work in suits made at Nathan's and would hang his jacket on the newel post at the bottom of the stairs at the end of every day.

In retirement, Hal returned with Reba to Gloucester County, buying and restoring an old river house on Ware Neck called Baiae. Hal loved its screened porches and river views, its low tides and birdsong, the daffodils in spring, the space it gave the dogs to run and the fact that there was always a Crepe Myrtle somewhere that needed pruning.

Hal McVey was generous with the people and causes he believed in. He served on the Richmond Commission on Architectural Review from 1985 to 1995, was a Member of the Fan District Association and a long-time patron of the Richmond Symphony. He attended Richmond's Second Presbyterian Church his whole life and in his later years, would occasionally drive up on Sundays from Gloucester for a "faith lift." When his sons played for the Saints, he'd leave work early to be there with a hug when they left the field or the ring, win or lose.

He loved his dogs, a series of English Boxers named Heidi, Morgan, Blake and Mac. He was a lifelong fan of the Washington Redskins and preferred Frank, Sonny and Sam's gleefully biased banter to the neutral TV announcers. He was a good sailor and a talented carpenter, building bookcases, radiator covers, a doll house and a deck with a trap door behind the house on Hanover. When he hit his thumb with a hammer, he would occasionally take the Lord's name in vain and when he had something important to impart to his children, he would lower his voice and fix them with a steady gaze over the tops of his glasses. He always sneezed in multiples of three and when he did, it would shake the whole house.

Hal was preceded in death by his parents, Henry Hanna McVey Jr. and Eva Jennings McVey. He is survived by his wife, Reba Robinson McVey; his daughter, Margaret McVey Singleton (John); his sons, Lewis Lawson McVey (Deborah) and Ian Douglas McVey (Theile); his five grandchildren, Robert, Henry, Molly, James and Callum; his brother, George Jennings McVey (Nan); and his many cousins, including the much beloved Elizabeth Fitzgerald Wallace.

The family wishes to thank the staff at Williamsburg Landing Memory Support and Health and Rehabilitation Center and Heartland Hospice for their devotion and caring in Hal's final years. A special thank you goes to Amy Fradenburgh of Gloucester, who has been the best of friends to Hal and Reba and to their family who are forever grateful.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Hal's memory be made to The Alzheimer's Association, The McVey Memorial Scholarship Fund at Hampden-Sydney College or a charity of your choice.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Aug. 1, 2021.

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Elizabeth (EB) Butterworth Stutts

January 28, 2022

Hal was such a wonderful mentor & friend. I want to extend my deepest condolences to Reba and his family. I can't imagine what life at McGuire, Woods would have been like without him. Hal exemplified the highest ethical standards in our profession. He was a wonderful teacher, showing us younger lawyers how to vigorously defend a client with civility, even if our opponent was not of a like mind. Hal perfectly balanced commitment to his profession, his family, his church, his college & his community. I miss his wise perspective and hilarious sense of humor. He often peered over his glasses when talking to me, too! And I can still hear that booming laugh, just down the hall.... Well done, my Friend, for a Life well-lived and for making the world a better place for those around you.

Marty Watkin

August 20, 2021

Impossible not to love this generous, gracious man.
He was kind and strong. He taught me how to do crossword puzzles and would order us out of the room when working on building tasks to protect our ears from the occasional profanity. There was something in Hal's personality that felt particularly solid, even anchorlike to those of us who loved him. I will miss him dearly.

Abby Moore

August 7, 2021

I am so saddened to hear of Hal´s passing. I know the past years have been difficult for him and the whole family but we all view it as a huge loss.

May your memories of him be a blessing and bring you comfort.

Catherine Buckingham

August 5, 2021

Reba, so many memories of Ronnie and Hal enjoying their friendship together. Hal was an amazing gentleman!! Bless you.
Catherine

Houshi Pirouzan

August 2, 2021

Sending deepest condolences on the loss of Mr. McVey. He was a wonderful gentleman and I send my wishes of sympathy to Mrs. McVey and the entire family.

Ed and Marian Breeden

August 1, 2021

Dear Reba,
We were talking about Hal just last night. And remembering his sharing an apartment with Larry, Ronnie, and Ed at 7 Valley Circle. The 4 were in law school.
We both send you our love.
Marian and Ed

Harvey Morgan

August 1, 2021

I shall always remember the professional manner in which Hal represented his clients before committees of the General Assembly - as well as his dedication to our alma mater. Harvey Morgan, H-SC `52

Steven

August 1, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss. Henry played so many roles and had an impact on the lives of many. His good deeds will never be forgotten by those he loved. May you find comfort by relying on God in prayer, and in knowing of God´s promise of a future where "no [one] will say `I am sick´."

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