Karen Linda (Grimes) Coyle, passed away at the Kingwood Medical Center on April 27, 2016, peacefully in her sleep after a short illness.
She was 68. Karen was born January 26, 1948 in Orange, NJ, the only child of the late Frank and Annabelle (Leis) Grimes.
She graduated from Columbia High School in 1976 in South Orange, NJ. She stayed in touch with many of her school friends, who will miss her fiery red hair and freckles greatly. She attended Thiel College in Pennsylvania. Her favorite car during high school was a bright yellow Corvair. After school, she worked at various hospitals and medical offices in New Jersey supporting herself and two sons, until she met the love of her life, John Coyle in 1983 and married on June 22, 1985 in Summit, New Jersey. All of her children and step-children were part of the memorable wedding ceremony. Travel was always exciting when we packed two adults, five children and a large dog in the Caravan along with coolers and luggage. Summer trips to the Poconos and shore areas were her favorite vacation pastimes. The family lived in Scotch Plains, NJ until relocating to Atascocita, Texas in 1986, when her husband was transferred with Exxon Chemical Company. She continued working and was a former employee of Northeast Medical Center in Humble, Kingwood Medical Center, Humble ISD, and various medical offices. She loved to travel and visited London, Jamaica and Cozumel as well as various parks and beaches in New Jersey, Florida, Virginia, Maryland and Texas.
Affectionately known as "Nanny" to her grandchildren, she is survived by her loving husband, John, of more than 30 years; two sons; Jeffrey Burns (San Marcos, TX), Adam and wife Karla Burns (Houston, TX), step children: John and wife Kathy Coyle (Morristown; NJ), Patrick and wife Miranda Coyle (Pequannock, NJ); Deirdre Coyle (Washington, DC). Six grandchildren: Jake Hallmark (Humble, TX); Sebastian Burns (Houston, TX); Hayden Coyle, Reanna Coyle, Lia Coyle, Pequannock, NJ; Stella Coyle (Morristown, NJ); and long-time friends. She is also survived by her two loving dogs, Maizy and Spencer, who miss her bright smile and warm lap.
Karen was an avid photographer and many of her photos remain on walls and in family albums. After relocating to Atascocita, Karen spent much of her spare time volunteering with her husband as a dispatcher and EMS Paramedic at the Atascocita Volunteer Fire Department. Both Karen and John were fixtures on the Friday night EMS crew for many years. She held several command positions on the EMS staff. She was an avid pet rescuer and volunteered at the Houston SPCA and the Kingwood A.A.B.Y. Foundation ("Animals Always Believe in You" Thrift shop. During her stay in Texas, she adopted seven rescue dogs who appreciated her love and a warm loving home. Penny, a Dalmatian, was the mascot of AVFD for many years and Oreo, a retired greyhound, loved to greet people during adoption day visits with GPA. When not volunteering, Karen was an avid cross stitcher, photographer, and backyard gardener. The walls of her home are full of framed memories and her yard will continue to attract butterflies and hummingbirds for many years. Her yard was dedicated to Texas Native plants and certified as such in 1999. After breathing problems slowed her down, she enjoyed visits by her grandchildren, reading, collecting antiques and watching PBS TV shows.
The family would like to thank the nurses and staff of Kingwood Medical Center and the AVFD ambulance crew who helped her in her time of distress. At her firm request, there will be no funeral service. She wanted to be cremated. A memorial service will be held to celebrate her life at a future unspecified time.
She will be greatly missed by her loving family and friends, near and far.
In memory of Karen, donations can be made to your local Volunteer Fire Department or animal shelter or adoption group to help more pets find good homes.
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Caroline
May 23, 2016
We think of Karen with such love and appreciation for the friendship we had for so many decades. I am sorry that you and your family are having to go through such a sad time. Please know that we are thinking of you all.
With love,
Pam Wong
May 23, 2016
I'm so saddened by the news of Karen's passing. I knew that she had emphysema and was tethered to oxygen, but didn't realize her condition had worsened except that I hadn't heard from her in awhile. We had lost touch and then a few years ago reconnected. She told me how happy she was in Texas.
Growing up in NYC I didn't meet Karen until 7th grade. We were in the same Sunday School class, sang in the choir so many years at First Presbyterian and Trinity Church. In the choir loft we shared stories and conversations.
We also volunteered in what was the birth of the SCEEP program. The first year we helped with the Vacation Bible School at South Park Calvary Church in Newark. Then in the afternoons we went out to the neighborhood streets with carts fitted with recreation equipment for the children to play with. We would roll them along. I remember we worked with college volunteers Linda Ruby from PA and Damien from AL. The program was started by Richard Wood and one of the first kids who stayed with the growing program was Tony Peele. There were many adventures. You could hear our advancing noisy green, yellow, and orange carts and see us a mile away. With Linda's blonde hair, Damien's tall black physique, Karen's red hair, and my black hair we stood out in that urban neighborhood. There were many fun times and scary ones, too. I'll never forget walking up the stairs to visit one of the student's apartment and falling through the steps which disintegrated!
Later the program (which is more similar to its current state) concentrated on helping the students with school. Transforming a storefront that needed to be cleaned and painted into a safe haven offering assistance we volunteered weekly. Mrs. Dorothy Hoffner drove us down once a week after school to help the students. The program has since evolved into the students being bused in vans to various suburban locations where the students could work with the inner city kids.
Please know I will always remember Karen. Please accept my sincere sympathy.
May 23, 2016
My words cannot express the deep sadness that I feel for the passing of Karen. I will miss her dearly. I will always remember the wonderful times that Diane and I shared with you and Karen on our trips down to TX. It seems sad that we both are now without our wonderful wives, but it's through all the wonderful memories that we have of them that they will live on, and we will too.
Love,
Mike Fussa
May 23, 2016
I remember meeting Karen at a Parents Without Partners dance one lonely Friday Night in June 1983. We were the youngest people in the room. It was a seniors PWP dance. We talked and she was so radiant, I fell in love that night. We started seeing each other and soon I was introduced to her sons, Jeffrey and Adam. Karen met my children, John Patrick and Deirdre, at Thanksgiving. We have been together ever since.
We married on June 22, 1985 at a special ceremony in Summit, NJ. All our children were in the wedding. My brother was the best man and Karen's best friend from Texas was her Bride's maid. The Wedding was special, but the next events proved to be anything but wonderful. While taking group photos in the park, our car battery died when someone left the door and lights on. I helped jump start the car. The A/C had problems in our reception room, which delayed our party an hour. Our honeymoon was in Jamaica at a Sandals resort. Ever since that day, we shared wonderful memories of our life together.
Summer vacations were also memorable, two adults, five kids, a large dog, Max, and camping gear and suitcases loaded in a van. We talk about then still. Great trips to the Jersey Shore, Pine Barrens, Pocono Mountains, Virginia and Connecticut.
We relocated to Texas in September 1986 and have lived in Atascocita ever since.
Karen and John were involved with the Atascocita Volunteer Fire Department since our arrival. She said it was a good way to meet new friends. She was a dispatcher, EMS volunteer and officer. John a firefighter and EMS volunteer, officer and Chief. Many family events were disrupted by the calls for help.
Karen and John were also involved with dog rescue groups and adopted seven wonderful dogs: Penny, a Dalmatian and AVFD mascot, Oreo, a retired greyhound racer, Sam, Clyde, Daisy, Maizy and Spencer.
It seems such a short time since we met in 1983, but were had so many great times and memories.
We will miss you forever
John, Maizy and Spencer
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May 2, 2016
Sincere condolences goes out to the Coyle family for your sad loss.
April 28, 2016
Our lives are shaped by our connection to each other..Your loss, John, is profound and I share your grief and sadness in the loss of your beautiful wife, Karen.
With love,
Ronnie Janecka
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