Martin R. Graf

Martin R. Graf obituary, Mahopac, NY

Martin R. Graf

Martin Graf Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Joseph J Smith Funeral Home Inc on Dec. 9, 2025.
Martin R. Graf, a resident of Mahopac, N.Y, And East Sandwich, MA died on December 7, 2025, after a prolonged illness. He was 87. He was born in Stamford, CT, the son of Martin and Matilda (Wurzenberger) Graf. He attended Stamford High School, the University of Miami, and served in the US Marine Corps. Until retirement, he was employed by Machlett Laboratories. He was a long-time member of the Halloween Yacht Club in Stamford and enjoyed sailing, gardening, and spending time on Cape Cod. In addition to his wife, Carolee Proscia-Graf, Martin leaves three children: Amy Morton (Jeffrey), Jennifer Graf, and Martin Graf, Jr., two step-children: Michael Proscia (Angela) and Anne Proscia Carlson, six grandchildren and three great grandchildren. He also leaves a sister, Lucy LeMay and nephew, Fred LeMay.
With respect, the family has chosen not to schedule funeral services at this time.
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