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Benjamin Huff Obituary

Mr. Huff, 31, of Charlotte, NC, died suddenly at his home on May 7, 2006. He was born on February 21, 1975, in Charlotte.
Ben excelled in football. In high school he was a 3 year varsity letterman and 3 year starter on offense and defense, and was 1992 All Conference Southwestern 4A, playing both tight end and linebacker and played in the North Carolina East/West All Star Game.
He was also a 3 year letterman in Track and Field in shot put and discus. In 1993 he was NC State Champion in discus at 182', a state meet record which still stands, and was awarded 2nd place in shot put.
Ben is considered one of the All Time Top 25 North Carolina Track and Field performers and was the 1993 Southwest Athlete of the Year.
He earned a scholarship in 1993 to the University of Michigan. After red shirting his first year, he played the next 4 years before an injury prior to his senior season sidelined him. He became the "twelfth man" on the 1997 National Championship Big Ten team.
After graduation he played in the NFL for the Atlanta Falcons, also in the CFL, XFL and most recently 4 seasons in the AFL for Dallas.
Survivors include his mother, Martha Currie and her husband, Rod, of Charlotte and his father, Marty Huff and his wife, Bridget, of Temperance, MI; sister, Lisa Huff Rainey and her children; brother, Jason Huff and wife, Jennifer and their children, all of the Charlotte area; grandmother, Josephine Meyers; Ben's fianc‚, Tabitha Christy Payne and many aunts, uncles and cousins. He is also survived by his stepsister, Holli Oess; her husband, Andy and their daughter, Avery, of Maumee, OH.
Services will be held in Charlotte, NC today.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Michigan Athletic Department and can be mailed to 1000 S. State St., Ann Arbor, MI 48109, Attn: Jo Parker, c/o the Ben Huff Memorial Scholarship.

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Published by The Blade on May 11, 2006.

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Brandon DeCaro

May 4, 2025

Thinking of you even more these past few days, old friend.

Brandon DeCaro

May 7, 2024

Miss you Ben!

Keith Johnstone

October 20, 2022

RIP Ben Huff

Dad

May 4, 2022

Love you Ben

Brandon DeCaro

May 3, 2022

Missing you today Ben. You were such a great friend. I know you're looking down on everyone from Heaven.

Brandon DeCaro

May 3, 2020

Miss you Ben. You were such a great friend. May you be at peace with God.

February 21, 2020

Happy Birthday Ben
Miss you
Dad

February 21, 2020

Happy Birthday Ben
Love you,
Dad

Brandon DeCaro

May 9, 2018

Miss you Ben. Your friend.
Brandon

May 7, 2018

I love you and miss you Ben

Dad

Brandon DeCaro

February 27, 2018

You were such a great friend Ben and will always be missed.

February 22, 2018

Love and miss you always

Dad

Margaret Williams

November 19, 2017

Miss you today, my friend.

May 9, 2017

Miss you Ben.

May 8, 2017

Love and miss you Ben.


Dad

Brandon DeCaro

May 8, 2016

Miss you Ben

May 7, 2016

Ben, I'm cooking chicken and ribs and wishing were here.
Love you and miss you
Dad

Dirty Bird

August 5, 2015

BG!!!! Miss me you my dude. One of a kind. Much love always.

Jamie Gradwell

May 9, 2015

I can't believe it's been so long. You are missed every day. I know you are the Guardian Angel we all need.
I love and miss you Ben!!

Brandon DeCaro

May 9, 2015

Miss you Ben.

May 8, 2015

Ben, we love you and miss you everyday.
Lisa

Marty Huff

May 7, 2015

I Love you and miss you Ben.
Take care of John

Dad

February 21, 2015

We love and miss you everyday.

January 13, 2015

A great person and friend

Kim Ghant Furches

January 10, 2015

I come across an obituary today that absolutely broke our hearts for the Huff family... John Rainey.
I realized that this was the Son of Lisa Huff Rainey. Lisa, we are so very sorry for the loss of your precious son. When reading this, I noticed that he was preceded in death by his Uncle Ben. We had no idea of either of their passings.This was a complete shock for our family.
Growing up at young age in Rock Hill, my family had the pleasure of becoming friends with the Huffs. My sisters and I played with Ben and Jason daily. ALWAYS getting into something. Lisa would babysit us for our parents to gather at the community pool for cook outs. These were the best years of my entire life. I give so many thanks to Ben and Jason for these memories. As life changed and we moved to different states/towns. We lost contact. We, again established contact in our teens for a short time. I was so glad to be able to reconnect for a short time before our lives moved in different directions again. I will ALWAYS remember Bens amazing smile and every single childhood memory. I am so very sorry for each and every one of you. Marty, Martha, Lisa and Jason, Please know that our family is praying for you all. Thank You for so many wonderful memories!
Thoughts and Prayers,
The Ghant Family
Doug, Janet, Sherri, Jenny and Kim

Margaret Williams

July 12, 2014

I will always miss you! Thanks for being such a great friend to me. You were such a driven and focused person. You are truly one of God's special people.

Jamie Gradwell

May 8, 2014

I can't believe it's been 8 years since you passed away. Love & miss you Ben!!

May 8, 2014

We miss you so much Ben!

May 7, 2014

Ben, I almost forgot, be sure to take care of John
Love you both
Dad

May 7, 2014

Ben, It's been 8 years since you left us but you're on my mind always. I'll put some chicken on the grill tonight since that was one of your favorites

Luv Ya, Dad

February 21, 2014

Happy Birthday Ben. We all love you and miss you. I'll cook some ribs and chicken this weekend for you, Jason, and John.
DAD

February 6, 2014

WE NOW HAVE THREE BRIGHT STARS TO WATCH OVER THE HUFF FAMILY.

February 5, 2014

Take care of John for us

Marcus Luke

November 29, 2013

On the eve of the Michigan-Ohio St. game, I think of Ben, and, as always, smile! Like everyone Ben touched during his life that was way too short, I miss him.

Brandon DeCaro

May 8, 2013

Miss you Ben.

May 7, 2013

Ben, another year without you and the emptiness never goes away. I miss you and love you everyday....Dad

Brandon DeCaro

February 25, 2013

Miss you Ben.

Jamal

February 24, 2013

Birthday Week old friend. Toast to you.

February 22, 2013

Happy Birthday Ben. I know you are happy in heaven :)

February 21, 2013

happy birthday Ben. I love you and miss you
Dad

December 22, 2012

There's always a void in my heart during the Holidays without you Ben. I love you son and miss you so much
Dad

Stevie Anderson

September 3, 2012

Ben, as another season starts for Michigan, I still and always will think of you. You're missed back here more than you know. Go Blue! I always look for the #53 on the field and look back at your pictures in your memory. I love you and your style!

Jamie Gradwell

May 9, 2012

Think of you often Ben. When I get up to Ohio I will be sure to check on your dad and Bridget. Miss you more and more everyday.

Lisa Rainey

May 7, 2012

All of us were together tonight at Mom's...everyone misses you so much. I love you Ben..
Lisa

jason elledge

May 7, 2012

One hell of a guy and very well missed but not forgotten miss u Big Ben

Jennie Huff

May 7, 2012

Can not believe you are not here. Love and miss you every single day.

May 7, 2012

Ben, I'll cook some chicken and ribs for you tonght.
Love you...Dad

May 7, 2012

We all miss you Ben and wish you were still with us.

I love you...Dad

February 21, 2012

Happy Birthday Ben & Jason. Jason, Lisa, Jenny, Mom, Dad, Bridget, & Grandkids will make a special toast to you. Jason and I are both grilling tonite
Love You & Wish you were here...DAD

Lisa

February 21, 2012

We'll be celebrating yours and Jason's birthday today as we always do...and of course Dad is cooking ribs for you. We miss you more and more with each year that passes, and it is still so hard to believe you're not here with us. I love you Ben.... Lisa

Mike

July 28, 2011

Doesn't matter who's playing... when I see #53 it's your number to me.

Jamie Gradwell

May 12, 2011

I was just thinking about you...and can't believe your gone. Miss you everyday!

Pat Viamonte

May 8, 2011

Erik, Michael, and I talked about you this weekend and still cannot believe you were taken from so many people whom you touched and who loved you so much.

May 7, 2011

I'm cooking your favorite meal which is ckicken & ribs. I wish you would show up!! I love you...DAD

May 6, 2011

We all miss you so much,Ben. Everyone is doing their own thing, but we talk about you daily and feel you with us everyday.
I know you are proud of all we do in your memory.
Love you so much,...Mom

Jamie Gradwell

February 22, 2011

Happy Birthday Ben. You are missed so much everyday. Love you and miss you Ben!

February 21, 2011

Happy birthday Ben. I still can't believe you're not here with us...I love you and miss you so much.
Lisa

February 21, 2011

Happy Birthday, Ben! We love you and miss you every day.
Much love,
Mom

December 31, 2010

We're in a bowl game, that's good. We have RR to thank for that . Ha Ha .. He is such a good guy. We think about you every day, Ben..Go Blue.
Mom

December 31, 2010

Here it is , the day before a bowl game. At least we are in a bowl game . I guess we have RR to thank for that . Ha Ha he has no idea. We love you Ben and think of you every day,,
Love you , Mom

Chad

December 25, 2010

Sitting here thinking about you and some of the many memories around this time of year. Like the "can dispenser" you bought mombo. Only you could get away with that. Funny thing is I'm watching a replay of Hoke's team looking real good. I'm sure you already know that though. Miss you bro!

John Rainey

December 19, 2010

Hey Ben,
Been thinkin of ya everyday. I pray every night that everything is ok with you. I sure do miss you. I talk about you and the familiy constantly in Great Lakes. Man I hope you doing ok. Not a day goes by that you dont help me get through evrything. Thanks for watchn over me, and everybody. Ill be sure to make you proud bud.

Neil

December 9, 2010

Ben, I lived down the hall from you my freshman year at UM. I still remember you waking us all up with "We did it!" when you got back late from South Bend. You're the kind of guy we were all proud to say we knew.

Brandon DeCaro

August 18, 2010

Ben,
Growing up with you was an honor. As a 10 year old that just moved to the neighborhood, you gave me some of the best years of my life. Even after not seeing you for the past 15+ years, you still have made a lasting impression on me. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Miss you.
Brandon

May 7, 2010

I can't believe it's been four years, I love and miss you so much. Love, Little Julie

May 7, 2010

Missing you today and everyday

Tabby

May 7, 2010

Our thoughts go out to Martha, Marty , Lisa and Jason today and all Ben's family ..another year gone by .. hard to believe.... Pray to God to stay Strong..through the pain.
Love Chris and Greg

May 7, 2010

It's been 4 years since you left us Ben and I miss you so much. I'm blessed to have such beautiful children and grand kids and to lose one hurts so bad.
I love you and your family loves you
Dad

Jamie Gradwell

April 27, 2010

I can't believe it's almost 4 years since you have left us. Miss you...just as everyone does!! Love you!

April 26, 2010

I come back to check in, just haven't posted a message in awhile. Miss ya Ben (BG).

Jamal

April 23, 2010

These days leading up to your anniversary date are the worst. I can't believe it has been four years.
I love you as always and miss you everyday.

Mom

Lisa

April 4, 2010

This was the last holiday we spent together and it was my b-day too. Love you and miss you Ben.

February 22, 2010

Ben, for your birthday I stayed on the grill all weekend. MISS YOU. DAD

Jason Jennie Peyton and Bo Huff

February 21, 2010

There are just still no words...we miss you.

February 21, 2010

Happy Birthday, we love you and miss you so much.

Michael Harris

December 14, 2009

to the huffs ben was great friend that im happy to say i knew for a very long time from quail hollows football team to providence's football team. we had lots of fun together especially since we loved michigan football. i am truely sorry for your lost and may his memories last forever,

Scott Goodale

November 4, 2009

Before the Huffs moved to Charlotte sometime in the 80s, I grew up with Jason and Ben in Rock Hill, SC and played youth football with Jason. Jason and I were closer in age but "little" brother Ben would always play football with us in the yard, etc. I remember Ben as being a great kid with a good sense of humor and a great heart. We always enjoyed playing with Mr. Huff's Michigan Wolverines, SF 49ers, and Washington Redskins "REAL" football helmets as kids. We always thought that was the coolest thing. I'm extremely proud of Ben for growing up and accomplishing so much as a young man and I miss the Huff family from my childhood. Lisa, thank you for bringing me up to speed with an update on Facebook and I will continue to pray for you and your family.

Thanks.
Scott Goodale

Tracy Chambers Dulin

August 6, 2009

I ran in to an old dear friend today (Jennie) and we spoke fondly of Ben. It made me look for this online and I have just bawled after reading all of the wonderful entries from so many peoples lives that Ben touched. I grew up attending Quail and Prov HS with Ben. I also lived up the street and rode the bus with him. I remember always thinking how "cool" Ben was and literally looking up to him. I remembered how cute he was and what a nice guy. My son is 10 years old now, and is a "big" boy with a big heart. I know he is a special talent in many ways, including on the football field-and I hope that he will one day go on and be able to create such a special atmosphere for players and friends around him like Ben obviously did. I plan to show him this book and talk to him about Ben. Ben is an inspiration and a reminder to me to always appreciate our loved ones. Thanks Ben for being so special to so many.

July 4, 2009

Ben- just remembering the crazy 4th of July's with you! Especially the one at MiMi'a house when the sprinklers went off on you & Jason on the golf course!

Thinking of you today & everyday!



Jennie

BriAnna Frank

June 1, 2009

Dear Uncle Ben,
You werent really my true uncle but to me you were. I didnt really know you very well but me and pey miss you very much! We love you and miss you lots! God bless you!
Love,
BriAnna

Julie Foreman

May 7, 2009

Dear Huffs, we're thinking of you all today as always, but saying a special prayer for God to give you all a little extra comfort today. God bless Ben, you, and all of your extended family & friends. We love you guys! Julie, Wes, Michael & Lucas

Marty Huff

May 7, 2009

Ben, it's been 3 years and I miss you so much. I wish you were back with us.
I love you
Dad

Jamie Gradwell

March 5, 2009

Hey Ben I still can't believe your gone. I have this Michigan sweatshirt that everytime I see it I think about you...even though I'm still a Ohio State Fan!!! I will always keep that shirt. Love and Miss you!!

jamie lovern

March 4, 2009

Whats up man, Its hard to believe how long its been. I still think about you on a weekly basis. I guess that is a good thing, I hope I never forget all the good times we had. Tabby, sorry we missed you at x-mas, its such a crazy time of the year for us, we got to get together soon, maybe this summer.

Tabitha Payne

February 21, 2009

Happy Birthday Ben! I was just thinking about your 31st birthday. We were so broke so I set aside some extra money so I could take you to dinner to celebrate. You just so happen to find the money that I hid and used it to buy dog food for Harley. So many times a day I think of old times and smile. I love you and miss you always!

February 21, 2009

Happy Birthday Ben!

MARTY HUFF

December 24, 2008

MERRY CHRISTMAS BEN,
WE DO MISS YOU. YOU ARE ALWAYS
WITH US ALL.
LOVE DAD AND BRIDGET.

Marcus Luke

December 23, 2008

I was getting ready to play basketball at a local gym and went to grab a t-shirt. The t-shirt was a Dallas Desperados t-shirt Big Ben had given me years ago. Just like every other time I pull it out to wear, I smile, laugh, and think about Ben. I have met thousands and thousands of people and so far have not come across anyone like Ben.
When Ben walked into a room, everyone felt better. He had this aura about him that is unexplainable. He truly was a gentle giant. I was blessed to know Ben and still consider him one of the best friends I have had. I truly miss him, as we all do. Merry Christmas to all his friends and family, and to you too, Big Ben. Cain says Hi and he misses you too.

your friend,
Marcus Luke

BRIDGET HUFF

November 22, 2008

GO BLUE BEN!!! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YOU HAVE THE CONNECTIONS.
DO MISS YOU. B. AND DAD.

Martha mcurrie

November 21, 2008

The Buckeyes tomorrow. Can you say help? We love you and think of you every day, but Saturdays, come on help!!!
Love you,
M.

Jamal Anderson

November 20, 2008

Ben, just wanted to say what so many others continue to say and feel, I miss you. We just had a reunion of the 98 team, I know you were there in spirit....but I would have loved to see you in person. Miss you BG.

Jam

Bob

November 11, 2008

Rebecca and I were thinking about you at our wedding. Your Mom always gives me a little smile from you when I see her.

Love ya.

George Howell

October 22, 2008

I just put in a horseshoe pit in my back yard and while doing it I remembered ALL the GOOD times I had with Ben, Marty, Bridgett, and the boys. Ben was a hell of a guy! He would do anything for a friend. I hope everyone is doing well.

Marty Huff

August 25, 2008

Hi Ben, We're having a Huff Reunion this Labor Day weekend and I hope you show up.
Luv Ya, DAD

Martha Currie

May 7, 2008

Flowers, walk with Harley, together with all who love you and now you are around my neck forever. I know you're always with me. I love you and miss you everyday.
Mom.......Mombo

Jennie Huff

May 7, 2008

Two years and many tears. Still hard to believe we are going through this.

You know how much you are loved, missed, and thought about every day ......by many.

Marty Huff

May 7, 2008

Ben, it's been 2 years since you left us. When you left us a part of me left also. I love you and miss you
DAD

Tabitha Payne

May 6, 2008

Well here we are 2 years later - the absolute worst day of my life! Its amazing how I remember every little second and detail of the last day we spent together... I look at pictures of you everyday and wonder what we be doing if you were here. Where would we be in our lives together? I just have so many questions.. Its crazy how life can take such a fast turn and be flipped upside down in an instant. I miss you so very much everyday!

Gary Kidwell

February 26, 2008

God belss you Ben and your family. Thanks for the great memories you left us. WIll will gretaly miss you.

Desperados Fan.

BRIDGET HUFF

February 22, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN,
WE ARE SO THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND TOMORROW. JASON AND CHAD'S.BDAY!!! THEY SURE ARE PARTYING!!! YOU ARE SO MISSED.
WE LOVE YOU. DAD AND BRIDGEEETTT!!

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