Sebastien Laurent Gayraud

Sebastien Laurent Gayraud obituary, Bellingham, WA

Sebastien Laurent Gayraud

Sebastien Gayraud Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Moles Farewell Tributes & Crematory – Bayview Chapel on Jun. 4, 2023.

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Sébastien Laurent Gayraud
(translation en français ci-dessous)
If Sébastien were writing this himself, he doubtlessly would have started with a quote from a philosopher, a joke, an expression in French, or maybe sharing a drawing or a page from the book which he was writing. Helas, it lies with those of us who loved him, but were left behind, to reminisce and remember him.
Sébastien was born on June 6, 1988 in Bellingham,Washington and left this life there unexpectedly almost exactly 35 years later. He left behind his "papa" Jean-Marcel, his "maman" Trish, his sister Laura, close friends, and his cat that so comforted him.
Sébastien lived in Bellingham for most of his life and enjoyed his youth with his friends, and studying biology and playing tennis at Sehome High School. He earned his Master's degree in Education and his teaching certificate from Western Washington University.
He was very attached to his French heritage and France. His first language was French, and he had an incredible interest in languages, and cultures. He visited his French hometown in the Tour d'Aigues regularly to visit his grandmother, aunt and family friends. He eventually spent two years working in France in both French and international schools. At the time of his passing he was living in downtown Bellingham where he enjoyed taxi-driving, playing Super Smash Bro., Magic the Gathering, pool with his good friends.
Sébastien had so much love to share. You know what we mean if you are one of his friends, acquaintances, or even one of the complete strangers with whom Sébastien constantly struck up a conversation. He was always there for his friends, coworkers, companions, parents and sister when they needed him.
Words to describe Sébastien who so loved words? He was gregarious, loquacious, compassionate, imaginative, humoristic, creative, erudite–but he also had his share of being discouraged and experiencing pain. Thank you to all of you who helped him through those times.
We will be holding a celebration of life sometime this summer (2023), and will let you know when and where at a later date. Sébastien will find his final resting place with his family in France in a memorial garden we are building. In lieu of flowers, if you would like to make a final farewell gift to Sébastien, you can donate to a fund for a mature olive tree at https://gofund.me/7832cd0d
I hope all of you who loved Sébastien can find a moment to share a happy memory of him, either on this site or elsewhere. It will comfort us. He left us too soon.
Si Sébastien l'écrivait lui-même, il aurait sans doute commencé par une citation d'un philosophe, une blague, une expression en français, ou peut-être par un dessin ou une page du livre qu'il était en train d'écrire. Hélas il nous a quitté, et il est a nous, qui l'aimaient, d'écrire nos souvenirs et remembrances de lui.
Sébastien est né le 6 juin 1988 à Bellingham, et a quitté cette vie de façon inattendue presque exactement 35 ans plus tard. Il laisse derrière lui son "papa" Jean-Marcel, sa "maman" Trish, sa sœur Laura, des amis proches, et son chat qui l'a tant réconforté.
Sébastien a vécu à Bellingham, Washington, pendant la majeure partie de sa vie et a profité de sa jeunesse avec ses amis, aimant ses études de la biologie, et de jouer sur l'équipe de tennis à Sehome High School. Il a obtenu sa maîtrise en éducation et son certificat d'enseignement de l'université de Western Washington University. Au moment de son décès, il vivait au centre-ville de Bellingham ou il aimait conduire son taxi, joyer au Super Smash Bro., Magic the Gathering, et jouer au billard avec ses amis.
Il était très attaché à son héritage français et à la France. Sa première langue était le français et il avait un intérêt incroyable pour les langues et les cultures. Il est allé à sa ville familiale française de La Tour d'Aigues pour visiter régulièrement sa grand-mère et sa tante, ainsi que des amis de la famille. Il a en plus passé deux ans à travailler en France dans les écoles françaises et internationales.
Sébastien avait tellement d'amour à partager. Vous savez ce que nous voulons dire si vous êtes l'un de ses amis, connaissances, ou même l'un de ces parfaits inconnus avec qui Sébastien engageait constamment la conversation. Il était toujours là pour ses amis, collègues, compagnons, parents et sa sœur quand ils avaient besoin de lui.
Des mots pour décrire Sébastien qui aimait tant les mots ? Il était grégaire, loquace, compatissant, imaginatif, créatif, érudit et plein d'humour. Mais il avait aussi sa part de découragement et de douleur. Merci à tous ceux qui l'ont aidé à traverser ces moments.
Nous organiserons une célébration de sa vie cet été (2023) et nous vous ferons part quand et o' dans une date ultérieure. Sébastien trouvera sa dernière demeure avec sa famille en France dans un jardin commémoratif à aménager. Au lieu de fleurs, si vous souhaitez faire un dernier cadeau d'adieu à Sébastien, vous pouvez contribuer pour un olivier à https://gofund.me/7832cd0d
J'espère que vous qui avez aimé Sébastien pourrez trouver un moment pour partager un souvenir heureux de lui, que ce soit sur ce site ou ailleurs. Cela nous réconfortera. Il nous a quitté trop tôt.

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November 23, 2024

Sarah Zhivora posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2024

Laura Gayraud posted to the memorial.

May 30, 2024

Sarah Zhivora posted to the memorial.

Sarah Zhivora

November 23, 2024

Hi Seb, I think about you often and talk about you too. Today is Nov 22 2024. I was telling my mom tonight of an important lesson you taught me and how much it helps me grow. We were walking in France near your parents home and you taught me how important believing what people tell you about themselves and about consent. I hope you know and knew how much you helped me trust myself. I love you always. I miss you every day. If there is one person I could meet in the afterlife,if there is one, it is you. Sometimes I am thankful you don't have to live through the America we are facing today, you like myself feel things so deeply, the pain of the whole world, but I miss you for the rest of my life every day just a little is spent with you. My dear beautiful Sebastien, my friend, my dear love, I don't know what will come or what becomes of us when the lights go out but you, you are what is good in the universe and I remember, I carry you. To your family, Laura and your parents. I am forever yours too, in this uncertain future me and my mom are a friend in any way that matters

Laura Gayraud

June 6, 2024

Today is your 36th birthday, dear brother.
One year after later, there are still not enough words to express the loss we feel, or find enough ways to honor your memory. You are always in our hearts.

There are so many things I wish to say, but for now I think all that matters is to say I love you, and I miss you, and I hope you are at peace.

Ta petite soeur


Demain, dès l´aube, à l´heure où blanchit la campagne,Je partirai. Vois-tu, je sais que tu m´attends.J´irai par la forêt, j´irai par la montagne.Je ne puis demeurer loin de toi plus longtemps.
Je marcherai les yeux fixés sur mes pensées,Sans rien voir au dehors, sans entendre aucun bruit,Seul, inconnu, le dos courbé, les mains croisées,Triste, et le jour pour moi sera comme la nuit.
Je ne regarderai ni l´or du soir qui tombe,Ni les voiles au loin descendant vers Harfleur,Et quand j´arriverai, je mettrai sur ta tombeUn bouquet de houx vert et de bruyère en fleur.
-Victor Hugo

Sarah Zhivora

May 30, 2024

I think of you every day Seb,
When momentous events happen in this crazy world, I tell you out loud, laughing with my made up conversations we have, shaking our fists at injustice. Shedding a tear for the raw beauty that is life.
When certain songs play on my drive home, I remember
I tell your story in my daily life and share all the small things that made you, you.
I said we would always know each other and that part of you lives along side me, my sweet Sebastien. Today and all the days, I'll have your smile on my face.

Bree Cahill

June 17, 2023

I remember late night high school hangouts with Seb, playing cards with kittens crawling over us, talking about life and love and dreams. I will miss you so much friend.

Shay & Tim

June 12, 2023

I did not know Sebastien well, but what I did know of him was kindness. He was always so friendly and ready for a conversation or a quick round of pinball when he saw my partner and I around town. He was genuine and quick to offer up a ride if we ever needed, making sure we had his fancy business card on hand - it remains in my wallet. I don't doubt that this was simply his true nature, a friend to all, even acquaintances. We are sending love to all who held Seb close and will miss his presence in the community. May he rest peacefully.

John Merrill

June 6, 2023

I am sorry for your loss. In addition to watching Sebastian grow up I had the pleasure of sitting with him at the Little Cheerful sometimes getting breakfast but always getting caught up in his universal enthusiasm. When I saw Sebastian I saw his journal, they were one. That journal opened to pen a sketch or write down a quote or memorialize a thought that floated around in conversation. Those ideas were as free ranging as Sebastian´s spirit, they were as big as the universe and smaller than an atom, that man had no limits and a life without limits is legend, and uncontained sometimes. A package deal. It is truly sad that he is gone and I won´t run into him again but I have to think that wherever he is headed right now he´s picking up a fare and trading stories. He´ll get a tip. Godspeed my friend. Thanks for sharing your time here with us.

Helen Merrill

June 6, 2023

I remember Sebastien as a middle school boy who exhibited such youthful exuberance-it was so delightful!
He could hold a conversation with the adults at the dinner table and did not shy away from debate.
His intelligence shown through even at a young age .
To Jean-Marcel and Trish, I´m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son.
To Laura, my heart goes out to you as you mourn the loss of your brother.
Hugs to you all.
Helen

Diana Ambauen

June 6, 2023

Sebastien made me laugh and think. He was so open and inquisitive and talented.

And boy, did he love french fries!

He was my kind friend and I'll forever miss the twinkle in his eye and his smile.

Sarah Zhivora

June 5, 2023

Sarah Zhivora

June 5, 2023

Sarah Zhivora

June 5, 2023

My heart broke when I heard this news and I think it will ache always.

I just spoke to Seb a few weeks ago. We were always going to check on each other, he was my friend for life.
I can hear his voice still. He was the sweetest person I've ever met, so unique and full of love and so very intelligent.
He loved animals as much as I do, his heart was so pure, he always did a little prayer for any poor kitties we saw that had been hit by cars.
He had to pause shows to discuss numerous topics as he thought of them and it was so fun to talk for hours about everything. All the YouTube videos, interesting history, facts and all his thoughts about how things work. He was so brilliant.
He didn't judge people, he just listened and was there. I could tell him anything.
He was a person who felt everything.
He shared his joy and his pain freely, which I think is so rare.
He understood me, helped me heal and learn how to love myself and a really important lesson of how to let go.
He was brave with his heart and with adventure. He went to Montana during the pandemic and then to Hawaii with me.
The first day off quarantine he went into the ocean and got pummeled and dislocated his shoulder. He didn't much like swimming after that.
When he left Hawaii we grieved together, driving around the island sharing tears and love, it was sweet and very grown-up.
I visited the family home in France and I am glad he will be there in the garden. It is a beautiful place for an old soul to rest.
I miss you Sebastien, always.
I will always love you.

Paula

June 4, 2023

Sorry for the loss of such a fine young man. I only knew Sebastien a short while, his exuberance for life will be missed. His zest for life will continue to be remembered by many. Will really miss the conversations in the cab. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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