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for Nicholas Sowinski
James Douglas
February 24, 2021
Hey brother, its really been a long while since Alaska. I’m starting to think about whether I will submit retirement papers; even I can’t believe its been almost 19 years since I joined. I was watching YouTube and you popped into my head. All these years, but you’re still not forgotten. A couple of 20 somethings then, I’m in my 40s now and a CSM believe it or not. I’ve led a lot of Soldiers, and every now and again I see that look you used to have; like you knew something others didn’t. RIP brother.
J. Douglas
Arthur Barker
October 11, 2017
I had the fortune of being Sowinskis team leader for about two months in 2004. I asked him why a guy who scored so high on the ASVAB was in the Cav. He said, I just want to serve my country, sergeant. I wish I had been able to get to know him better. He was a good man.
Cartez Miles
October 31, 2014
Going through my green box the other day and I saw my evaluation, your only one.
Noah Broessel
October 30, 2014
Nick was a great guy and always enjoyed talking about comics & movies. I remember he was SO excited to come back and see the Transformers movie in summer 2007. Every time I watch one of these movies I think of Nick. R.I.P buddy, see you in Heaven.
Bruce Potts
May 25, 2014
Nick... I am thinking about you today and have talked about you many times in my classroom. I will never forget our final email conversation and I still have it saved today. Thank you for your honor, service, and friendship.
Ron
November 11, 2013
Each year on Veterans' Day I visit the Healing Field that has graced us in Cathedral City, Ca. for several years now. Each year I pick a flag at random and view the placard with the name of a fallen hero. In 2012 I picked Nicholas. Thank you Nick. I never met you but I feel like I know you.
November 11, 2013
The Healing Field, Cathedral City, Ca.
November 11, 2013
Penny Wilson
June 6, 2013
It is because of people like you that I can live in a country free of war. I don't have to fear the bombs and missles. I have the freedom to do and say as I please. All of this is because of your sacrifice and the sacrafice of so many others. I will not forget and I make a pledge that I will not let others forget. RIP with the angels.
Evan Hiller
May 27, 2013
I'm thinking of you and of all the good times we had together in high school and college this Memorial Day weekend, Nick. I wish you could have been there for the wedding in March, you'd have looked sharp in a groomsman's suit.
Chandelle Porter
May 20, 2013
If you are in the Phoenix area, you can go to the City of Phoenix building at 200 West Washington Street, Phoenix, AZ and in the lobby there is a Veteran's art and memorial display. It appears the display is put on by the Arizona Art Alliance and displays beautiful art created by veterans. In addition, there is a wall memorial for those people in Arizona who were killed in the line of duty. I cannot guarantee a complete list; however, Nicholas has two pictures up there and a note from his mom, Diane. I just put one up today, as well. I get coffee in this building once a week and did not see it last week and I am not sure how long it will be up. If you get a chance, swing on by and leave Nick a hello!
James Stephan
March 13, 2013
Nick, Where-ever you are, just wanted you to know that "Evan is getting married this weekend, Dave is the best man and were you still on this earth you would have been a groomsman this weekend. I'm bring a picture of you so you know you have not been forgotten.
-James
Looking through some of my old photos and I wanted to share.
Tim Price
January 4, 2013
Cindy Best
October 11, 2012
A wonderful young man, who will be forever remembered and cherished.
Bill & Diane Price
October 11, 2012
To the family and friends of a fine young man we never met, our thoughts and prayers are with you today. To Nick and his fellow warriors, thank you. Your service and sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Natalie Bath
October 11, 2012
6 years. Feels both like yesterday and an eternity. Still painfully missed. Still bring a smile to my face daily. I'm eternally grateful for you. I wish I was feeling more eloquent today but you know how much you're cared for even if the words don't come. Thanks for being you.
October 11, 2012
Good Morning Nick, Thank you for continuing to be a strong presence during this time of "not sure what's happening...gonna do my best regardless of the details!" There is such an unrest in the people on the earth...it comforts me just knowing I (we) have you as an example of gettin er done! Look forward to seeing you on the other side, such a blessing that will be! Total respect for who you are, buddy. Best to your family! Hey, on a side note....how is that guy you were giving a hug to? You know the one, I think he is in law enforcement. I am just hoping I don't get arrested by him cause I would want special treatment and I know that ain't gonna happen. LOL Loving your memory, Marie
Eric Sheehan
October 11, 2012
Never forgotten Sowinski, R.I.P. and bless your family my thoughts and prayers are with you.
J Douglas
October 10, 2012
Hey brother, can't believe it has been six years... Some friends and I are going across the pond again, different place, same story. This world has become a messy place... watch over us. You are not forgotten.
Alex Lindsey
October 9, 2012
Hey Nick, it's almost six years now and the pain still hasn't gone away brother. I wish you were here right now man. You always had some good advice when I needed and let me tell you, I sure could use some of it right now. Well I got to get back to work Nick. God bless you and Rest In Peace brother
Cartez Miles
February 11, 2012
R.I.P. Ski,
Miles
Peggy Childers
October 11, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Nicholas R. Sowinski:
Please accept my remembrance of Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
October 11, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Nicholas R. Sowinski:
Remembering Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
David Walter
September 7, 2010
Hey man, I should be working but I was thinking of you. I miss you and know Schanbeck does too. My family moved to Arizona so I hope to visit you. Thanks for being a good friend, I will always remember that...
Justin Chohrach
June 27, 2010
Nick, Its been a long time since i have been on here. I apologize for the delay, life has gotten busy. Just want you to know that i still think of you everyday and wish i could you and tell you how life is going. But as you know i talk to you plenty. But it isnt the same. As you know you are not forgotten
Marie Pickard-Brown
November 11, 2009
Hi Nick,
I have been thinking of you a lot lately. Wanted to stop in to touch bases. Even though I did not get the chance to know you as well as I wanted to, I am grateful for the time we spent together. I also appreciate how others here have shared what you meant to them.
I do remember your presence when you were in a room. It is very strong and forthright.
Thanks for touching my life. But more, thanks for touching the lives of those who were in the field with you.
Warmest remembrances,
Marie
SSG Joseph A. Law
October 12, 2009
Miss you, Bro. You were the best of us
Sherry Roberts
October 11, 2009
I didn't know Nicholas. I attended his funeral as his mother worked in our real estate company in Prescott.
He changed something fundamentally about how I looked at life forever.
The silent presence of all the motorcycle "angels" standing guard between the trees during his service affected me in a way I can't explain; except that to me they reminded me of angels.
Friday while driving he came into my thoughts. I did a search on the internet and found this page.
I consider him an angel in my life for several reasons. I kept his letter and photo in my closet for three years and every time I looked at it while beginning a new day I reread his final message and I could only move forward.
Even though most days I didn't want to...
There was just no excuse for me not to and the soldier in his spirit propelled me forward.
My dream as a young woman was to enter the GBI, or some kind of public safety, but because of my disabilities I wasn't able to follow that dream.
My great great great uncle was a founding father of our country signing the Declaration of Independence. William Few. "Few Men Of Will" If you want some wordplay. SGT. Sowinski had will. He gave his life for it. An ultimate sacrifice.
I enrolled in a program in Utah for Post Traumatic Stress and a chronic pain disease right after his passing.
I planted his wildflower seeds in Utah at Zion National Park on a high mountain I had managed to climb.
While trying to save my own soul.
It can be the oddest things, or people in life that give you strength and hope.
I am disabled and managed to climb a pretty high mountain. He was with me. I felt him. Kicking my butt if you want to know the truth.
I just imagined what he would say to me if I were in the military. It makes me smile.
It's been a few years and I still struggle daily, but he would be proud to know that I just became a volunteer at Prescott's VA Hospital. But of course he knows.
I believe that if someone you loved has passed comes into your thoughts then it is a big "hello" from them on the other side.
He said he was on to "bigger and better things." He is a source of strength to draw from. That is defintely a bigger and better thing even though his mother might disagree at times just to have him with her. I wouldn't blame her, or the people that love him.
I can't imagine any job more important than offering hope and endurance to those of us here still fighting for freedom. Freedom for anything. No matter how small.
I can't explain his popping into my thoughts occasionaly, except for the obvious. "Get your butt in gear and keep on pushing!" That is the silent message I hear when I think of him.
His passing reminds me of how precious my own life is.
I would give anything to have met him standing next to his mother in town somewhere on the square having an icecream and making her smile; (I just feel he was the glue for his mother.) rather than having to have met him after he passed.
Please know he has been a great influence in my life.
My birthday is on October 10th. That birthday and his passing is seared into my heart.
I will forever celebrate his life along with the continuation of mine.
I blew out a candle on my birthday cake for Nicholas on Saturday. I will be thinking of his mother and siblings on today. I will eat an icecream on the square for him.
God Bless.
October 10, 2009
Ski!
I met a reservist medic named Sven who you'd have really liked. He reminds me a lot of Wilson. I'm gunna take him for a shot, and include him on toasting you. Duck fart, as I recall, was one of your favorites. Don't worry, yours won't be wasted ;) I've done this every year for the last three. I get all sappy and wear my spurs and bracelet, then talk to whoever will listen about what we've done and why I'm drinking.
I don't feel shame when I say that you and your way define to me what honor is. We miss you. I miss you.
Nick is about 9.5 months old now, and high crawling faster than I'd have thought. Cute, too. I'm happy and humbled to have known such a man as yourself, and proud to have named my boy after you. The name suits him.
I don't know about the idea of you watching from somewhere; I don't remember you being much of a prayin' man, but it is comforting to feel you're not truly gone. It's enough just to have known you and been able to call you friend and brother. Can't be much more simple than that.
Oh, and, sorry 'bout that. I know, right? Its weird. I don't fully understand it myself, but I also don't really see a value in figuring it out.
You know I will neither forget you nor the simple things of life you shared with me. Thanks for the pen. And for, you know, the little things, like your service and stuff.
Semper Gumbi, broski. Always flexible.
Kory
J Douglas
October 8, 2009
Hey Brother,
Its been almost three years now... the time has raced by and it seems like only yesterday we were in Alaska. Multiple deployments and duty stations later I'm still hoping to get another group of soldiers like that; maybe one day. Our prayers are with your family. Watch over us, you will never be forgotten
Dianna
October 8, 2009
Never forgotten..you are always standing watch now. And in grace we honor you forever.
Peggy Childers
October 6, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Nicholas R. Sowinski:
Nicholas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
April
August 15, 2009
Remembering you today and always. I was at your beautiful memorial service although I did not get the chance to know you in person. Thank you for your sacrifice.
Noelle (Rapp) Brinkman
August 7, 2009
Having just learned of Nick's passing, it is comforting to read these guestbook entries from years past, as the grief is new, overwhelming, and raw to me. It is nice to see that others knew him by the same qualities as I: strong and sturdy, passionate, intelligent, optimistic, witty, sensitive, and a leader.
We met in a class at ASU and my life was never to be the same. Nick helped me to understand love, the kind that prepares you for the rest of your life. The love that is strong enough to be strong even when it hurts, and the kind of love that people grow from instead of becoming damaged by. He was honest and said what he thought, yet was loving all at once. The memories I have of him make me laugh out loud almost 10 years later, and can make me cry because I still remember the pain of having to say goodbye. Nick, you will always have a place in my heart and memories, and I cherish them more deeply than you may have ever known.
Thank you for serving our country in this way, and for doing it wholeheartedly. I am proud to see all the soldiers' lives you touched. You were meant to be a leader, Nick, and you found your path and lived it well. The world needs more of that...
Diane, thank you for being a woman of grace and poise whom I have always recollected when thinking of what kind of woman I hope to become. You may not think that in the few brief encounters we had, you could leave that much of an impression, but you did. It is easy to know what kind of lady you are by having watched you interact with your family and to see you smile (Nick had your smile). Thank you for being an example, and I hope you someday read this to know what a difference your family made in my life. You raised a true gentleman who was utterly amazing, and my heart is sad to know that he is not physically here.
It will be nice when we can reunite with all our loved ones on the other side.
richard clark
May 11, 2009
take care ski-
Marie Pickard-Bronw
March 12, 2009
Good Morning Nick,
It is spring time in Eugene, OR. The daffodils are coming out. I have named one of my gardens after an 18 year old man who is serving in Afghan. as a Marine. His name is Elliott. He is so young. It hurts my heart.
I miss you. I have yhour pcture on the wall next to my computer. There is a little pin that says "A Piece of My Heart is in Iraq." Of course that refers to you.
The sun is shining and I hear a small plane in the background.
My love to you sweetpea,
Marie
Kenna Larra
March 11, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Marie Pickard-Brown
December 28, 2008
How I smile knowing what this book means! It is writing itself. I must give praise to my God (the Three-In-One). It has been a while since people have been writing. I see a couple have gone before me recently.
Nick, your name-sake is here. Too awesome for words. I haven't seen him yet or heard his little voice. He is healthy, 8 lbs and some change. Knowing his parents, I can guarantee he is a handsome lad.
I know his dad will be getting over the wonderment of having little Nick soon and will come here to tell you. I do not wish to infringe on that too much. I will say that it is getting a little crowded for birthdays during our nation's celebration time of holidays. My, my . . . Good thing I am broke right now. Ha! Enough of that topic.
I believe J.C. has been visiting with your family. Isn't that spiffy?
I have been corresponding with several people on this guest book. Such a treat that is for me. Oh, before I forget . . . the parent's support group is still up and running here in Eugene. You durn kids plague us parent's something terrible. (Gently-loving chuckle)
It has been a very unusual Christmas, but I think you already know that. I believe you are in Heaven as I write this. See how wonderful your life was for all of us. It is bringing sweet tears to my eyes right now. Oops, some are falling out. Mighty happy tears! I sure have a time thinking I am keeping all of your buddies in line. Silly me.
I appreciate seeing the stirrings on this web site. It tells me that we are coming back up from this devastating world economic crisis. I am not worried about it too much because I know Who my Boss is! Glad I was raised in SE Alaska and that I come from pretty good stock. "I am not just another pretty face," ya know.
Well, it is starting to get light outside and I hear some other "things" calling me . . . pets, my cold little toes and achy body saying to get up and move.....maybe get some food in me.
As usual, my love to your family. I look forward to meeting them. "Hope" springs eternal in my world and I do know the "Living Water." Can't get any better than that.
No more words for the body of this letter, just thoughts . . .
Marie
PS I am a fisher and love to snag just about anyone within the proper perspective, thus I send this "ps" out as an invitation. Especially for those who are "service." I do have connections: such as people who just want to have someone else to chat with; give gifts; just hang out in internet land; and whatever-my gift of networking. (Thank you in advance, Nick's family for allowing me to do so. That is one way that this book shall continue to write itself.) Coming full circle----hey, James ...how was your Christmas? 1 Peter 3:15, NLT
Eric Sheehan
December 26, 2008
Hey Buddy,
I miss ya. and won't forget you.
James
December 25, 2008
Hey Brother, I got back a little over a month ago, it was weird being back in Iraq on that day... couldn't stop thinking about you. I think about you and your family a lot... weird things, movies, stuff people say... make me remember or feel "patriotic" and there you and the guys are again. Crazy how long its been but it seems like just yesterday. Its Christmas today and I'm sure your family is really missing you, but that you are looking over us as always. I've had a few close calls, should have died at least once, but it seems there is always something that pulls us out. Thanks for everything brother, you are remembered and missed.
SSG chuck hipple
December 24, 2008
Nick, hey man your fellow troopers are here again, me , sfc robert, chino, being here makes me think of the last time here. I havnt forgotten you.
What can you say except,
Marie Pickard-Brown
November 12, 2008
Nick,
I am so excited. Hey, Mr. Holl E. Woodstar. You got a couple of your pictures on the news at KEZI televion in Eugene, OR. I got to talk about you to about 20 people in person. And then whoever got to see it on the news cast.
I am not sure where you are. I do know you are still in your "almost mommy's" heart.
So, I am gonna try to put the link in here so other people will see it the "clip." Got the picture of you at Kory's wedding (check out the little pin that is beside you in the picture--If you can't see it. it says "A piece of my heart is in Iraq." (other pics are should be self-explanitory)
I just held the picture up to the computer. Okay, I am being a dork . . . (or am I?) Besides it is fun to be a dork sometimes. Laugh. I have pictures of you being a dork.
So here is the link. I am praying it works. If not, people can contact me through this fabulous web site.
Oh, heck. Here is a picture of you and Justin being kinda dorky, but is sure does show that you love each other.--nobody can take that away can they? Knowing sigh of peace. (just like today, in my mind. I can almost touch you) Uhh, ya, uhh. Sorry Justin, couldn't resist. It is to priceless not to share. You're gonna have to kick my tush later.
Okay, here is the link:
http://kezi.com/news/local/62852
And here is to you my "almost" son. To Nick's Mom, Wish I could hug you RIGHT NOW! I am kinda jealous that Justin gets to come see you pretty soon. I will wait for my time. If it is meant to be, I will embrace you as only two mommies can.
In the meantime, Nick, Justin and Nick's Mom, May your day be filled with peace and wonderment at the treasures in your lifes!
Marie (Kory's Mom)
Justin Chohrach
October 15, 2008
Hey Nick, just wanted to say hi again, i find it harder and harder as time goes on to leave my words here. You think it would be easier but its not. I spoke with your mom on 10-11. She sounds like she is doing ok, missing you of course. I told her that me and brianne are planning a trip to vegas in may and we'd really like to take the time to meet your family and see your memorial. I definitly see where you got your strength and your kindness for others your mother is a great person. Know that you are NEVER forgotten and you are on the mind of others for ever!
J Douglas
October 13, 2008
Hey Brother,
I finished up my last mission for this tour on the 11th... its was a weird feeling but it made me remember why we still do this... its about the men to your left and right... that feeling of never wanting to let the other down... to finish a job. Continue to watch over and guide us. You will never be forgotten.
I love this picture of him
Jaimy Whistler
October 12, 2008
I missed you so much yesterday Nick. I feel like I never got to tell you how much you mean to me. Thank you for looking after me and "toughening me up" with Josh growing up. : ) I love you and can't believe it's been two years. You are always in my thoughts and will never be forgotten...someone so amazing is impossible to forget and always in our hearts.
Marie Pickard-Brown
October 11, 2008
To Nick's Mom,
I wanted to share one of my memories of Nick. In preparation for Kory's wedding, Nick and Kory were putting an outdoor tiki-type light together. I watched our son's work without words. They had a mission and they were just doing it! It was as if they were one person. I remember thinking to myself that their actions were so graceful it was like watching an art form. By seeing the strengths in your son, I was also able to see my son in a different light. They brought out the best in each other. Even though we have not met, I feel as if I know you. My heart hurts for you. I am sorry Nick's physical presence is not here. I think of him often. He definitely had a mission which he completed and he completed it excellently. It is a privilege to have met Nick and know the caliber of person he is by his mere being when ever I was around him. I can say without hesitation that many would echo my words. He in himself had a standard that one could use to measure up to.
Kory’s Mom
Nick at Kory & Kirsten Pickard's wedding, Fairbanks, AK 7-2005
Marie Pickard-Brown
October 11, 2008
Nick,
I miss your presence. I came across this picture of you from Kory's wedding in Fairbanks.
Kory's Mom, Marie (Sorry the pic is not clear. If you want me to email a copy, please contact me.)
Peggy Childers
October 5, 2008
To the family of Sgt. Nicholas R. Sowinski:
Nicholas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Best Man at Kory & Kirsten Pickard's wedding (Fairbanks, Alaska)
September 3, 2008
Kory Pickard
September 3, 2008
Nick, I don't know where to begin. It isn't easy to come forward and say something to someone that should have never been taken from us. I am thankful that such a man as you lived, and I know I am a better person for it. I wanted to tell you that Kirsten and I are having a boy, and we decided to name him after you. His full name will be Nicholas Kurt Allan Pickard. Words cannot describe the loss I still feel at your physical absence, but you still live in my heart and mind. You gave me the definition of Honor. Thank you.
To Nick's family, I'm sorry for never having contacted any of you. I was in basic with him, and his room mate for a long time. He was the best man at my wedding, and a brother. Thank you for making such a fine human; the world needs more like you and him.
Chandelle Porter
July 4, 2008
I am missing you today... moreso than other days.. It is hard to celebrate a day that reminds me that you are gone.
Know that I honor you for the man that you defined yourself to be; not only for the "sacrifice" you fell to on October 11, 2006.
Loving you,
C.
James Douglas
June 9, 2008
Hey brother, its been a little while but you've been on my mind the past few days... We lost a soldier yesterday and it brought back a lot of feelings... I'm in Mosul again... who would have thought. Its still more of the same, but what can you do. Just wanted to drop you a line, let you know I was thinking about you. Watch over us brother, we could use a little help over here.
June 8, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Sowinski!
Siobhan Beasley
March 25, 2008
I knew Nick in high school. A group of us used to spend hours after school just hanging out in his front yard. Since I moved away from Arizona I lost touch with many of my old friends, and so I just learned of Nick's passing this weekend. I was heartbroken to find out that such a wonderful and kind soul had left us.
Your family will always be in my prayers.
Justin Chohrach
January 28, 2008
Hey nick i am currently in the process of getting a custom tattoo designed in your memory. It has been over a year since you have passed but you are not forgotten. Take care brother. Miss ya man.
Finding Shade
December 26, 2007
Keith Pruett
November 28, 2007
Nick, not a day goes by that I haven't thought of you. I don't think I will ever get over this. I still feel like I have not got closure with you. I will visit you one day and I am sorry I havent thus far. I talked with your Mom in Dec of last year upon our return and it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. She sounds like a lovely woman. I called on the 0ne year mark of Death but only got the answer machine. I miss you very much and me and the guys from 1st Platoon talk of you often. You are the best Soldier I have ever had the privaledge of leading. You made it easy. I look forward to serving with you agian in Heaven Nick. PROTECT US AS WE RIDE!
eric sheehan
October 18, 2007
my thoughts are with you.
SGT Sowinski and SSG Chinnis
October 11, 2007
SSG Jeremy Chinnis
October 11, 2007
To the Sowinski Family,
I just wanted you all to know tht Nick is being honored everyday here. I stayed in Alaska to do another tour here. The unit has changed to 5-1 Cav now, but there is going to be a Memorial built outside of our Headquarters for all of the fallen 4-14 Soldiers. We also have made a remembrance plaque for the Crazyhorse Troop so that others who did not know Nick would know what a great Soldier he really was. I have not spoken much today as I know everyone feels the same way. I miss Nick very much. I do not have any emails to contact you. I would love to talk to you and meet you. God Bless your family and Nick.
James Douglas
September 23, 2007
Sowinski Family,
The closer and closer it gets to the day the more we can't seem to get what happened off our minds. Every day I think of Sowinski and the kind of guy and soldier he was. He was my first soldier and served side by side with me for two years, an now, some five years in the Army later, he is still the best I've had. He changed our lives and we will never forget. I plan to visit his burial site on 11 october and hope to bump into some of you, he really was a great man. My deepest condolences. 1st Plt, CRAZYHORSE Troop, 4-14th Cavalry.
C. P.
August 23, 2007
Nick:
It's pretty great that people wished you happy birthday in your guest book! I will be visiting you next week so keep watch! And how great is it that Ashley from KY got a memorial bracelet with your name on it?! I hope you like her because apparentely you two are permanently attached... ;-)
I miss you, pumpkin. I think about you every day and the reality of this life takes my breath away. I can still see your face and I can still feel your arms around me when you gave me hugs. I am painting some pretty great pictures these days, inspired by you, of course - come by and take a look...
xoxo
Justin Chohrach
August 22, 2007
Hey Nick happy late b-day, i saw a guy the other day when me and brianne went out to dinner the other night that looked just like you. I had to stop and watch him for a moment. It was like you where there. Like i have said you may be gone but you are NEVER forgotten. You made a positive impact on so many. Take care brother and know that you are missed!
Ashley McClure
August 21, 2007
I came to this guestbook because I ordered a military memorial bracelet online. I wanted a random military member because I know I will always think of my husband's fellow marines who passed, but I wanted someone I didn't know to pray for. I was sent Sgt. Sowinski's name on my bracelet. I will pray for him everyday and I want his family to know he is a true hero. I will cary his name on my wrist and share his story with anyone who asks.
Ashley McClure
August 21, 2007
I ordered a memorial bracelet online. I wanted to have a random military member because I know I will always remember my husband's fellow marines who died, but I wanted someone I didn't know to pray for. I received Sgt. Sowinski's name. I wanted to look him up to find information about him. I pray for him and wish his family to know I will think about him every day now. He is a hero.
August 21, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Laura, Proud Marine Mom of Cpl Derek
August 16, 2007
Happy Birthday! I feel comforted knowing you spent your special day among other Heroes still serving as guardian angels to your brothers in arms.
Pamela Dustin
August 15, 2007
Happy Birthday, Nick. You are missed and will never be forgotten. It is hard to forget a HERO!
Celebrate with your brother in arms and give them all hugs from a lot of us.
Marty Farmer
August 15, 2007
Happy Birthday, Nicholas!! You will never be forgotten!
April
August 15, 2007
Happy Birthday hero, we will never EVER forget.
August 2, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Sowinski and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
a brother in arms
April 17, 2007
Nick i served three years with you and ''YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN''
CRAZYHORSE
ROBYN GARSIDE
March 16, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Glen
February 1, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Caila
January 20, 2007
To the Sowinski family,
I was fortunate enough to meet Nick in Fairbanks a couple of days before he got shipped out to Iraq + we hung out and talked for several days. He was so smart and special. We kept in touch through e-mail while he was in Iraq and he was so impressive in every way. A very good person. I just found out a couple of days ago he died & I have been very sad. My thoughts are with the family and I wish you strength.
Kenneth Thilges
December 19, 2006
My family is deeply sorry for the loss of another hero. Your son Nicholas gave the ultimate and I am proud of the service he gave to our country. He will be remembered in our prayers along with all the other soldiers and never be forgotten. Contact me because I have something to give you from a former Vietnam Veteran.
Dawn
December 6, 2006
Diane,
I am so sorry that I have not signed Nick's page until now. In your sorrow you were kind enough to leave a message on my nephews page. Thank you for your kind words on Ryan's page.
I too know the pain. I rely on the happy memories I have, it is the only advice I can give to you.
I can say at some point those memories will bring a smile instead of tears.
Take care of yourself,
Dawn
Aunt of Staff SGT Ryan E. Haupt
KIA Oct 17, 2006
SSG Jeremy Chinnis
December 2, 2006
To The Sowinski Family,
Please know that you all are in my prayers everyday. I had the honor of seving with Nick for 3 years. He was the best person I have ever known and I don't think I will ever accept this loss. I miss him so much. He was a cherished friend of mine and the best soldier I have ever had. I will try everyday to live up to his standards and make him proud. Ski will be in my heart and thoughts until we are all together again. God Bless you all and be with you in this difficult time.
SGT Christopher Mielke
November 26, 2006
I am deeply saddened and overwhelmed to see the news of the death of SGT Nicholas Sowinski.
Nick was one of the smartest and most professional people I have ever met, in or out of the Army. I had the pleasure of knowing him while I was in his same platoon in the 172nd in Alaska. I was then reassigned to Colorado, and deployed to Iraq with the 3rd Armored Cavalry Regiment instead. In the short time I knew him however, I was struck by his outgoing personality, his good-nature, and his genuine attitude. We hit it off, and if I had been in the unit longer, I would have been honored to serve alongside him. He was truly one of my favorite people to work with. After making the drive from Fairbanks to Colorado Springs, he was one of the few people I called to tell about the trip. We meant to stay in touch, and sadly, we didn't... To his family and friends, I feel truly blessed to have known him, and let no American forget his sacrifice for the sake of our liberty...
Loren Lucero
November 6, 2006
I did not know Nick personally, but we too lost our beloved Santos Armijo on Oct 2, 2006. I will keep the Sowinsky family in our prayers.
Thank you for raising a beautiful and brave son!
God Bless each and everyone of you!
proud mom-Army Ranger-Iraq...Jared
SHARON GERTZ
October 24, 2006
I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON, NOTHING CAN CHANGE THE UNBEARABLE HURT YOU FEEL. NO HUMAN CAN TOUCH YOUR HEART TO EVEN TRY TO BRING YOU COMFORT. I HAVE WATCHED MY BEST FRIENDS GO THROUGH THIS ALSO, AND THE ONLY THING I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF SORROW IS-
MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU-MAY HE MAKE HIS FACE TO SHINE UPON YOU AND BE GRACIOUS UNTO YOU-
THE LORD LIFT UP HIS COUNTANENCE UPON YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE. I PRAY FOR OUR TROOPS DAILY SINCE THE LOSS OF OUR JUSTIN, AND AS I CONTINUE I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY AND NICK AS WELL AS ALL THOSE WHO LOVED HIM. IN NICK'S WORDS THAT WERE SHARED FROM A FRIEND (BY EMAIL) THAT ATTENDED HIS FUNERAL- I HAVE MOVED ON TO BIGGER & BETTER THINGS, HEAVEN IS MUCH BIGGER AND MUCH BETTER WITH YOUR SON THERE- THIS WE ALL KNOW. GOD BLESS YOU.
Brandon Paup
October 24, 2006
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Nick, I was in the same Troop with him in Alaska throughout the year before they deployed, I had the great opportunity to take Nick to the Soldier of the quarter board, as always he did outstanding. He has brought happiness and joy into so many lives, he will never be forgotten, Nick is a true American Hero. Nick we will always remember you.
Crystine Kilpatrick
October 24, 2006
No one will ever truly know the extent of giving that came from Sgt. Nicholas Sowinski. He gave the greatest gift of love that an individual can give for another. He gave his life. He did this not just for his country but for a cause and people he believed in.
I hope his family realized what a remarkable person they raised and loved. May God bless you and comfort you.
Barbara Porter
October 24, 2006
Dear family and friends,
I am saddened by the loss of Nick. Although I have not experienced your loss, as a Marine mom, I fear knowing it. I pray God will hold you in His loving arms and comfort you in these trying days.
Dianne Barnes
October 24, 2006
May God wipe all tears from your eyes. My son is with the 172nd Stryker Brigade. Thank you for your sacrifice and may God comfort you and your family at this time of loss. Our family will be praying for yours.
Maricel Delaney (Francisco)
October 23, 2006
To Nick's FAMILY:
I have NO words to express my sincere sympathy over your loss except for, I will keep your family in my prayers. The Loss of Nick WILL be a reminder for me to PRAY for the rest of men and women who are serving in our Country. I'm very sad to hear what happened to Nick and at the same time very appreciative for him serving in our country. I knew Nick from Chase when we worked together and we became friends. He added many fun and cheerful days because he would always make me laugh. He will truly be missed.........
-Matthew 5:4 "Blessed are those who mourn, For they shall be comforted...."
God Bless You,
SUE MERRILL
October 23, 2006
MY HEART IS VERY HEAVY WHEN I HEARD OF ANOTHER SOLDIER, WHO SACRAFICED HIS LIFE. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I TO LOST MY SON IN IRAQ ON SEPTEMBER 3RD BY A ROAD SIDE BOMB. (IED) I KNOW WHAT HURT YOU ARE HAVING AT THIS TIME. GOD BLESS YOU. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT OR EMAIL ME AT ANYTIME.
SUE MERRILL (SON SGT JASON MERRILL)
Judi Sweeney
October 22, 2006
May God Bless the family and friends of Sgt. Nicholas R. Sowinski. I am the Mother-In-Law of SSgt. Todd Anthony Rosalez. It is men like Sgt. Sowinski who do our Country proud. I am so very sorry for your and our loss. What a special young man he was.
You are in my prayers...
Carla Gowdy
October 22, 2006
Dear Family and Friends of Nick, I do not know your pain, only the fear of it. Yet, while I grieve for your loss, I also am grateful to you for bringing Nick into our world. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and hope comfort is yours soon.
Janelle Watts
October 22, 2006
Dear family of Sgt. Nicholas R. Sowinski,
Please know that my heart is heavy with each new loss we suffer as a nation and as families. Good men like your Nick and my Justin, gone way too soon.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Marty Farmer
October 22, 2006
I pray that those that loved Nicholas will know God's love and know that Nicholas is an angel watching over all of us and all his buddies still in the battle. I'm so very proud of young men like Nicolas that volunteer to do something very few will do. He wanted to make the world a better place. I thank God for Nicolas and all of those that serve this great country of ours. Nicholas will not be forgotten. He will be remembered by a grateful nation and by the memories of his loved ones.
God Bless and comfort you.
Marty Farmer
mom of Sgt. Tyler Farmer
USMC
kristine bachar
October 22, 2006
To the family and friends of Sgt. Sowinski. I am writing this with a heavy, heavy heart because my husband was a Marine, killed in April. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this horrible time. Our men paid the ultimate sacrafice. They truly are heroes who will not be forgotten. With pride and the utmost respect, we will keep their memory alive.
SSgt. Christian and April Abreu
October 22, 2006
The defining mark of dedication is sacrifice. The hearts of a grateful nation are with you as you mourn the loss of the one you love, and we mourn the loss of one of the best young people this nation has to offer. We will never forget.
Ronald Southard
October 21, 2006
To the family and friends of SGT Nicholas Sowinski. I was honored to render Military Honors to you loved one. Hearing the testimonies I realize that SGT Sowinski is a true American hero. I had the privilege to talk to his Platoon Sergeant and I know that your SGT Sowinski is among the best. I pray that God bless you your family and loved ones.
SSG Southard Ronald
FT Huachuca Post Honor Guard
Lee Sirotnak
October 21, 2006
Please know that as time goes on, your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Prayers that God will bless you with comfort and peace, and prayers of thanksgiving for the heroes like Nicholas who have sacrificed everything for us. God Bless you and your family.
Jaylee Draney
October 21, 2006
For fear of sounding cliche, Nick was a great guy. He was so bright and it was enjoyable to try to one-up each other on who read more books. He had said he wanted to be an editor, but knew his love of reading would suffer if he did it as a career. The world has too few many individuals who not only have the ability to make something of themselves, but the drive as well. Nick was one of those people.
Betty Southard
October 21, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.My son is stationed at Fort Huachuca Arizona and is in the Honor Guard for your loved one today.He is so honored to be a part of that.He has served two tours in Iraq and I don't know why he is safe on American soil now.He is very proud to serve with men like your Nicholas and is willing to died with them too.May God work in your life thru this very sad and painful time.
Kimberly Kohr
October 20, 2006
The family of SGT Sowinski:
Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. SGT Sowinski is a true American hero. Know that God walks every step and sheds every tear with you. You and Nick will always be in my heart and my prayers.
Proud Army mom of SGT Gregg Baker
Ft Shafter, Hawaii
OIF veteran 2005-2006
Paul Calabrese
October 20, 2006
Nick was a great guy and a great friend. Always smiling, always having a good time no matter what the situation. I was very fortunate to have gotten to spend time with Nick at many different events including him attending my sisters wedding, and him accompanying my Dad and on a CA trip to ride the big roller coasters at Six Flags, and of course many great parties at he and Josh's place. I'll miss him very much and though what occurred is so tragic, I'll always remember Nick telling me how much he was enjoying what he did in the Army. I believe he died doing what he loved and that, I hope, makes it a bit easier to understand. Nick saw the world over and lived a lifetime....
Anonymous with Love
October 20, 2006
Please remember his life and always celebrate it. The memories are what will get you through. this is not the end. You will see him in all his splendor again. He will welcome you with open arms and you will be a family again in Heaven. This time on Earth is short compared to the rest of your time with him in the afterlife. It is but a short wait. Be patient. Our loving Lord will make it possible to be with him again.
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