Ian James Akins

Ian James Akins obituary, Plainville, CT

Ian James Akins

Ian Akins Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Plainville Funeral Home - Plainville on Mar. 13, 2024.

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Our talented and beautiful soul Ian James Akins, passed away on March 10, 2024 in Hartford, Connecticut. Though a life that seems not long enough to those who adore him, it was full of family and close friends that loved him unconditionally and he loved them back hard.
Ian was born on February 5, 1985 to Lee and Lauren Akins. He was raised in Plainville, CT with his parents and sister. Ian was a character from day one. Whether he was in his Hulk Hogan robe or Ghostbusters uniform, he was always making people laugh. He was unbelievably talented at everything he tried, from Kenpo Karate, to gymnastics, basketball, snowboarding, skateboarding and Cross Country. Ian graduated from Plainville High School in 2003.
As Ian grew, so did his faith. He was a proud Catholic and has attended many churches in Connecticut, North and South Carolina. Later in life he became a Knight of Columbus and loved going swimming, painting and going to fairs with his niece Monroe.
Even though Ian's first love for instruments was the drums, he could also be heard on bass guitar, banjo, mandolin and piano. He found his true love when he picked up a guitar and started singing and writing songs. You could hear him playing on guitar Happy Birthday songs at family parties, his original music, Grateful Dead, various Folk & Bluegrass covers outside around a fire, and hosting open mics. He even played for a Connecticut news station, at Strange Creek festival, Non profit events and The Blue Ridge music center with his devoted Dad Lee. His favorite person to jam with was his father and his biggest fans were his sister Kelly and especially his late Mother.
Ian's mother Lauren passed away recently and she loved her little boy like you wouldn't believe. His late grandparents Edward and Rose Waryas, Major James Akins, Harriet and Cecil McCormick loved him so much as well. He leaves behind in this world his loving father Lee Akins, his sister Kelly Zang, brother in law Jerry Zang, niece River Monroe, sister Janet Vidal, brother in law Chris Vidal, nieces Carolina & Halina, his kitty Midnight, aunts, uncles, cousins, and close family & friends. We will remember the good times over the years and miss Ian every step of the way down the road
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday March 21, 2024 at 1:00 p.m. at Our Lady of Mercy Church, 94 Broad St, Plainville. Burial with committal prayers will be held privately.
The staff at Plainville Funeral Home extends their gratitude to Ian's family for their trust. If you would like to honor Ian please make a donation to AA.org or NA.org
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Patti Wilion

March 16, 2024

I met Ian throught playing music and also the connection from working with Lee. He was a very special and talented guy who always made me feel like the only one in the room. His warm gentle spirit will be missed. Thinking of you Lee and Kelly. I know he and Lauren are watching over you all.

Bob Rostohar

March 15, 2024

I lost my dog and made a friend in Ian! I went out back yelling "Angus", "Angus" our little white dog, and a moment later here came Ian, like the pied piper leading our puppy back home, That was first time I saw Ian´s smile, noticed his calm, and could see how tender he was with our puppy! But this wasn´t the last time Ian would be bringing our puppy back, and that is how we became friends. Angus seemed to immediately sense Ian´s energy was drawn to him again and again....like we were.

Soon Ian came over talking about playing guitar and singing. Really...this was certainly new to us, but you could tell Ian was an old pro at it. We said YES and he and Lee came over and we had to most awesome concert on our back deck! Ian sang original he wrote and we really loved it....Lee wasn´t too bad either! :-)

Over the next few months this became a pretty regular occurance. My wife and I joked that we hit the JACKPOT with the best neighbors ever! Ian just seemed to be `natural´! He lit up the room when he picked up that guitar and it seemed like every song came directly from his soul. Our 17yr old daughter suddenly thought we were `cool´ because we have a friend who was a Rock Star! That is the impact Ian had.

About a month or so after we met, Ian had re-kindled my interest in the guitar. After not playing for over 30yrs, I started again. And for the past 8-9months or so I have played every single day. And every single day I think about Ian, and am thankful God brought him into my life. His passion for music, his love of performing, his disregard for what ANYONE else thought really changed my life. Unfortunately I only knew Ian for about a year, but its a year that changed this old mans life. An old man an a rock star......how lucky was I!

Deanna Massey

March 15, 2024

Ian was one of the nicest people I've ever known. He was a friend to all who knew him! He will never be forgotten! So sorry.

Joseph Thompson

March 15, 2024

No matter what, a desk a chair even the wall, Ian would turn those objects into a drum set. Lol Overall Ian was a kind down to earth person that easily became a great friend in your life. You will be missed and never forgotten.

Bob Rostohar

March 15, 2024

We just moved from Texas to Columbia and were lucky enough to move in next door to Ian. I first met him when I went out into the back yard, yelling my dogs name, `Angus, Angus´, and here comes Angus with a new friend, Ian. From the first time we met, Ian was calm and kind, and seemed to always have that radiant smile, well you just have to love someone like that!

Well our puppy kept going to see Ian, multiple times a day it seemed, and Ian was always happy to play with him, and escort him back home. Then one day he asked if he and his Dad could come over and play guitar for us, to get ready for an upcoming performance. Well, sure! This was new, but soon we were sitting on our back deck listening to Ian sing and play guitar with such passion that it was truly infectious. We loved his singing, and playing.....heck, we had a new friend who was a Rock Star! We were so lucky to be able to repeat this several times, and every time it was a blessing. Our daughter was SO impressed that somehow we were "cool" only because of our new friend Ian, as we had never been cool before!

I didn´t get the pleasure of knowing Ian for very long, maybe a year, but it was a blessing I cherish. His playing and singing, motivated me to put up my guitar again, after not playing for 30yrs, and I play every single day. And every single day I thank Ian because he reopened a love of the guitar I had lost long ago. I miss seeing his smiling face showing up at our back door. I will always miss Ian.

Michael Day

March 13, 2024

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Ian was the first person I ever played music with. My first bandmate. He gave me the confidence to perform live for the first time with him by my side. He will always have a special place in my heart. Rest easy, old friend.

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