David Bruce Allen

David Bruce Allen obituary, Wilmington, NC

David Bruce Allen

David Allen Obituary

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David Bruce Allen, founder and Head Coach of the UNCW Swimming and Diving teams passed away on June 20, 2023 after a long courageous fight. David or Dave, as most everyone called him, was born on October 15, 1947 in Rochester, NY to Gordon LaVerne and Iva May Birmingham Allen. He graduated from Irondequoit High School in 1965 and began his college education at Springfield College in Springfield, MA. Dave's dad had been the coach of many different teams and the Athletic Director at Irondequoit High and Dave decided at an early age he wanted to follow in his fathers footsteps, but his heart, soul and passion was swimming. He received his Bachelors and Masters degrees in Physical Education from Springfield College and began his college coaching career at Allegheny College in Meadville, PA. One year later he took the head coaching position at Potsdam State University, Potsdam, NY where he had a very successful six years coaching the men's swim team.
In 1977 he moved his small family to Wilmington, NC and began both the Mens and Women's swim teams at UNCW. He has left a lasting impact on decades of students, student-athletes and young swimmers in his 37 years of outstanding service to the Athletic Department and UNCW. David coached the men's team to 13 unprecedented consecutive Colonial Athletic Association championships from 2002-2014 and two Eastern titles and the women's team to three CAA championships from 1977-2014. He received 15 CAA Coach of the Year honors and six of his swimmers qualified for the NCAA Championships. He wanted his swimmers to excel in the pool, but also to excel in their academics, insisting on study hall and keeping in touch with their professors. Nine of his Seahawks received the Chancellor's Cup, the highest academic honor for student-athletes and another was the first UNCW student-athlete to earn an NCAA post graduate scholarship. Dave was inducted into The Potsdam State University Athletic Hall of Fame, The Greater Wilmington Sports Hall of Fame, the NC Swimming Hall of Fame, the UNCW Athletics Hall of Fame and in 2022 the UNCW natatorium was dedicated and renamed The David B. Allen Natatorium in his honor. The student-athletes that came through his program knew he wanted them to achieve their very best both in the pool and in their academics; many close relationships were formed with firm friendships continuing long after graduation. He loved hearing from alumni from UNCW and also kept in touch with Potsdam State alumni. He thoroughly enjoyed his coaching career and was devoted to the University of North Carolina at Wilmington. Numerous young children learned how to swim through the Learn-to-Swim Program Dave and Ellen started in 1978 from their kitchen table. Local children and now grandchildren have flowed through the program where he himself enjoyed introducing the youngest children to the joy of swimming.
David is survived by his college sweetheart and much loved wife of 52 years, Ellen Reynolds Allen, his three beloved children and his well loved son and daughters-in-law; Matthew Gordon Allen, wife Angela of Marblehead, MA, Stephanie Allen Hoffman, husband Darrin of Rocky Point, NC and Brian David Allen, wife Crissie of Wilmington, NC. All three children were thrilled to attend UNCW and be a Seahawk on the UNCW Swim and Dive team and be coached by their father. His two brothers survive him as well, Richard P. Allen (Judy) of Rochester, NY and William G. Allen (Patricia) of LaGrange, GA. He dearly loved his six grandchildren and so enjoyed being with them - Collin Allen, Hudson Allen, Rowan Allen, Bryson Allen, Abigail Hoffman and Henry Hoffman.
David was a member of Windermere Presbyterian Church for over twenty years and served as an Elder and Clerk of the Session. Many wonderful friendships were formed with his church family and he deeply appreciated all the love, prayers and support sent his way during his illness.
A memorial service will be held at Windermere Presbyterian Church on July 1st at 12:30 pm with Pastor John Pflug officiating, 104 Windemere Road, Wilmington, NC. The service will be live streamed on the church's website. Donations in his name to the UNCW Aquahawks would be appreciated by the family in lieu of flowers.
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October 10, 2024

Robert Jackson posted to the memorial.

June 19, 2024

Bill Allen posted to the memorial.

June 15, 2024

Pam Greenough posted to the memorial.

Robert Jackson

October 10, 2024

David and I were swimmers together at Springfield College and we would be in practice, laughing and talking about nothing important. Later we both became Varsity Swimming coaches, and our teams competed against each other at UNCW. I had a fairly new team; however, we had a few swimmers that were competitive. David was a gracious winner, and both our teams enjoyed each other's company. I believe David is enjoying eternal life with the Lord.

Bill Allen

June 19, 2024

We miss you every single day; still laughing, still crying and still loving you. We know you have a first class heavenly swim team going by now. You will never be forgotten Dave. We love you. Bill

Pam Greenough

June 15, 2024

June 15, 2024 Allen's lived around the corner and cant go to my mom's without passing their house daily. David took his role as a neighborhood dad seriously and my kids benefited from his example if a giod Human.

Mack McElhaney

July 19, 2023

I hired and worked with David at Allegheny College. He was an outstanding coach, educator and friend. He was destined for great things and success came his way early and blossomed into a career to envy. God bless him, his wife and Family.

Donald and Arlene

July 1, 2023

Our prayers for comfort and peace are for Daves family. Our memories of all the fun times in the neighborhood and our children in the pool at UNCW are cherished. God bless his family

Jessica Allen/ Susan Allen

June 30, 2023

We are sending you all love, strength and know I am only a plane ride away. We will be calling when things calm down. You take your space. Peace and love to Uncle David.

Tannis Nelson

June 30, 2023

Thousands of children learned to swim in the program Dave Allen started with his wife Ellen at UNC-W. I´m confident many families , like ours are grateful for his life and service to our community , especially our children. My warmest condolences to the Allen family.

Corey Pomerville (Allen) & Ian Pomerville.

June 29, 2023

Sending love from afar and wishing we could be there with the family to celebrate such a wonderful man.

Brother Bill

June 28, 2023

He was my brother, and my good friend. I will miss his humor, his positive attitude, and his infamous grin. Dave always had an easy going attitude that allowed him to work through anything with charm and humor. Life was meant to be fun and he made the most of it. He had a passion for life, and his work, and he loved his family.

There are many adjectives that can describe Dave, but Honorable, Humble, Happy and Dedicated stand out for me. He never complained, and he never bragged, He made a positive impact on many, many lives, and we will always feel the pride of that. We love you Dave, and will miss you always.

Thank you Ellen for your phenomenal strength and all your love.

Brother Bill and Patricia

Brother Bill

June 28, 2023

Anne Lineberry

June 26, 2023

Loved Coach Allen! One of the best teachers I've ever had. He was tough and you earned your grade. I always admired
him and the skills he taught me in the pool were some of the most important things I ever learned. He could turn a great swimmer/diver into an even better one. RIP Coach!

Bob Britt

June 26, 2023

My condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.

David & Elaine Rohde

June 24, 2023

We met Dave & Ellen when they moved into our neighborhood. Our friendships developed immediately, which was easy with such an energetic and friendly couple. Eventually our kids became friends, playing a lot of neighborhood sports. This entire family is one of a kind and we are fortunate to have known them all these years. Dave will be missed but never forgotten.

Pamela and Rob Greenough

June 23, 2023

To Ellen and the Kids and Grandkids. We were blessed as neighbors, church friends and parenting our children of equal ages. Your walks through the neighbor in early morning and at twilight always gave me a smile with a wave of your hands. Thank you for a memory of what a truly loving couple. You were a team in this world of kindness. Love Rob and Pam Greenough

Patricia and Robert Deanes

June 23, 2023

Coach Allen was a great coach and wonderful caring man. My daughters, Brittany and Logan both loved him as he taught them swim lessons from age 3 until 12 and then they both worked under him as swim instructors for a few years. He had such a way with children and was very respected! Our prayers go out now to his family for our Lord's comfort, strength and peace. Rest in God's hands now Coach Allen.

Susan Milholland

June 23, 2023

Our sincerest condolences to the Allen family as you mourn your loss and celebrate his life well lived.

Vann and Carl Zick

June 22, 2023

Coach guided and was there for our daughter for the four years she was on the uncw swim team. Such a kind and caring man that truly cared for all his swimmers. Always a positive influence on them all.

Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.

The Wildeboer Family

June 21, 2023

Our prayers are with the Allen family- he was a mentor, friend and boss (and a fellow Springfield College Alum) - Dave will be missed! Our sincere condolences to the family.

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