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Jeffrey R Rexford
October 3, 2025
He guides my designs even today!
Amanda Casey
May 10, 2025
I was so inspired by John´s book A Good House is Never Done that I wanted to take a class at UC Extension and found this obituary. I will work with this book to enhance my 65 year old kitchen. I appreciate the focus in sustainability, and I will try and get a formica cover for my 60 year old Australia maple dining table that shows some wear and tear. and i will add a cot on the porch. Thanks John for all the inspiration
Linda and Geoffrey Williams
January 22, 2021
What a privilege to have spent
Such delightful times with John!!!
Such a generosity of fun and elegance, he lived and shared!
Once, We arrived a day early to his home, for a party.
He never missed a beat, and we enjoyed a delightful time with him all to ourselves!!!!
Our Heartfelt condolences to
Suzanne and all his loving family.
Nicholas J. Feduska, M.D.
November 28, 2020
John Wheatman -- the consummate gentleman and designer. His legacy will be timeless, just as has always been the case with his creations. Several quotations will long remain: "every palacio has its cracks; if you choose to do it, don't hesitate to make a forceful statement; and if it is worth doing, it is worth repeating." Rest in peace, John. God Bless!
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Bruce and Deb MacLeod
November 26, 2020
Words that describe John Wheatman : kind, humorous, gifted, energetic, authentic, enthusiastic, visionary, balm for the soul. We met John 45 years ago through his class offerings at UC Extension, which began our awareness of his talent and vision. We think of him daily, with the gift of his visionary guidance surrounding us at home.
Karen Fiske
November 18, 2020
I have lived for over forty years in the beauty and serenity of John’s aesthetic. He opened my eyes in my twenties when I first walked by his Union Street showroom. That was it! We’ve known such joy from his design!
Geoff and Brenda Scheumann
November 5, 2020
What a perfect soul! John added life to several of our homes as recently as three years ago. He gave us values and perspectives, personal and other that we had never thought of. He changed our view on "Things" and we will greatly miss him. A pure Legend. Rest In Peace John, until next time.
Jeffrey R Rexford
October 31, 2020
Working with John was an honor, for over 25 years we helped realize his designs. He was a mentor and influencers for my own design business. He surrounded himself with the most talented interior designers in the Bay Area. He will be missed.
Carole Kushnir
October 22, 2020
John was introduced to us by our dear friends, Molly and Steve. Their home was so beautiful and we wanted to accomplish the same sense of beauty. Every day we walk through our home and acknowledge all that John did. He designed just about every corner and helped us with our room addition. He was a treasure and will be greatly missed. May he rest in peace.
Stephen Westrate
October 22, 2020
In 1969 my first date with the person who became my wife was at John's shop on Union Street followed by lunch across the street at Perry's. Since then the Wheatman design philosophy and practical approach has been around me. John and his staff helped my late wife and me first in a little cottage in Portola Valley and then again in Woodside. His last design on our behalf was in my current residence in Menlo Park. For the Menlo Park tpwnhouse, we basically dog-eared multiple pages of his first book and replicated them. It has Wheatman bronze walls, floating shelves, matchstick shades, sliding barn doors, dramatic unobtrusive lighting, and "All Over Knots" rug. It was a privilege to have known John and to live in the beauty and simplicity he created. Rest in peace, old friend.
Barbara Shapiro Dolph Shapiro
October 13, 2020
He made our life more beautiful. I remembered when he did my parents home in the 1970s and then he did ours 30 years later. Unforgettable. He was as gracious and elegant as his designs. It was a thrill when he ordered a slew of my small baskets for the showroom. Hot Damn indeed.
Gordon Harper
October 13, 2020
He was a remarkable man in that he brought families joy in the home they already lived in with all their "things" thoughtfully arranged. His breadth was unique in that he visited homes of the very wealthy in San Francisco and made huge improvements in lesser homes in Los Trancos Woods (Portola Valley) that had been built as vacation cabins prior to 1940! He was at ease with every project and every person. Love.
October 12, 2020
My parents lived in the same building as John and Mary. When they passed many years ago, John was so thoughtful and compassionate to all of us. Throughout my 50 years in Interior Design, John set the bar high to follow in regards to his way of listening and being with his clients. I can already imagine that you're loving designing heaven, John! Namaste, Carla
Donald Haigh
October 12, 2020
John Wheatman was one of a kind, the likes of which one rarely comes across and I had the privilege to work with him and his colleagues to supply wool carpets for his clients.
A wonderful gentleman in every sense of the word!
Hamilton Helmer
October 12, 2020
John was a treasure. As an artist he was able to transform interior spaces into contemplative refuges. It was never about being showy or celebrating himself. My wife and I had the privilege of letting John transform our home. Our lives are better for it - "Hot damn!"
Rich Jackson
October 11, 2020
John was a wonderful person who I've known since I was a young lad when John was an integral part of my families' furniture business in Oakland early in his career. Oh so smooth and sophisticated with impeccable taste. John and Mary will always have a place in my heart.
Linda
October 11, 2020
What a delightful person! He would remember your apartment before he would remember your name. He was always such a gentleman and loved people and beautiful things. He helped us design two apartments and then helped our sons with each of their first homes.
XCarolyn Corwin Robinson
October 11, 2020
I remember going through John's store constantly as a young woman living in San Francisco. He so influenced my style. Wonderful memories of talking with John in the store before I could even afford to buy anything.
Rest in Peace.
Summer Chaney
October 11, 2020
John Wheatman inspired me in all ways in transforming our home
One of my most joyful memories is going to his store on Saturdays and listening to his delightful stories and walking through the store, upstairs and down. something I never tired of. We became dear friends and I will always be grateful for the times we spent together !
Georgina
October 11, 2020
What a wonderful man he was, and I'm happy to have known him.
Marlene
October 10, 2020
This great man had already understood the meaning of unity at an early age and taught others the essentials of life through design. His art will always remain alive. RIP
Francisca Jaramillo
October 10, 2020
Mr. Wheatman was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He had a killer wit and a smile that would melt your heart. I’m so lucky to have known him.
Kathleen O’Keefe
October 9, 2020
I did not have the pleasure of meeting Mr. Wheatman but his book Meditations on Design is one of the best interior design books I have ever read. His rooms made a lasting impression on me. In fact, the last photograph in the book, of his SF living room, and how he described his love of that room brought tears to my eyes. He’s left a magnificent body of work. RIP
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