Norman Arthur Graebner

Norman Arthur Graebner

Norman Graebner Obituary

Published by Daily Progress on May 12, 2010.
Norman Arthur Graebner

Norman Arthur Graebner of Charlottesville, Virginia, died at the Colonnades on Monday, May 10, 2010.

He was born in Kingman, Kansas, on October 19, 1915, the son of the late Rudolph Graebner and Helen Brauer. He was preceded in death by a sister, Agnes; and a brother, Richard; as well as two wives, Laura Baum, who died in 1997, and Jane Shannon, who died in 2002.

He is survived by his wife, Mary Moon Graebner; her six children and their spouses, and 13 grandchildren; Jane's two daughters and their children and grandchildren; a son, the Reverend N. Brooks Graebner of Hillsborough, North Carolina and his wife, Chris, and their son, Martin; a daughter, Emily Tillotson of Rapid City, South Dakota, and her husband, Dr. Loyal Tillotson, and their two children, Genevieve Anne and Loyal Andrew.

He was a graduate of Milwaukee State Teachers College, the University of Oklahoma, and the University of Chicago, where he earned his doctorate. His teaching career centered at Iowa State University in Ames, the University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana, and the University of Virginia, where he was the Stettinius, and then Compton, Professor of History. He also taught at Stanford University, Pennsylvania State University, the United States Military Academy, the College of William and Mary, Marshall University, the Virginia Military Institute, and Beloit College. Abroad he taught at the University of Queensland, the University of Sydney, and the University of Heidelberg.

He served in the United States Army during World War II, receiving his commission in ordnance, in June 1945. He reached the Philippines in July, and was assigned to the headquarters that ultimately oversaw the American occupation of Japan. There, in January, 1946, he was selected to establish the first school for American soldiers in Japan, which opened in Yokohama.

His honors included the Thomas Jefferson Award at the University of Virginia, the Harmsworth Professorship at Oxford University, and election to the Society of American Historians and the American Academy of Arts and Sciences. At the University of Virginia he received the Alumni, IMP Society, Z Society, Jefferson Scholars, and Raven Society awards.

Although he authored, co-authored, or edited over twenty books, mostly in the field of American Diplomatic History, teaching always dominated his life and brought him his most cherished rewards. He recalled his long life in an autobiography, A Twentieth-Century Odyssey: Memoir of a Life in Academe, published in 2002.

There will be a private service of committal at the University of Virginia cemetery.

There will be a public memorial service at the University of Virginia Chapel 2 p.m. Monday, June 7, 2010. The Reverend Ellen White of St. Anne's Parish will officiate.

The family extends a sincere thank you to the staff of the Colonnades for their kind and compassionate care.j

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that memorial contributions be made to Habitat for Humanity of Greater Charlottesville, 501 Grove Avenue, Charlottesville, Virginia 22902, or Episcopal Relief and Development, P.O. Box 7058, Merrifield, Virginia 22116.

Friends may send condolences to the family at www.hillandwood.com.


This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.

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Tom Hardin

September 25, 2020

Three months after he had agreed to be my dissertation advisor at Illinois, he called me in to say that he had just accepted a position at the University of Virginia and he invited me to join him but I decided to stay. But although apart, we kept in touch and no matter he must have been until he passed at 94, he continued to write and wish me the best. A great historian and most wonderful man.
Tom Hardin, now 82

Bill Brandt

December 20, 2018

Of all of the teachers and professors I have had, Norman Graebner is at the top of my list. He could make American diplomatic history come alive.

For those who did not know him, at the beginning of the semester he would be assigned a classroom like everyone else.

But his reputation was such that so many students wanted to take his class he would always end up in the auditorium with a couple of hundred students.

I went back to UVA for my 20 year reunion in 1992 and they had a number of guest lecturers in classrooms we could attend.

Among the classes I took was the now retired professor Graebner in the same auditorium.

At the end of his lecture, he looked at all of us middle-age guys in our seats and started to tear up.

I am just so happy that he knew how many lives he had touched.

Donald Nalls

June 9, 2010

Norman Graebner was a great historian, professor and mentor. He was a gentleman of the first order, and the world is a lessor place as a result of his passing. I shall miss him terribly.

Steve Moriarty

May 17, 2010

I am very sorry to see this news. Mr. Graebner was, simply, the finest teacher one could imagine. I knew him in only that way as a student, 35 years ago, but was fortunate to reconnect with him about 15 years back. As terrific a history professor as he was, he was even finer as a gentleman and friend. I will miss his keen sense of humor, along with his great intellect. My sympathies to his family, but congratulations for having had such a wonderful man in your lives.

Mark Fleming

May 14, 2010

My condolences to Mr. Graebner's family. He was by far the most memorable of my instructors. 40 years later, the lessons he taught still apply. I was fortunate to have such a great teacher.

May 12, 2010

To Brooks and Emily my deepest regrets. I will miss our conversations all these years while he set in my dental chair. Often time slipped away as we got into conversations about a multitude of topics. I enjoyed him as a patient and good friend. The relationship covered a number of years Kindest regards. Jack Wilkerson

Edie Sheerin Patterson

May 12, 2010

Mr. Graebner was one of, if not the, best teacher I had at the U. 30 years later I can recall his lectures, his ability to connect with us, and his clarity of thinking, both in writing and speaking. He was one of a kind in all the best ways. My condolences.

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